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Ok yes i know i could figure it out by having sex but like that seems to risky and i've been on the pill for a few months, like 6 or 7 months maybe more but the thing is i didnt start using it for having sex, it was for my skin. So i havent really been very punctual about it. Sometimes a few hours off and every rare once in awhile i miss a day and just take two the next day but that happens rarely. My period is extremely regular i get it on the exact same day every month, if that'll help. I just wanna know if its safe for me to have sex without a condom or is it too risky? (link)
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Its risky to have sex without a condom, but not because you will get pregnant. :) Because some STD's can actually be life threatening, I can't tell you not using a condom is without risk.
If you have been on the pill for 6 or 7 months, you should be protected from pregnancy. I know everyone thinks you have to take it at the same time every day. That really isn't true. Taking it at the same time every day simply helps remind you to take it. If you take it everyday with breakfast, for example, it becomes a habit. So, being a few hours off is not a big deal. The thing is to remember to take it.
You don't want to miss one if you're using it for protection against pregnancy. If you have been taking it a while, chances are slim you would get pregnant, but that's a chance you don't want to take.
Rest assured that the pills you are taking for skin care will work just fine as a birth control.
Just don't forget to take one. There is no real test to tell if its working.
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Hi.
My husband's legs hurt him a lot. They feel like they are on fire most of the time. When I massage them the muscles feel like sand almost. We've been trying to figure out what it is without having to go to the doctor.
Any ideas? (link)
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He needs to see a doctor. Burning pain in the legs could be a sign of sensory nerve damage. Its especially important if he is diabetic. Its not my intention to scare you, but it could also be a sign of multiple sclerosis.
Only a doctor can let you know for certain if this is a medical problem. It is something that he needs to have checked out soon. It may be nothing, but don't take that chance. You'll both feel better if a doctor tells you that.
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so i just got together with this one guy and things are great
our whole school things we are the cutest couple
and we agreed to be together for the remainder of highschool
(cause we've been friends since 4th grade and we're juniors in hs now)
but i can't help but think about some of the other guys in my school
and how things will never work out with them cause i have a bf
like.. i don't know i'm so confused (link)
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Since you are thinking that way, I'd say you are not ready to be tied to just one guy right now. There is absolutley nothing wrong with that! When the right guy for you comes along, you will know it and not worry about any other guys. :)
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okay so long story short im a cheater.... but i never feel bad about it. why? why don't i ever feel guilty? (link)
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Short answer...Because you really care very little for whoever you are cheating on. You don't care if you hurt them or not.
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So recently, i had to put my shih tzu to sleep. and my mom told me i could get another dog. Now i want a medium sized dog, who doesn't shed too much. But im lost on the type of breed to get. I had an australian shepherd, or a basenji. But i'm not quite sure, any suggestions? (link)
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A Yorkshire terrier. Of course I am partial to them having 2 myself. Most of them are small dogs. However, you can get one cheap or free in a lot of cases if a breeder gets one that is a little large. They are considered undesirable by those wanting the little purse puppies. I have the larger ones. They won't fit in anyone's purse but they aren't large dogs at all. The big plus is they do not shed at all. :)
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I am a 22 year old female with a 25 year old boyfriend. I have a great boyfriend, who I know would never do anything wrong or do anything to hurt me, but I always find myself questioning what he's doing, who he is talking to, where he is going, etc. I torture him relentlessly every day, even though I know it's wrong. I don't want him to break up with me, because honestly he is the best thing in my life, and I will never find anyone who loves me as much as he does, but I can't control my behavior and the way my mind thinks so negatively. Can someone offer SOME kind of advice that might've worked for you? (link)
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I am going to take a stab at this question. I don't know how helpful my answer will be though.
I am going to guess that you have been in a relationship before where someone has cheated on you. Either that or maybe you have been close to someone who has had that happen. Razhie has given you some good advice, she is one adviser whose advice I trust & respect. Therapy may help, I don't know.
The truth of the matter is that even someone, who you know in your heart would never hurt or cheat on you...can. When it happens it can totally devastate you. You are left not knowing what if anything another guy says to you is true. Whats he not saying? Is he lying by omission? You tend to question every single solitary thing he says or does. Its a sad result of being totally blindsided by one you trust with your heart. You don't want to feel and act that way. But hey, look what happened last time you trusted. I may have it all wrong but it sure does sound familiar. :)
I'm afraid like all things it takes time. You can and will get over it. Like Razhie said therapy could help. If not with all things then with some things. Mainly you just have to learn to put bad memories behind you and move on. All the questioning of his whereabouts and worry about what he may be up to isn't going to change things in the end. When you give your heart to anyone you are open to being hurt by that person. If they are important enough to you, you just have to trust anyway and risk being hurt.
