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What do I do?
My girlfriend how I am hopelessly in love with is going to a party tonight and I can't go; and there will be alcohol there and she loves to get drunk...I trust her with my whole heart but when shes drunk she loses control of what she does and she has told me stories of how she got drunk and she made out with guys...she promised me that nothing would happen and we tell each other EVERYTHING!! I just want to know what you guys think will happen if she gets drunk and how can I find out if anything DID happen?
thanks guys
Tyler
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Hey. It's really sweet that you and your girlfriend are so close and I know that if she was in control of her body, she would stay faithful to you. However, as you know, it is typical of people who are drunk to lose control of themselves and do things that they may not even remember in the morning. Talk to your girlfriend and tell her you're worried, maybe she won't even go! As for if she does do something she shouldn't, she'll probably tell you herself if she remembers but stories like that get around anyway, if something happens you'll hear about it. Try not to worry too much, people learn from their mistakes and it's best to just have faith in your girlfriend until a mistake is actually made. Goodluck ♥ fabulous
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i thinnk that you should trust her...but obviously there is going to be that worry of her making out with another guy since she has told you that she has done it before.
so if you know any of your friends that are also going to that party then maybe you could ask them to keep an eye on her and tell you if she does do anything with any guys.
if you really don't want her to go to the party maybe you should ask her if you two could do something together--though i don't know why you are not allowed to go to that party-maybe it's because its a party and your parents don't want you going to a party or maybe your grounded or something...but if your not grounded and you don't want her to go to that party i think you should ask her to do something with you that night.
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hey tyler,
well if she said nothing will happen then nothing should happen because you trus her right?
but remember when someone gets drunk they dont have control over themselves so anything could happen. just tell her PLEASE not to get drunk because you dont want her making out with anyone at the party. if she says she wont then trust her. i mean she is your girlfriend who you love, nd your love should have trust.
but if you really want to find out if anything happened then ask her straight up, if you dont want to do that then ask your friends who were probably there to tell you the truth or you can just ask people who were at the party.
i hope evryting works out for you guys goodluck
xoxo
blackluna7111
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Alright Tyler. She said nothing would happen so nothing should happen but she is drunk and when your drunk the part of your brain that tells you if your doing something right or wrong switches off. I watch discovery channel =P. Anyways if she has been drunk before than she knows this when she goes to the party. If she cheats on you you definetaly have a right to get angry with her but forgiving her is what could make her a little more responsible next time she decides to go out. Now you have to trust her! She's your girlfriend. To found out if she did anything ask people who went to the party. Information is going to pop out accidently or on purpose. No one keeps there mouth shut these days but the first person you should ask is her and don't interogate her! Tell her you trust her but just want to know from her if anything happened. =) Hope all goes well for you. Any other problems ask!
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Honestly, I would worry if I was in your situation as well, especially with those stories of hers. To find out if anything happens, you'll just have to ask people who were there. Sit down and talk to her, maybe ask her not to drink.
You could say something like,
"I know you promise nothing will happen, but if you drink, especially if you drink a lot, you'll lose control of yourself. I know you wouldn't cheat on me sober, but if you are drunk you won't really know what you're doing. Can you please not drink at that party? Or at least not a lot. I love you and I just don't want anything bad to happen to our relationship."
I hope I helped at least a little.
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hun, when i first started dating my ex he promised to never cheat because he was cheated on & it was the worst feeling. after 3 months of dating, new years (our 3 month anniversary)he got drunk and had sex with another girl and lied to me about it for 6 more months. i found out through everyone else at the party. they took a vow that what happened there stayed there, but they liked me more than him so they told me the truth. really the other people there are the only ones you can trust. i'm not trying to get you worried or anything..it just happens with drinking which is why it was a big deal to me that my current bf not be involved in that stuff
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