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He cheated on me.
14/girl
I am going out with this guy and one of my closest friends just told me he cheated on me. I talked to him about it and he admitted to it, but he keeps trying to make excuses for it, and it was with this girl who he hooked up with before we were going out. He said it was over, but obviously its not. He also only apologized once, which makes me think he does not regret it. I really have no clue what to do about this, and any advice is really greatly appreciated.
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pretty much the exact same thing happened to me...no-one deserves to get cheated on ever its completly wrong..i don't want to make this about me but when i found out my bf had cheated on me for the first time we didn't break up which we probably should have done..but then he thought that since i let the first time go it was ok that he kept doing it with different girls...so it sounds like your still going out with him-you may really like him but trust me its the wrong thing to do, you should break up with him ASAP-and also if he only said sorry once that doesn't show that he cares about you much-and through recent experience the best thing to do is to break up with him, im sorry if this is not what you would like to hear but it is the right thing to do.
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hey there...
ok so your boyfriend has cheated on you .. that is wrong and no girl likes it when that happenes.
he has apologized once ....thats very poor if he wants you back and he'z not trying hard. i suggest you don;t bother with him because its a chance he WILL cheat on you again and hurt your feelings again.
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Maybe he doesn't regret it, after all he only appologized once. And his friend told you, he probably wasn't even planning on telling you or admitting it if someone hadn't of told you first. It doesn't exactly sound as if he's begging for forgivness. Ask if he would have told you if his friend hadn't of. If no one found out do you think he would of continued cheating on you? Plus he's making excuses for it. It's no ones fault but his own, so he should own up to it. If I were you I would dump him and find someone who would appreciate you and wouldn't even consider cheating.
::Jasmine::
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If you're going out with someone & they cheat on you -- then obviously the person they cheated on you with has something you don't.
It's nice to know you're not enough right? Fuck this kid, leave him. Cheating isn't cool & no excuse in the world could make up for it.
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Give him one more chance. If he does it again, or if it bothers you that much, dump him. You're young, there are plenty more boys out there.
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