whenever i masterbate (im a girl) i can only cum once. after i cum i cant touch myself there anymore and it kinda hurts if i do, like its a very not good feeling after. plus im not even in the mood to masterbate any more after i come, y is this?
why is this?
how do i fix it?
That's perfectly normal.
Happens to all girls.
It hurts after you masterbate just like it'll hurt after sex.
And once you have an orgasm during sex, you'll realize you don't really wanna continue doing it.. Just like after you orgasm when masterbating.
I guess a way to help it is to continuelously think of sexy things that turn you on.
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soo a while back i texted a friend saying something inappropriate. not too bad, but i guess it'd be bad in a parent's point of view. i didn't think anything of it until he told me his mom read my text online... i was really freaked out. luckily she didn't say anything to my dad. but now i'm worried if my dad can read my texts or not online like my friend's mom. they had cricket or some cheap service. i have t-mobile. if i could get some info on this i'd really appreciate it. thanks :)
Yes, he can just read it on the bill.
But if you want to save yourself from getting in trouble, just delete that text along with any others in your phone.
And you should be good.
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This may be in the wrong category. I wasnt sure which to put it in.
So here is my problem. My friend is 19 and she is married with a one year old girl. Her husband is a total jerk. He is abusive toward her and in fact, he was arrested last week for almost killing her. (Accidently) He was bailed but he will be going back after court. We cant convince her to leave him, but we are hoping she will come to realization when he is gone.
Thats not the problem. The problem is she is not a good mother and this poor baby lives in this horrible and dangerous environment. I really want to call Child Services (or whatever its called) and keep it annonymous. But if she finds out, her and many more people will give me such a hard time with it and she may pass inspections. If I call anonymously will it be kept annonymously or is there a chance I will be found out? What do you think I should do?
I think you should. I know you might be worried of everyone giving you a hard time if they find out it was you who turned her in, but it's not yourself you have to worry about. It's the baby.
Your friend may not want to lose her child, but it's just a selfish move for her to keep her child in such an unstable household.
And I'm about 90% sure it's unanimous so she won't find out it was you who turned her in.
I strongly suggest you help that baby by turning your friend in.
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16/f
i actually don't know how i feel about my boyfriend anymore, i don't know why but when i see him nothing really pops up, it's just normal.. it feels like it's an everyday thing or something. he even started noticing that i didn't seem so happy to see him or be with him, so now i act like i am. usually we get into arguements, but i'm tired of it so i end up avoiding any sort of conflict and stuff. i don't really want him to touch me as much or a kiss just seems like a regular kiss. i'm not sure whether my mind is just bored and wanting something new and if i'm just acting like i'm happy. or if i really am happy but i think that i'm bored, if you know what i mean. for example, you don't know what you have until you lose it.
i've been debating whether or not to end it... part of me does, but part of me doesn't because it was somewhat like a schedule that i can't let go. and i'm so used to seeing his face everyday and sleeping on the phone with him, and i do like him.. but i just feel emotionless or something, i'm not sure what it is.. help me please?
Yeah, same thing has been going on with my boyfriend and I. And I'm about 90% sure it's boredom. You're probably just used to this everyday routine with him and wanting something new and different.
When my boyfriend and I discussed this, we thought of possibilities such as him doing anything spontaneous for our relationship to keep going.
Every relationship comes to this point, weather you decide to act up on it, is your choice.
Try to spice things up and make things more exciting somehow.
Don't plan on what to make spontaneous, that'd just ruin the whole purpose.
If it doesn't work, I'd say it's time to find someone new.
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My first love was a twin and i fell hard for him. Jonathan ended up breaking my heart, and his twin brother Jacob helped me through it all. Now me and Jacob are the best of friends, but theres one problem i'm falling for him. I don't want to be known as the school whore or slut because I dated his twin brother, but I'm in love with him. I don't think I could get over him, he's helped me so much! What should I do?
