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okay this guy named jay hes nice and cool he always drop me off to my class and hes really sweet we pretty much flirt and i kinda liked him too but when my friend said "JAY LIKES YOU" and i was really shocked that he did and i kinda acted cold to him and all of my friends started to tease him that he likes me and after that and he kinda stopped talking to me and we kinda drifted apart when my friend say that jay likes me and now we barely hang out and talk and now he got close to my other friend and they got closer and in AIM he always IM me but he just says "whats up?" and after that i have to make the conversation and he's acting weird lately because he always make a conversation and when i say something small he pays attention to a lot to it but now when i say something all he says is"k" or"oh" also he always drop me off to my class but then when i asked him "are you gonna drop me off to my class?" and he was all"its hella far" and i said "please" and he was like "fine" but i feel weird because he used to didnt care if he was late for class and he always says okay when i ask him or even though i dont ask when he drops me off so im confused right now is he playing hard to get? or what?do you think he likes my friend? did he stopped talking because my friends keep teasing him that he likes me? i like him but hes giving me a mixed signal and im really confused =/
sorry if my grammer isnt good english is not my first language =I (link)
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I went through a similar situation. A guy told me he liked me and it was so awkward! We stopped talking for a while, but eventually, the phase passed, and I like him now!
I would suggest talking to him about how you feel. If you were really good friends, then don't be afraid. At least he still talks to you, even though he's not the same. He maybe think you don't like him. He could also be upset because word got to you before he could tell you, and then you didn't do anything about it, so he may think you don't like him now.
So, try talking, in private. Either call him, or ask if he wants to go out on a saturday for like coffee or something, because you need to talk.
Hope this helped! Let me know how things go! =)
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I've seen this cat around my yard. I can garentee that it's not owned because I live in a small neighborhood, and everyone in it has atleast 2 dogs. The cat lives in a trash pile basicly that me and my family has colected over the year, and it's gotten bigger. Well I want to save this cat before winter comes, it will freze to death! My dogs, one I got was from a family that was broken up and the little dog had no where to go and my family took her in and we now call her Keylii. The other one is a lot bigger then Keylii who is a Tea-cup Pamerian, and his names Bear. Well they've bothc ome from familys that has had cats in the house so my dogs will get along with the cat, but how am I going to get it to come to me? I wana feed it, it's been getting into out garbadge and that can't be filling, But ive never had a cat before. I was thinking about louring it out by like canned tuna, I also have babyfood.. if cats eat that and dog food for little dogs if cats eat that too. But i need to think of the good of the animal. I dont wanna call Animal Services so don't give me that option because what if they put it down??? Then there'd be no point in saving it.. but what if it has a deseice and it bites me? I know im up-dated in my shots so Im not worried about that but if it bites me, and my Mom finds out she wont let if around the baby. I wanna save this cat. I know its homeless and letting it live where it is isnt an option. Neither is calling animal services. Im willing to take the chance of being biten out scratched, I just need some help on how to get the cat out of the pile of nothing.. please anyting is helpful and im sorry for giving u resrtictions but im not going to happy knowing its out there, or that its in the hands of other people who might hurt it.
Anything will be helpful tho. (link)
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This is quite like a situation I've had! We had a stray cat wondering around that would hiss at us, but she wasn't well nourished! We began putting food (cat food, but they eat dog food too, our cats do that all the time) out for her outside. She began eating it every day, and when we saw her around, we tried to call her, she'd hiss, then come closer and pur, then she'd back off and hiss, then come close and let us pet her and pur. It was an odd relationship at first, but eventually she stopped hissing and we now own her. She is our outside cat and she's had kittens (we kept one). She's the nicest cat we've known, and let's my four-year-old brother pick her up all the time.
So, I suggest putting food out for the cat, and just let it come to you. Eventually it should start to become tame by you caring for it, and try calling it and petting it too. This may take a couple/few weeks, so keep in mind it is a process, but it's better than letting it die. Animal rescue is ok too, call a place and ask what they would do if you wanted them to catch a cat you wanted to keep? Or something like that? If they immediately say they want to put it down, then don't ask them for help. However, if you do keep the cat, it will need to go to the vet, and most likely the only reason the animal services would want to put it down or something, is because a vet tells them it's too sick, or something of the sort. Keep in mind, this will be YOUR cat, and animal services should respect what you want for the animal.
Well, I hope this helped! Let me know how it goes! =)
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So.. i have a pretty horrible singing voice
but i LOVE to sing!
i want to know.....
how do i work on my singing voice?
or is this problem not fixable!?
help me out! please
thanxxxxxx =]
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Well, first of all, quit singing to rock, pop, country, rap, whatever! Quit singing to it. Call up a local voice teacher and have her help you. She can let you know if you have potential, which I'm not sure that this is unfixable. Until you get an appointment, here's some other tips.
1. Sing from your diaphram. It's down low, below your stomach, you want to make you belly look big, if you have that down, you've got it. This does take LOTS of practice and even voice coaches took years to perfect this method, and are probably still working on it. But breathing from your diaphram will give you more breath to sing with.
2. Maybe you need to open your mouth a little more? If it's closed to tight, the sound won't be as clean.
3. Stand tall and keep your shoulders relaxed.
4. Try singing tongue twisters every day on a scale. Then try some simple phrases and notes.
5. Sing forward, not in the back of your throat, this is what makes singing sound really bad most of the time.
6. Try drinking plenty of water, and never milk. Milk gets stuck to your throat and clogs it and doesnt make your voice sound very good, and it takes a few hours for the milk to go away.
Hope these tips have helped. Even if you only get a couple voice lessons, it's better than nothing. I've been taking for almost two years now, and my voice is really improving. Also remember that intill your in your mid to late 20s, your voice is still growing, and singing too much will strain it, and keep it from growing to it's full potential.