Time kiddo. Just takes time. When you start feeling that way just remind yourself he hasn't done anything & trust him.
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i was wondering if you keep your car in good shape such as gettin regualr check ups and oil changes and gettin it fixed when it needs fixed does the mileage actually matter? (link)
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Do you mean as in a car you are wanting to buy? One with high mileage vs low mileage?
If so, then it could matter a lot. A high mileage car that's been well taken care of can be a good bargain. Its likely, if you take care of it yourself, to last a long time yet.
If you go racing around in it or attempting to do burnouts...you know show off stuff, it probably won't take it for long. If you drive like a sane person, and can get the car for a really good price,
it would be a great first car.
If that doesn't exactly answer your question, feedback me with more details & I will try again.
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Soo... a lot has happened the last 3 months.. I'm still seeing the ex...but unoffically, has he still dates the other one. He spoke to my momma trying to make peace, my mom was all for it.. then he never broke up with her. There are days where he really seems like he wants to be with me, and admits that I'm like the unoffical girlfriend/part time one. He's unsure of what he wants, and he knows that he means a great deal to me. On the 18th I had a doctors appt and wasnt gonna make it to class in time, and he said go home and dont worry about it, and that he'd stop by after class just so he could say he saw me. So he indeed came over for 20 minutes just to see me.
The other day I asked his gf not to hate me, and she said not to take it personally and that to add her on fb so if they broke up we could gang up on him...It's all of a mix juggle, but I won't add her first thats for sure. :)
On a side note...
back a month ago I got a new phone right, with a new number.. so I decided the right thing to do was to text the former best friend..and just tell him.. apparently I gave him an attitude when I texted him, but thats how he took it.. so last week I had a bio problem, and he is a bio major right...so I took it as a shot, and apparently he was a tad tipsy thats why he answered. If he was sober he wasnt gonna even answer my text from the attitude I gave him back last month..so anyways, I asked if he would do my paper and I'd make him the brownies I owed him from 2 years ago..and we got into the whole brownie thing, and he somewhat remembers me owing him brownies after I refreshed him memory. So I'm like do u want the brownies? and he's like 'up to u'..so anyways he accepted my brownies..and we talked for like 30 minutes outside his house.. and hes like 'ill talk to you on AIM..' im like 'whoa now I can talk to you?!' and hes like 'well I have talked to you the last 3 days everytime you IM me.. but if you piss me off I won't..' im like 'ok then'.. so I won't step over that line at all. :)
but yeah.. I have a mix of things here. i'm losing the ex boyfriend..and slowly gaining back the ex best friend at the same time.. (link)
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Oh girl what a mess. Sure wish you could get over this guy and find one who treats you like your the only girl on the planet. :)
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what does rediculous mean here? (link)
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If you are meaning ridiculous it means absurd or funny.
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I already know how to change the font color on MySpace, but what colors can you actually use? I already know that you can use pink, red, orange, yellow, green, blue & purple. What other colors can you use? (link)
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Here are some charts for you. Just type in the number & there you go! They work here too, by the way. :)
http://www.immigration-usa.com/html_colors.html
http://gotomy.com/color.html
Many, many more here...
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I share an account on Verizon Wireless with my mom, her being the main person or whatever. I'm subscribed to ringback tones, but she isn't. So when I log into the account, change it to my phone, then go to manage my ringback tones, it tells me I can't manage them because I'm not subscribed. It must be switching back to her number since it says I'm not subscribed. How can I access MINE on the website? Someone please help me because I've been trying to figure this out for months. I know I can do it on my phone, but that's not what I'm trying to do. I need to do it on the internet because I'm trying to turn off the little greeting thing before the music plays. Thanks to anyone who can help me. (link)
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If you go to the My Verizon, my account page, in the second column, at the top, is a phone number.