Aw, that's cute that his twin brother helped you(: I highly doubt you'll be known as a slut, unless it's only been a couple days after your breakup with Johnathan. Even if so, when it comes to love, the only opinions that matter are of you and Jacob. The only thing is, you have to see if from Jacobs point of view, too. It could really make things awkward with his brother while he's dating you. But if he's the type to not worry about others opinions, then I don't think you gotsta worry(: If you and Jacob start dating, you gotta make sure that no matter what happens, you two will always be there for each other and continue being friends if you guys break up.
Anyhoo, I think you should follow your love instincts with Jacob and persue a relationship with him.
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I have given a lot of thought and my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We are both each others first. I have been on Yaz now for almost 2 months because I used to have a VERY irregular period. We had sex for the first time in November and then about a week before that first period (on the pill) the condom slipped off. I did get my period on the 4th day of the placebos, it was heavy and dark for about 5 days. For some reason this month though, I have had breast tenderness and I have had to pee a lot plus just lately I haven't been feeling well. I am supposed to get my period next week but I'm nervous that I might somehow be pregnant. I have a pregnancy test but I don't want to take it this early since I know it's not as effective. All my friends tell me I worry too much but I really can't get pregnant right now. Does anyone have any advice for me? Thank you all very much.
Yeah, Yaz can sometimes tend to mess around with your body for a little bit once you've had sex while on the pill. That can happen to tons of people on any pill.
But I say don't the test, its to early to tell yet and you want to wait to take it until a week after you missed period.
So, of you do end up missing your period, wait another week in a half or so to take the test.
Good luck(:
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15/female
I am not sure what to get my boyfriend for christmas? he is hard to shop for, but this is what i thought about getting him...
*a cooking apron (he likes to cook)maybe a black one that says "kiss the cook" in white letters?
*something that has to do with green day (he is a big fan)
*a picture of me? (a black and white headshot pic)
we have been dating for five months now...any ideas will help...thanks!
I think the apron is a great idea.
Maybe get a big green day poster or shirt/hoodie.
And maybe a cute little "coupon" gift to make for him.
He'll love it and it'll be in good use.
Just get pieces of paper and cut them out like coupons.
Write on each of them saying something different like:
"one free back rub"
"one free kiss"
etc.
Good luck(:
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hey see I am kinda worrying because I am a virgin does it hurt to have sex for the first time??
someone who has please give me advice on how it feels.. because I think my friend is wrong
Well I'll be straight up, it will hurt. Mainly because you haven't had something as thick or big as a penis inside you so you'll be fairly very tight. If you've been fingered then it'll be much looser. You should get fingured before you finally have sex so your vaginia is looser and it surly won't hurt as much your first time. I also reccomend to NOT do anal your first time, that's just killer. Lol, then again that always hurts badly. Anyway, I hope this answers your question well(:
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does anyone know some really sad songs,
like ones that you listen to by yourself when your sad and sometimes even make yu cry?
just for a friend who likes sad songs
thanks
What Hurts the Most - Rascal Flatts
Concrete Angel - Martina Mcbride
Gotta Go My Own Way - Vanessa Hudgens
Wasted - Cartel
Slipped Away - Avril Lavigne
Far away - Nickelback
Never Too Late - Three Days Grace
I hate everything about you-Three Days Grace
Last to know-Three Days Grace
When it Rains-Paramore
Bye Bye-Mariah Carey
I Found You - The Fray
Whenever You Call - Mariah Carey & Brian Mcknight
One - Brian Mcknight
Broken - Seether & Evanessence
All I Wanted - Paramore
Will You BE There - Skillet
Anthem of the Angel - Breaking Benjamin
Hide and Seek - Imogen Heep
Take Me Away - Chase Coy
Lullaby - Chase Coy
Turn Back the Time - Chase Coy
Let Me Go - 3 Doors Down
(:
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Hi, I was wondering.. if I want to delete an individual song from my ipod, can I just go and delete it from the playlist on itunes and then it will delete off my ipod? Or do I have to delete it a different way? Thanks
There is a way to delete it off iTunes.
You know that "_whatever_name_here iPod"? that's where all your music is from your iPod is stored. Click on that and find the song in your list of songs and right click to delete it.
