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she needs to get tested for aids/hiv!
I went to my friend's house with my girls and there were these guys that came over. After they left, my other friend told me that she had sex wit two of them before and gave one of them head that nite (we are 'new' friends and I just learned she was like that!) ... to make a novel a short story, I was talking with my friend at work and she knows they guys who came over. She tells me that 1 of they guys 'supposedly' has aids and there's a really good chance he does (he ALSO has a girlfriend of over a year. That's who he supposedly got it from)! So I textd my friend and told her she needs to get tested and everything. Her response was "Yea." Apparently this chick doesn't care. She gives head I guess on a regular basis? My other friend doesn't think that she's going to get tested (I don't either)! What can I say to her that will make her go? And where can I tell her to go?
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Stay away from that friend. She is not someone you need to be associating with.
I usually dont advise involving adults immediately, but to be honest this situation is beyond you.
Tell your parents first. They will have a good idea of what can be done. The next two steps are your high school administration and her parents and the boys parents.
But definately tell your parents. They are going to be understanding, stress that you were not involved in any way but you are concerned because some immature little brat who just discovered she has a vagina is using it to spread misery throughout the community.
Please dont be afriad of being some kind of "tattle tale"
It is more important that your "friend" is stopped, what she is doing is possibly criminal. These kids are too young to realize the lives they are ruining and HAVE to be stopped in their tracks.
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Talk to her about going & emphasis how important it is. If someone finds out they have aids/hiv asap, it will make the process a lot easier.
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If you type the information in that site, they will give you listings of local testing centers. They also give tests at the hospital. If you try to explain to her why she needs to go & still doesn't, there isn't much left for you to do. It is her responsibility to get tested. If you are really concerned for her, you could talk to an adult.
-hope that helped!♥
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