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alright, so i got in an argument about bible verses with a friend of mine and i need help finding a few.
1. women aren't allowed to minister in the church
2. divorced women can't remarry
3. homosexuality is a sin
4. wearing gold jewelry is a sin
5. you must wait until marriage to have sex
only NEW TESTAMENT verses please, if you have any or all of these it would be greatly appreciated. thanks. (link)
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What don't you agree with? What is your opinion? And why did you ask for verses if you already have an opinion?
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Well, I'm glad you're looking for verses and not just saying, "this is how it is". That's a great start! Try not to be so aggressive though.
1. Woment aren't allowed to minister in the church.
Ok first of all...what do you mean? I agree that women should not be preaching and so forth, but there is a place for their teaching. Try this website... http://bible.com/bibleanswers_result.php?id=141
2. Divorced women can't remarry
Well I wouldn't say can't cause there sure is alot of that today! But we shouldn't. Try this websit for an answer... http://bible.com/bibleanswers_result.php?id=151
3. Homesexuality is a sin.
Yes it is! Who would believe it isn't! It's a serious health issue and a mental problem! Here's a site for answers to this... http://bible.com/bibleanswers_result.php?id=246
4. Wearing gold jewelry is a sin.
I've never heard this one before! It doesn't say anything in the new teastament about this, i don't believe. I can't find anything on this... but at the bottom of this post i will put the main website i found these answers on.
5. You must wait until marrige
Yes, this is definatly wrong and is mentioned quite a bit in the bible. Here's a couple links for some references... http://bible.com/bibleanswers_result.php?id=256
http://bible.com/bibleanswers_result.php?id=152
I hope that I have been of some help!
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i got a new fish (tropical) and its looks like an eel slash worm... i forget the name but anyway it is really fast and it swims around the tank non stop like i mean speedy gonzales! i think it has to keep swimming to breath or something i dont know but the point is i want to call it something to do with how fast it is and something to do with its speed... what can i call it? im up for anything... put as many suggestions as you like but not speedy thanx xx sal (link)
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Here's some ideas...
These are the word 'Speedy' in different languages:
Veloce --- Italian
Snel --- Dutch
Schnell --- German
Or there's the name 'Eve', it means 'Life'
And here's a website you can try too... http://unique-name.perceptus.ca/mixer-seed.php?cat=fish
Hope this has helped! Good luck on your new fish!
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If I wanted a boyfriend, but my parents wont let me, should I go about it the sneaky way and not tell them ? What would be the cons and pros to that if I did? I'm turning 14. (link)
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no, you should not go behind your parents back! there can be and are some major consequences! your parenst would find out sooner or later anyways, and think or not only how you would feel, but the punishment you would get! trust me, there are lots of guys who will still like you later on. i'm waiting for the perfect guy before i get into a relationship, and my parents set limits on when i can "date" a guy. you only need one guy, and he will be perfect! and think about it...whats the point in dating? the point of it is to find the guy to marry, not for fun, just to say, "i'm dating this guy". you can get seriously hurt! you start giving yourself away to a guy you probably wont marry! then think of how your husband will feel! what i would do (and have done) is write a list of standard you your your future "husband" need to meet. one of mine is that he saved himself for me, and i for him. i'm also saving my first kiss for our wedding day. think about all the long term consequences that will happen if you date now, especially behind your parents backs. also, ask your parents the reasoning behind their decision, maybe that will help. if your friends are pushing you into this dating at 14 thing, then your need new friends.
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Okay so I'm a little shy you could say.
I really want this one guy to "notice me"
but i don't want to look stupid or not be myself
i've known him since 1st grade.
he sortof likes another girl and they've gone out
before. and he's liked me before but theres something about him that i just really like. he's into skating and rock and im into a lot of the same but how can i get him to notice me? should i stick out? im sortof shy. oh god what should i do!? i guess i like singing and he likes singers and he has a band but im so shy! i need help.. (link)
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ok, well first of all, you want this guy to like you for who you are, so, if your shy, dont try to get al outgoing, or you might scare him with who you aren't. so be yourself. are you friends with his friends? if so, then hang out a little more with them, then you could get the chance to be around him. trust me, you want him to notice you, you dont want to push your way onto him. things will work out, and if he doesnt notice you, he's not the right guy for you, and dont worry about it. there's one guy for you, and you'll find him, and when you do, you'll know it.
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Well theres this girl and a few weeks back she said she liked me, which was great but she had and still does have a boyfriend, i talked 2 her and she likes us both and doesn't know what to do.
one night i got confused by it all and said something stupid "i know u dont like me" so got angry bt this, we didnt talk 4 a while now we made up, but it's not the same, she wont talk like she used to, what should i do, but i dont want to sound to clingy, i really like her. like seriously. (link)
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first of all...how old are you? cause unless you're ready to get married and support her boy, you better stop worrying about it. especially if she has a boyfriend. now...seeing as how you upset her, it's going to take time to gain her trust back. have you ever heard it takes seven good things to make someone feel the same about one bad thing? so it'll take some time. be yourself around her, because appearently that's the guy she likes. get to know her and become good friends, that way, when you're old enough, you'll know if you want to start dating, and if you are old enough, like i'm saying 19 or 20 (because you have to have a job to support her) then you dont want to get into a relationship too fast. it'll hurt both of you if you get too close and then have to break off the relationship. so when you're both ready, start slow, just by being friends, go out in group settings, because that way you cant get to intimate too fast. soon you'll both figure out if you want to get closer and closer and want to get married. well, i hope this advice helped. let me know how things turn out.
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