Just in case it didn't work, I'd still suggest to go to the song on your iPod and delete it from there too.
If you don't know how to delete the song from there, type in good, "How to delete a song from whatever_iPod_you_have?"
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I really like this guy. Problem is, I barely know him, plus he does drugs. Bad thing, I know. Have you ever felt that like when you see someone you feel like something is there and sometimes you just want to help him? I don't know if I should go for it and not even try so I don't end up hurt in the end.
I recently just ended things with my long term boyfriend who was just like that. We started dating practically the day after we met, and we hardly knew each other. But I heard from plenty of people that he was, "bad news" because he did drugs and "only cared about sex." Well, I believe everyone deserves a chance and he got one. While we were dating, he stopped everything for me. He stopped chewing, weed, popping pills, and lowered down on drinking. I was very good for him. And when we broke up, he went back to all that stuff and was known as a bad guy again. You could be that one girl that's good for him. If not, at least the chance was taken and you know for future reference what type of guy isn't for you.
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i have really bad depression and anxiety, the meds don't work,all doctors do is give you some kind of crap that never works..if you have any advice for me,i'd greatly appreciate it...
Wow, I think you and I might have a lot in common. I, myself also have been diagnosed with depression and have had extreme anxiety issues for quite sometime. And I also son't take the meds because they make me feel suicidal. Doctors THINK they know what's wrong, but they don't understand anything we're feeling or why we're feeling them. I'll tell you what helped me:
I didn't trust myself and I kept attracting negative things. So I decided to feed my soul with good things. Reading great books, taking photos, writing and doing things that only pleased me.
Don't look for problems. They can fall from the sky on your lap anytime, so it's not worth thinking about them all the time.
I might still have anxious and depressive feelings sometimes, but they're no big deal. I'm happy, I can feel calm while around people.
Try some of these things, and get back to me with how the results are(:
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My girlfriend just broke up with me because im starting to act like her. The truth is i just do the same things she does. Ive been like this for a long time. But she says its creepy and that its over. And yeah i want to cry but then again I'm wondering if that's a justified reason to break up with me, She told me not even 6 hours ago that she loves me and I'm her world and she wants to live by me. I find now that she lied to me or at least that's how i feel :\
-15 m
Girls tend to over exaggerate on some of the things they're thinking. That's why she said you're her world and loves you, etc. But also, girls minds change unexpectedly and may have a new idea pop in their head. A reason such as what she said for her breaking up with you is kinda lame and doesn't sound like a very good reason, if you ask me. But then again, you'll never know, it could still be true. All you have now is time. Time to heal, time to figure out more answers, etc. It'll all come together sooner or later.
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So i recently got a new boyfriend(lets call him M*xx), and a super sweet guy behind his "gangster" act. We have been dating for about three months now. Anyway after a dramitc experiance i made a vow to myself to keep my virginity as long as i can without any boys bribing me into it. M*xx has a diff. plan in mind. Yes, he holds my hand and kisses it, making me blush...but sometimes he tries to reach for my breast iwth his free hand when he thinks im not looking. And of course i push himm away. Sttubborn..he keeps trying. He tells me that one of these days im going to give into him, and i have fears that my vow will be broken before the year has ended. How do i keep the sensual mood going but not resulting in sex??
Thanks in advance.... 14/f
Well you seem like a very nice and special girl. Not many girls would try to keep their virginity as long as possible. Keep in mind that he's a guy, and all guys have that in their mind. Even the least expected ones, he's going to try just because it's in his guy genes. If you're still looking to just have some fun, but not go all the way, just try some oral stuff. You also gotta lay down the law to him that you still want to stick to your vows and you don't appreciate him trying to break them so soon while you're not ready.
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I've known this guy for about two weeks or so, and recently we've been talking a bit more than we normally do. Well, he told me I was boring. Yes, it's offensive to a point, but I'm afraid that I may come across as boring. When I first start talking to a person I'm not totally comfortable, so I can't think of anything to say, but I don't want to bore him away before I get a chance to become comfortable.
