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If I wanted a boyfriend, but my parents wont let me, should I go about it the sneaky way and not tell them ? What would be the cons and pros to that if I did? I'm turning 14. (link)
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well i think its really weird how some parents won't let their children have boyfriends untill a certain age. but if i were you i would be sneaky and go behind my parents back. so if your all good with going behind your parents backs i say go for it because you might not get to go out with anyone you like and when the time comes and you are allowed to go out with boys they may not want to go out with you anymore. and if you wanted to go on a date with him then you can just say that your going out with your friends somewhere.
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So me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for 7 months and 2 days to date. We're sophmores in highschool and extremely close. The point of my post is what exactly should I tell my mom in the way of guiding her to let me spend the night at his house? I've come out and asked her once or twice before and I've gotten "no" and "I didn't in the same bed as your father until we were married." (link)
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how old are you for starters? if you don't mind me asking..
all parents say no whenever you ask that question even if your acually not going to have sex. you two sound like your very close, and if your absolutly sure that you want to have sex then i wouldnt bother asking your parents again. i don't know if going behind your parents backs and lying to them is one of your options. but if i wanted to have sex with my bf i would jus say that i am going to a friends house or something...if his parents are all good with you staying at his house then i would definitly use that exuse to have sex with him. but then again if his parents don't want you two to have sex either then you have to wait or find another place to do it. But the only other option i can think of is if you wait until your parents or his parents go out for the night and you could just do it there.
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Hey I don't know who to ask but I really like this guy and we are close friends and I've told him before that I like him but we did'nt get together. I want him to notice me as girlfriend material. How do I do subtle things that will slowly turn him on? I can't do kissing on the neck or sitting with a short skirt on. I wanna be classy but seductive how do i do it i thought you would probably know. Help as much as you can please. Thank you =.= (link)
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i think that you should just be yourself don't try to be someone your not just to impress him...if you are confident enough to give him a kiss on the cheek like if you go to hug him then kiss him on the cheek, then i would do that but its totally up to what you feel comfterbal with(sorry can't spell lol).
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My best friend (D) told me not to long ago that she had sex when she was 12, now shes 14. I was shocked and disgusted too, because people always thought she was a whore. My other best friend told me that D told her that it happened more than once. Once in the bed, once in the shower, once on the beach, and once somewhere else, and a couple other times. This was all with her boyfriend (M). M died last year, and he was only 13. Anyway, she didn't tell me it happened all those times,because she knew I'd be even more disapointed I guess. When D told me about the first time, I told her I had lost respect for her. I think she is a whore. One time in class we were counting all the guys she dated, and I was naming random names and she would be like Yup. The total was 17. D turned 14 a few months ago. Would you agree that D is a whore? Also, would it be wrong to stop talking to her, because of that. (link)
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i dont think she is a whore unles she has done it with more guys other than (M)...but if she has only done it with (M) then i don't think that she is a whore.
but 12 is realy realy young to have sex even if those two had been going out for ages. but i don't think that you should stop talking to her, just try to move on with life and forget that she has had sex quite a few times, because it is her life and if she wants to do that with her life its her choice..just don;t follow in her footsteps.
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I am going out with this guy and one of my closest friends just told me he cheated on me. I talked to him about it and he admitted to it, but he keeps trying to make excuses for it, and it was with this girl who he hooked up with before we were going out. He said it was over, but obviously its not. He also only apologized once, which makes me think he does not regret it. I really have no clue what to do about this, and any advice is really greatly appreciated. (link)
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pretty much the exact same thing happened to me...no-one deserves to get cheated on ever its completly wrong..i don't want to make this about me but when i found out my bf had cheated on me for the first time we didn't break up which we probably should have done..but then he thought that since i let the first time go it was ok that he kept doing it with different girls...so it sounds like your still going out with him-you may really like him but trust me its the wrong thing to do, you should break up with him ASAP-and also if he only said sorry once that doesn't show that he cares about you much-and through recent experience the best thing to do is to break up with him, im sorry if this is not what you would like to hear but it is the right thing to do.