It will be your moms if she is main person. There is a drop down arrow there. Click on that, bring your number up & you should be able to access your account without problems. :)
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I'm love my boyfriend and he loves me. Neither of us is religious so we don't really believe in the whole "wait until you're married" thing. We've done everything except sex. He wants to have sex, and I do too, but I'm kind of scared it might change our relationship. Lately all we've been talking about is having sex, and I'm afraid once we do, there's not really going to be a meaning to our relationship anymore. I brought this up to him and he said that he doesn't look forward to sex as much as he looks forward to seeing me and just hanging out with me. So maybe I'm just paranoid, but does sex change a relationship? Did it ever change yours? Please don't tell me "if you're asking questions then you aren't ready for sex" because I think it helps to ask questions so you can prepare for sex :) Oh and we're both virgins if that helps. Thanks! (link)
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Sex will change your relationship. No doubt about it. You are not being paranoid. It doesn't have to be a bad change if you are smart about it.
Being ready for sex doesn't mean you have to do it NOW. As a teen, you have a lot of real good reasons to wait. This isn't a lecture, I was 16 when I had sex the first time. I was also pregnant & married a year later. So, I can see it from both sides!
The main change will be a switch from talking about it all the time, to doing it all the time. It can be annoying because quite honestly, it can seem at times to be the ONLY thing you get done doing.
I think it is great you are talking about it. Most young couples just jump right into it without a lot of thought. So you are on the the right track. Just make sure you consider all possible things & have a plan before you take that next step. It has the power to drastically change not only your relationship, but your entire life.
The decision is yours to make. Be smart & be safe no matter what you decide. Never take chances because its just to big a risk. :)
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How long after your first missed period do you start puking from being pregnant? (link)
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Probably not for 30 days or so. It really depends on the person. Many never get sick at all. I didn't.
So nausea & vomiting, while a good sign, isn't real reliable.
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I am a new mother and I have a second hand crib for my baby. I heard from another mommy in my building that there are a bunch of cribs that can kill your baby and a big recall going on.
How do I find out if my crib is safe or not? (link)
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http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prerel.html
Look under product...children.
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The man I want to marry wants a prenup. He has been married 2 times before and both of his wifes left him. He says that I dont trust him but doesnt a prenup say that he doesnt trust me to? (link)
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The man has been dumped twice. He has a history of losing. I can understand how he wouldn't be very trusting. I guess if you are intent on marrying someone with his history & aren't after material gains, you sign the prenup and get on with it.
Personally, I think a relationship that begins with no trust between the couple is destined to fail. But I am old & old-fashioned.
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How would you go about getting a road test date (for a drivers license) in the state of Connecticut? I will have had my permit for four months on December 4th and I'm currently taking drivers ed. My last class is on the 20th of December and I would ideally like to take my road test and get my license as soon as possible after that and before the new year.
My problem is, I have no idea how to go about scheduling it. I'm eligible to take it any time after I complete drivers ed, but I'd like to schedule it now because the DMV tends to get backed up. Help? (link)
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I don't know how it works in Connecticut. Here in Kansas the drivers education teacher gives the road test during the drivers ed class & going to the DMV for the driving test isn't necessary.
Check with your teacher. If he/she doesn't give the test, they should have all the information you need on who to call for test scheduling.
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So here's the story...I really just don't know what to think of it all...we are both sophmores in college fyi.
After i broke up with my boyfriend of 6months..because it was a long distance relationship that really wasnt working out anymore...I started hanging out with this new guy. we were hanging out at least 4 nights a week plus seeing eachother & hanging out at parties on the weekend. when we hung out it was just watching movies sitting around..nothing fancy. every once in a while we messed around alittle bit..but not very much. most of the time it was just talking and cuddling..once in awhile we'd spend the night together. after about a month of this he took me to dinner on a friday night. we went to a school basketball game after dinner..saturday I went to his football game & we went out with a bunch of freinds that night. we spent the night together after that & went to lunch the next day. I was really busy on that monday so I didnt get a chance to talk to him..but then when i talked to him on tuesday he had a girlfriend....ummm? what happened? all of his freinds said that they hadnt even been talking and they were all really confused. they have been dating for about 2 weeks now and he continues to call me and text me saying how much he likes me and how much he misses me and how much of a mistake he made....i just dont know what to do now? i was really starting to fall for him and i really wish we could have kept hanging out..he keeps saying hes going to break up with his gf...that hes just waiting for her to give him a reason..idk help? (link)
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The truth of the matter is this. He spent all that time with you. Got a few perks making out, then decided to go make some other girl his girlfriend.