When I'm with my friends I can be very talkative, but I'm just awful at coming up with things to talk about. My conversations always involve a lot of awkward silences. It's awful. =(
Any advice on what to say/do or conversation starters, etc.?
This first and foremost point that has been emphasized time and again is about confidence. You need to think high of yourself and believe in yourself. You need to think you are no less than anybody else in any respect and that will increase your confidence level. Talk about anything and everything that you know. You don’t have to be Einstein to strike up an intellectual conversation. Rather, you could share opinions on a particular subject, discuss the latest news or just talk about a funny incident that might have happened in the morning.
Good luck(:
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my husband and I have been married for 2 years now and I am happy being married to him. Since he has come back from a 15 month deployment we have been fighting alot. Alot more than normal and it usual ends with me crying and him pissed off and we hate each other and it's always the same thing we fight about, him not helping me around the house I feel like I have to do everything. I'm tired of the fighting and so is he I want to go to marriage counseling but I'm afraid he wont make the effort. Yesterday he brings up the discussion of divorce and asking me if we ever did get a divorce what would I do. Does this mean he wants a divorce? I don't know if we should go to marriage counseling if he already believes our marriage is over. Should I just start the paperwork and give up? Help me please..
You can't give up or let him want to give up on this marriage just like that without even an ounce of counseling. You should bring it up to him, even if you fear he won't make the effort into it. If he ends up doing what you believe, that's his own stupidity and eventually he'll realize it. I say, bring it up and try it out. If he refuses or keeps talking negatively about it, show him how much it would mean a lot to you if he at least tried it out. Say something like, "You may think our marriage is going in the dumps, but I still have some hope. We can't make any judgement about counseling until we BOTH actually give it a try and effort. Can't you please do this for me?"
Good luck to you.
(:
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how long does it take for a movie to come out on dvd?
It could take up to 6 months - a year.
But if you're interested on seeing ANY movie whatsoever, including one's at are currently in theater, any TV show, any movie, go to www.hulu.com.
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I'm having a Sweet 16 on the first week of January. It's gonna be a candy themed party. Could you give me any ideas for making the program? I'm kinda stuck 'cause I haven't thrown a party in yeeaaars. So please give me any suggestions to keep my guests entertained throughout the party. Thankyouu.:)
Rather than your traditional birthday cake, set up a colorful Candy Buffet. Gather old favorites and new treats and display them in glass bowls and jars. Use a glass vase to hold fun lollipops and use punch ladles as make-shift candy scoops.
Fill jars with gumballs/jelly beans/ M&Ms and have them guess the amount for a prize.
Set out board games like Candy Land for the guests to play (I'm sure they'd still have fun despite their age:P)
Have a candy cane path that leads to your house as the guests arrive.
On the outside of your door, wrap it with silver wrapping paper and decorate with huge pieces of candy
Don't send them home without a cute candy favor! You can always provide site favor boxes or bags and let them scoop up their own sweet treats. Or, send them with one of these cute mini gumball machines. Tip: Make a personalized tag out of card stock and attach with ribbon to each gumball machine. Print each guests name or a simple "Thank You For Coming" message.
:D
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...computer science and computer engineering?
Computer science is more about the theory of software, algorithms, data structures, networks, databases, etc. Most of the programming they do is more high-level.
Computer engineering deals more with hardware topics like embedded system design, electromagnetic compatibility, computer architecture, digital signal processing, etc. Most of the software they write is embedded C or assembly on microcontrollers or microprocessors.
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Its my boyfriends birthday a two days after xmas. he is turning 18. what are some good ideas for gifts i can give him? i really need help.
How bout a bag of his favorite candy?
Or maybe make some of his favorite cookies an put them
in a container and wrap it up(:
Favorite cologne like: axe, tag, etc?
A necklace describing something that has to
do with his personality or maybe get matching necklaces for
you and him both to wear:P
Or something really simple to get him;
Make a few coupon list by hand and write on each of them
something like, "one free back rub" or "one place out
to eat, your choice, me paying" etc.
(:
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