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I want to come up with a name for a piercing parlor. I want it to involve something I like or about me and be catchy. Im having a hard time, but heres some things about me and that i like..

Cherry Blossoms
Peaches
Hott Pink
Heaven
Independence
Freedom
Female power
Kinky
Psychology
Criminology


Thanks in advance! (link)
I think it should be something appropriate. I like just the simple word
'Independence'

or 'Independence Blossoms'.

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So last Saturday me and this guy had sex, wasn't the first time I had with him but we were drunk. well he busted but I didnt realize and the condom broke after, inside of me. oh I'm 15... what are the chance that i got pregnant I got off my period not that long ago... but just i dont know what to do ! (link)
Well if you started your period, after the sex, your not pregnant. But if ur saying you had sex, just after your finished your period then its possible. You should wait a few weeks, and take a pregnancy test. Or go to a doctor and seek there advice. Because to be honest no-one can advise you about this as well as a doctor can. He can tell you whether your pregnant, and we can all only assume.
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Okay, so I got a facebook at the end of November. I totally DO NOT get the point of it. Especially adding friends. I have a bunch of invites from friends, but I don't know many of them or have never talked with them through my whole entire school career. It's really weird, because even if I do accept their friend invites we never talk in school or on facebook. I have 47 people who have asked me to be their friend, but I don't talk with them or I've never seen them, but know that they go to my school because of their name, and my school is fairly small comparatively speaking. If I leave a comment on their wall or send them a quick im on fb, i dn't get a response for a while. It's odd, much different than Skype or AIM. So I guess what I'm trying to ask is, Why do people you've NEVER talked with ask you to be their friend? And is it only me who finds this bizarre? Sorry if this ends up seeming lame to you. Also is there a particular reason why my friends in China cannot access facebook? They haven't been on for nearly 6 months. Did the government take control of it?
14/f
-Sky (link)
Well people, from the same school as others, just add people you know. When you get the hang of facebook you'll be doing the same. Don't see it as a negative thing but as a positive. It gives you chance to connect and get to know more+newer people. + Facebook im/chat does seem to crash a lot lately. Try inboxing :).
Sorry i cant help with the china thing.. maybe theres a bad connection over there?.
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Thanks for your advice. Yeah there is just one guy that i really like. He's quite popular and i'm just in the middle. He is single and has said that he thinks i'm nice and pretty. But the thing is i'm very shy and talk to him quite a lot but not enough for it to be more than friends. I need to know how to make him like me back without me being too forward. Thanks x (link)
Im sorry it took me a while!.
But you need to let him get to know you more.
Usually its easy to tell by peoples actions towards you and there comments. Wait for you to get close enough to him and then just be honest. Have some alone time + maybe things will just kick off (; .
Hope that helps. x


Okay, so im 14 and all and i've been having my period for 2 years, btw. But anyways to the point: Last night my boyfriend fingered me for the first time. (that was the first time ive ever done anything like that) and well it didnt hurt or anything but i wasnt supposed to start m perios till next week and this morning/evening when i went to the bathroom i started it. I dont understand why this happend. Like, was it from him fingering me? Or it that possible? (link)
Your period doesn't happen exactly every 28 days, it can happen earliar or later. It is very unlikely you started it because your boyfriend fingered you.
Your period happens when your body is prepared for it to happen. It's not really possible to be triggered off by you being fingered.


OK, i NEED a boyfriend. There is a boy that i really like but there are also others i like as well. I really need the best tips on how to attract him. Please help! xxx :) (link)
Well, you should choose one you like and think/know you have a better chance with, as if you go after loads at once you'll be seen as a bit of a player. Spend time alone with him, and be yourself.. don't let people fall for someone your not. Show them the real you, if they do not accept it, there not worth it. Don't let anyone change you into something your not comfatable with being...
Honestly the best way is to be you.

