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so confused
so i just got together with this one guy and things are great
our whole school things we are the cutest couple
and we agreed to be together for the remainder of highschool
(cause we've been friends since 4th grade and we're juniors in hs now)
but i can't help but think about some of the other guys in my school
and how things will never work out with them cause i have a bf
like.. i don't know i'm so confused
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Well basically it seems like you're unsure of your relationship. Of course, in everyone's mind triggers thoughts about the opposite gender and wonders what could've been. But you just started going out with him, and all you can do is at least give this a chance. Only time will be able to tell you if it was worth dating him, or go back to the single life and see who else comes along. You really aren't going to be able to make a judgment off this relationship unless you've given it a chance first. Wait a few weeks with him and see how things turn out.
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first off that is the cutest thing... but you messed up by 1st "agreeing" to be together for the remainder of high school. you never set a limit or time frame for a relationship. if your going to be boyfriend and girlfriend let life take its course. by let it take its course, than if another guy comes in the picture, you wont feel so obligated or like you hurt him as badly. but if you are seriously thinking about other guys alredy, you probably shouldn't have "agreed" to go out with him. he may really like you and want to be with you. so i would slow down a little so you don't hurt him or get hurt yourself. but who knows after a while it may end up being that he is the only boy you think about
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If u havr been friends with this guy for so long then it natural for the friendship to turn into something more that friendship. But if you are still thinkin about not being tied down and thinkin about other guys than it might be better that the two of u stay friends. If it doesn't work out it will be ok, if he was a good friend and wants to remain a good friend then he will accept that he is not the right guy and move on. The right guy will come. You are still a long way from being old.
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Since you are thinking that way, I'd say you are not ready to be tied to just one guy right now. There is absolutley nothing wrong with that! When the right guy for you comes along, you will know it and not worry about any other guys. :)
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