Don't waste any more time with this guy. Having a girlfriend and getting a little action on the side is the oldest trick in the book. He is going to say ANYTHING to give you the impression you are the one for him. He's lying.
Get real. If you really like someone and want to be with them, you Do NOT wait for the current girlfriend to give you an "excuse" to break up with them. You just do it for you and the one you really care about.
What his friends know is not important. Friends have been known to lie too. The smartest thing you can do here is to forget this cheat. Do not talk to him, do not listen to his bullshit. He is
wanting to use you. He will hurt you. Move on before it gets even more complicated.
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im told not to tell a soul because its getting somewhat taken care of. so il ask un-named. my bff is very badly depressed bc her moms boyfriend abused her so she told her mom after a while and he killed her mom and he went to jail which was a little over a year ago. now she lives with her grandparents. her grandpa is very bad bipolar and abuses her as well but only her none of her younger siblings. today she finally told me about what her grandpa does and showed me her new bruise which is very bad, it is like right on under her breast an its bloody red and very swollen and stuff she wont even put anything on it because its swollen and itd make it bigger. still which happend two days ago it even ripped her shirt. this weekend he is going to treatment for bipolar so she is running away and staying with a certain friend because he will be very bad. he is also their only source of income since the grandma cant work so if he goes they go homeless. hes going into treatment so it will maybe get better and if she gets taken away hed probly go for her little siblings so she wants to stay and take it for them. she also has anger management problems and depression so shes very agressive to people but i dont blame her. what can i do? any advice on any of this and as much advice as possible?! its getting better so i am not telling. im almost 16 and she is 14 (link)
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You should be telling. The grandparents in this case are incapable of providing a safe home for any of them.
This whole thing isn't making sense to me. She isn't making sense at all. Shes running away on the one hand and yet she wants to stay and take it for her siblings? If she runs she will probably be taken away. She/you, somebody needs to contact proper authorities and have all the children removed from the home before someone is killed.
Don't stand by and watch it happen. Your friend will need some mental help as well. Her anger is probably a result of all the abuse she has endured.
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I'm 17, driving.
I can't drive much because I need gas for my car and my parents can like only give me soo much moeny you know. I need a job.
I live in a very farmland area, So, I applied to stores that are like 10 minutes away. That was back in April/May when I first got my license. I never got hired, and then summer came and I just figured I'll have my last summer to have fun and play tennis and stuff. Last month (October) I figured stores will start hiring for the holidays. So I reapplied at all them stores. Well it's November and I still haven't heard. I did reapply for a third time, and this time I moved to another town which is 20 minutes from my house. It's just soo frusterating. I walked into one store to hand my application in today and the lady flat out told me, "You didn't fill out your employment history" I was like "yeahh..." and she goes "We can't hire you if you never had a job before." It ticks me off because it's a body lotion store. Like, I don't understand How am I ever gonna get a job if they only hire people who already have jobs.
Also, my father had to take a pay cut and my mother's work is going on strike. So, like I want a job just so I don't have to ask for money. I'm 17 my parents try to treat me like an adult and me asking for money makes me feel like a helpless baby. Any Advice on my situation?? (link)
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Under employment history try writing that you are a student. Write babysitting jobs you've had. volunteer work you've done for no pay. Whatever applies. Basically an explanation for why you have no history.
Apply...then in a couple of days call them or stop in again. Ask if they have looked at your application. Express a desire to work. An applicant who really wants the job & shows an eagerness to go to work, is going to get it over someone who merely drops off an application.
Always dress neatly when you drop off the application. Be friendly and smile. Be remembered for good things about yourself. You never know who is taking your application. Oh, and managers are most likely there bright and early in the morning. If you take an application by in the afternoon, who knows what will happen to it. Try going by in the morning and maybe getting an interview right then and there if a place really needs to hire someone.
Good luck!
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As you may have guessed I am a redhead. I get teased a LOT mostly by other girls but I never have anything to say to come back with so I either cry or get really mad and walk away.
What are some good comebacks for people who make fun of me just because I am a redhead? You would think it was a crime to have red hair the way they talk to me. :(
Thank you! (link)
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Tell them guys like redheads so you are happy to have red hair. Seems every guy I've known has a thing for redheads. Maybe because there aren't a lot of them around.
Depending on your age, I think a comeback like "your boyfriend like my hair" should shut them up.
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