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can't move on.


Question Posted Sunday December 13 2009, 1:19 am

well your gonna think I'm Crazy but Ive liked this guy for 3 years and he's way older then me by 7 years and he always stares at me and despite how people say "oh staring means nothing" well i think it does with him and I think he broke up with his gf and I haven't seen him for like a month he goes to my church and I love him even tho we've never talked I just feel a strong connection. you know the saying "love at first sight" well Ive felt it. I remember being in fourth or fifth grade and in children church and he helped out since he was like way older (not like over 18 but like maybe 16 or 17) yea he's really older but I can't help it even though i know we will never be together something in me wont let him go.


so what should i Do


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Bitter_Dulzura answered Sunday December 13 2009, 9:04 pm:
you can never be sure if you love someone or if its not just a huge attraction to this guy...your not crazy it happens to people but that fact that hes a little bit older than you might be a factor for him i suggest you talk to him and get to know him...but make sure he doesn't take advantage on that fact that your younger and maybe more inexperience...good luck :)

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AskHerThis answered Sunday December 13 2009, 5:08 pm:
Well, age distance isn't/shouldn't matter if you know you really care for someone. But you don't know his feelings about you unless you ask or maybe just talk to him and get to know him more. Small actions he makes may show or give you idea's on his feelings towards you. You can't really honestly say your in love with someone if you haven't spent time alone together and got to know eachothers likes and dislikes and your smilarities. maybe if you hang out with him for a while it will boost your oppertunities.

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