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OKAY i might be a tad paranoid, but im 13, female, and i have been going out with this great guy for eh 7 months now, well he comments this girl like more than he comments me on myspace, and he always is like, your a loser, or your stupid, and stuff, and he comments all her pictures and doesnt comment mine, and i know im being soo parinoid, but its bothering me, and he commented one of her pictures saying this one is the coolest. or this is the best, and does that mean he thinks it was pretty?,
i know for the 3rd time im very parinoid, but help me out here. :D
thanksooomuch (link)
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i don't think your being paranoid at all...this is obviously bothering you very much. i do't want to make this about me but my ex boyfriend did exactly the same thing to me comments on other girls pictures and talks to her and not me..well my point is that it turned out that he had cheated on me with sevral different girls..im not saying your boyfriend is cheating on you, and you two have been going out for quite a while now-if you really like him i think you should maybe talk to him about this girl-ask him if he has feelings for this girl or just ask him some questions that you feel you want to know about them...hope everythings ok
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My girlfriend how I am hopelessly in love with is going to a party tonight and I can't go; and there will be alcohol there and she loves to get drunk...I trust her with my whole heart but when shes drunk she loses control of what she does and she has told me stories of how she got drunk and she made out with guys...she promised me that nothing would happen and we tell each other EVERYTHING!! I just want to know what you guys think will happen if she gets drunk and how can I find out if anything DID happen?
thanks guys
Tyler (link)
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i thinnk that you should trust her...but obviously there is going to be that worry of her making out with another guy since she has told you that she has done it before.
so if you know any of your friends that are also going to that party then maybe you could ask them to keep an eye on her and tell you if she does do anything with any guys.
if you really don't want her to go to the party maybe you should ask her if you two could do something together--though i don't know why you are not allowed to go to that party-maybe it's because its a party and your parents don't want you going to a party or maybe your grounded or something...but if your not grounded and you don't want her to go to that party i think you should ask her to do something with you that night.
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I have been married for 8 years and my husband and I are still pretty young (37 and 33); we have two kids and WE HARDLY EVER HAVE SEX. Lately it's been once every three weeks. I know we are still attracted to each other and I know we are both faithful, it's just that being parents totally sucks all the energy from us. Any advice? (link)
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i think its great that you two are good parents to your kids and put them first...but it really sounds that you two don't get much time to yourselves, so i think that you should leave your kids with a freind or grandparent for some nights so you two can have some time alone, go out for dinner or whatever...
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My boyfriend was fingering me tonight, I guess we got pretty into it. He's popped my cherry already, so I know it isn't that. But I started to bleed. I'm assuming he must have done it too hard or possible scratched me. (Its not my period either) So, I'm not going to do anything for a few days to let it heal. But is there anything else I should do? I shouldn't see a doctor, should I? Its not THAT much blood. Thanks! (link)
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i think your right, you should leave it for a while to let it heal if it is a scratch...but if you think it is healed and you do the same thing again and it keeps happening o definitly think you should go to see a doctor - but remember its only if it keeps happening over and over again.
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ugh i have so much eyeliner and it wont juss stick to my eye....does anyone know a good brand of eyeliner? (link)
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how much did you buy it for?
and where did you buy it?
if you happened to buy it really cheap one those are very bad for your eyes and you should stop getting and using that type of eyeliner.
i think that any eyeliner from a brand like Loreal, Maybeline, Napoleon, revlon any others like that will be fine...these eyeliners are not too expensive and will stay on your eyes.
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i have the wet 2 straight hair straighenter and it's wearing out. the metal part is rusting, i think it's from using it while my hair was wet. well that's what it was meant for. but anyway, i need a new straightener. i have easy hair to work with and it takes me 30 minutes to do my hair with the wet 2 straight hair straightener. but i need a new straightener. please give me good ones that will do my hair in even less time but a reasonable price to buy. & the straightener has to be ceramic! thanks! (link)
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rimmington and GHD hair straightners are some of the best you can get but im not sure about the price range.
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My boyfriend and i are spending the night together, but we can't think of where to sleep. My house is out and so is his. Any suggestions? (link)
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Do you mean you want to sleep together?
IF SO:
- if you do mean sleep together than maybe you should wait till either your parents are going away for the night or going on holiday for a weekend or maybe you should just wait.
IF NOT:
- i don't see why your parents should have a problem with your boyfriend sleeping over but if you want sex read the above.
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