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girl confusion
Well theres this girl and a few weeks back she said she liked me, which was great but she had and still does have a boyfriend, i talked 2 her and she likes us both and doesn't know what to do.
one night i got confused by it all and said something stupid "i know u dont like me" so got angry bt this, we didnt talk 4 a while now we made up, but it's not the same, she wont talk like she used to, what should i do, but i dont want to sound to clingy, i really like her. like seriously.
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Dude, I would say just try to like another girl.
That girl that you like right now has a boyfriend and you should wait until they break up for you to seriously start liking her. So, what I'm trying to say is for at the moment, like someone else other that that girl, but you should still keep in contact by talking to her on the phone, but don't talk like you and her are going out, or another thing you could do is ask if she still likes you. If she says yes, but confused, don't worry, all girls say that.
If she says no, just don't get too sensitive about it. Give it sometime and she could start liking you again.
I hope this helped.
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first of all...how old are you? cause unless you're ready to get married and support her boy, you better stop worrying about it. especially if she has a boyfriend. now...seeing as how you upset her, it's going to take time to gain her trust back. have you ever heard it takes seven good things to make someone feel the same about one bad thing? so it'll take some time. be yourself around her, because appearently that's the guy she likes. get to know her and become good friends, that way, when you're old enough, you'll know if you want to start dating, and if you are old enough, like i'm saying 19 or 20 (because you have to have a job to support her) then you dont want to get into a relationship too fast. it'll hurt both of you if you get too close and then have to break off the relationship. so when you're both ready, start slow, just by being friends, go out in group settings, because that way you cant get to intimate too fast. soon you'll both figure out if you want to get closer and closer and want to get married. well, i hope this advice helped. let me know how things turn out.
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You should just remind her how you feel. She does have a boyfriend though, so you can't expect her to run off with you and forget her whole relationship with him. Also, how would you feel if a guy was trying to date your gf?? Probably not so great. If you really like her and she knows your feelings, there's not much left you can do. Its her decision and when she's ready to make it, she will. Try not being upset with her though. If shes leading you on, thats one thing, but if she really is confused with her feelings, thats another. If she doesn't feel the same way about you, you have to move on. Harder than it sounds, but you can't be clinging on to a girl that has a boyfriend. There isn't anything wrong with being friends though. Just make sure you keep your "dating" feelings out of your friendship if she is going to stay with her bf and not you.
-hope that helped!♥
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