Hope that helped? x


well your gonna think I'm Crazy but Ive liked this guy for 3 years and he's way older then me by 7 years and he always stares at me and despite how people say "oh staring means nothing" well i think it does with him and I think he broke up with his gf and I haven't seen him for like a month he goes to my church and I love him even tho we've never talked I just feel a strong connection. you know the saying "love at first sight" well Ive felt it. I remember being in fourth or fifth grade and in children church and he helped out since he was like way older (not like over 18 but like maybe 16 or 17) yea he's really older but I can't help it even though i know we will never be together something in me wont let him go.


so what should i Do (link)
Well, age distance isn't/shouldn't matter if you know you really care for someone. But you don't know his feelings about you unless you ask or maybe just talk to him and get to know him more. Small actions he makes may show or give you idea's on his feelings towards you. You can't really honestly say your in love with someone if you haven't spent time alone together and got to know eachothers likes and dislikes and your smilarities. maybe if you hang out with him for a while it will boost your oppertunities.


What is the best and fastest way to get pregnant (link)
have sex with someone who is able to get you pregnant?


Can you get pregnant during the second day of your period? Well me and my bf had sex the second day of my period n he came inside of me twice. Can i be pregnant? P.s. I get ma period 3-4 days n dont have it for 28 days. Help me pleasee can i be pregnant?? (link)
Unfortunatley yes you can still become pregnant on your period. Especially if his cum has gone inside of you. I recommend taking the morning after pill and/or taking a test a few weeks after the sexual intercourse took place.


my sister went to the hospital last night becouse her back and her stomack was hurting her really badly and the doctor at the hospital said that she had cists on both of her overies and that they could be cancer and I don't know what to do iam really worried some thoughts of encourgement or advice would be helpful if you have any it would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you I greatly appreciate it. (link)
Unfortunatley cancer is a common thing lately. But the treatment for cancers, is also becoming more possible.
Maybe to make you more used to what your sisters going through you should research it on the internet. so when the doctor is telling you new things, you'll understand it a bit better and it may help you deal with it better aswell.,
Hope i helped
+ good luck for your sister.


I realllly like this guy called quin we are both 13 and heres the thing i havent seen him in like months.becuase we changed schools well u know but i have chetted to him on yahoo! How do i get him back?? (link)
Well, remember your still young and don't need to be worrying about love too much yet.
But if your wanting to go out with this boy maybe you should think about being able to meet up, reguarly as being distant from eachother may make the relationship aqward. You have to find out if he likes you before this of course, and if he says just as friends.. meet up with him and spend time as friends. if still he feels no attraction.
Maybe its time to move on.
Be careful+good luck


im goin to peirce the topof myear myself but im abit worried about, what would i do if it gets infected ? and have you got vain in yur ears and if so what if i pop one of them. and also will it bleed ? if anyones got any more tips on this please tell me (: thanks (link)
Well, it's not exactly the safest idea to do it yourself, if your nervous about it. Is it not possible to find a friend, less nervous who you can trust to do it for you?.
Yes i'm guessing if a vein pops it will bleed. but don't be thinking about the negative side as that will get you more worried.
Try and be as calm as you can whilst your piercing your ear. and as you would do when a proffesional does it, keep the earing in for a few weeks, to prevent infection. Also if your still worried, maybe you should look online for some tips on doing body piercings yourself, to get you more compfatable. x
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so basicllyyy i keep having these problems with every trip and idk what to do. i have friends but just everytime we go on a schoo ltrip of something we have to take a bus and i always worry about who to sit with. to the point where i dont go becuase im too scared about the bus ride. please help me. what do i do? (link)
You shouldn't miss out on a school trip because your worried about the journey. Just think how fun it could be when you actually get there.
Just choose out of your friends, someone you really get on with, and ask them if they will sit next to you and if you can't choose between 2 people, sit with one on the way there and one on the way back. I'm sure you'll find someone to sit next to, so stop missing out on the trips and sort seating stuff out before you go! . x
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So i have a good friend, we were friends since grade 5. now were in grade 8. in facebook, she tagged all her friends. she tagged me as "a good friend" and she tagged other friends including my crush as "the one you can trust on". so my friend doesnt trust me :(... what should i do? we were like sisters...really close to each other. maybe i was acting a little mean to her. thats coz she doesnt care if a guy makes fun of me ... (being racist with me).. (link)
Well, as you may have realised you can only tag your friend once on one photo on facebook. It is most likely that she does trust you and you may just be getting a bit paranoid. Just remember to remind her she can tell you anything, if you think she seems upset about something, this may help her gain more trust with you, if you think about it as well, you can trust good friends. and thats what she see's you as. Honestly do not worry about it. x




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