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Q: I have a really hard time getting up in the morning, and alarms don't always work. Help!!
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you culd try settin up ur cellfone to wake you or you culd put it under ur pillow or next to you....or maybe you could try sleepin earlier see if that helps...or else your going to have to train your self to wake up at a certain hour...
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Q: Me and my family fight...a lot. How do I not get so angry at them??? What are some good ways to cool down??
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if you fight with your family then there must be a reason behind it rite...someways yo cooling down is reminding yourself to stay calm, or breathe deeply, or simply telling yourself that arguing with them isnt going to get you nowhere let them also cool down before you try talkin to them and make sure to let them say wat they have to say before sayin anythin...i really hope you can work out wat ever problem you have with ur family...good luck :)
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Q: thanks..but suddenly he stopped talking to me.he wanted to meet me because me y cusin is his cusin and he wa shere is mass so the guy i like wanted to come with him to come see me but then he left 2 days ago and he told me that..after that he stopped texting me..:(
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so the guy u like stops texting u?...if he stopped talking to you then hes not worth your time cause im sure you got better things to do then be thinking about this guy..take a break from guys cause right now doesnt sound like a good time to be lookin for one..rite now is the time to reflect and pull yourself together...just be happy with wat you got rite now things will look better once you stop thinkin about this guy...good luck :)
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Q: wellllll...i just found out he is basically taken by a girl.which is kinda dissapointing of him.i thought he liked me but i guess he never did :(
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awww well sorry to hear that..guys are big assholes when it comes to liking someone they might show interest but in reality they are just after one thing especially if they're flirting when they have a gf...but cheer up im sure your gonna find some better guy then that one and if you dont then jus try new things...or just do wat ever is fun for you..like partyin!!! haha...good luck :)
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Q: is true...i think am just going to let things go..if he actually wanted something with me he would come back..back he never did..and i give him a chance he is going to do it again ;(
--there is this other kid i liked, we started texting since novemnber,my friend told em his ex cheeted on him too. but then i found out he was talking to another girl..i was really dissapointed because he always askes me to go to the movies with him and stuff...and 2 days ago he asked me to chill this weeked..so am kinda confused..but he really wants to meet me which is a good thing, and he calles me sweety and in the night if he fallas asleep he text me in the morning like at 1pm telling me he is sorry that he felled asleep..maybe he just wants to see what girl is right for me...humm what do you think?
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well get to know this know this guy before you make a solid decision on what you want...and i know it feels great to hear someone say this things to you but you should be cautious cause you never know rite..i think you should enjoy what comes your way and if you want to try something with this guy go for it just makes sure he isn't some sort of player like i said get to know him...good luck :)
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Q: hey..i been struggling for 5 months after my boyfriend broke up with me..i been really sad and dont know what to do :(...
here is my story am sorry if its too long..
ok we we lasted 2 yrs and 2 months going out but then he left to the dominican republic and he cheeted on me overdere with another girl...he posted pictures on myspace and when he came back i confronted him about it..he told me that was his cousin..but i actually got to talk to the girl and she told me that he was her boyfriend.my heart just dropped...i cant believe he actually did this to me because he loved me and he did alot of things for me...now he is here and he tells me to go to his house in the night so his parents wont see me ..but its just to have sex..i dont even want to go because i dont like doing those types of things with him...but its been 5 months since he broke up with me and my heart still hurts..its like its carrying a heavy pain..i cant seem to move on,its just hard for me, i try to let it go and not think about him but its hard, and no i dont go out because i hardly have friends here.am always stuck in my house.but can someone please tell me wat to do or do you guys have a similar story similar to mines..i appreacited .thanks :)
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something like this happen to me too..and I know its hard to believe someone that claimed that was in love with you could do something like this...you shouldn't let it get to you because there isn't a point of being sad if hes living it up...if you really want to stop feeling depressed you need to stop feeling sorry about yourself you need to say ok things happen and this is one of those things and i need to face it and get over it...because feeling sorry for yourself isn't going to get you anywhere...even if you don't have much friends you should still hang out with the ones you do have if not spend more time with your family or just take days for yourself..go shopping anything that you want to do..good luck :)
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Q: okay (this is a little long, just a warning. sorry.) so like I'm a freshman in high school, (I'm also a girl in case you were wondering LOL) so I know I shouldn't be taking relationships too seriously yet, but this is my first boyfriend so I really don't know what's going on.
I met him in october, and we were good friend, online at least. we talked on AIM whenever we had the chance. then near the end of october he asked me out. we got along well, but the problem was we never really talked a lot in school. we usually said hi to each other or ask how we did on tests, and I sat with him at lunch once, but that was before we were dating. he said he felt bad that he couldn't take me out becaue he didn't have enough money, and I offered him that I could pay but he said that's not right.
so anyway its been almost a month that we haven't spoken and my friends are bothering me about it. I don't wanna end it with him because I think we have something, but maybe it was just too rushed since we've only known each other for like 3 and a half months. and also, he's never on AIM anymore, and he's barely on facebook, so I can't even talk to him like that. and I have 3 classes with him at school, and sometimes we just give each other these blank glances, but not in a bad way. and sometimes when we say something funny we turn and laugh at each other. otherwise, we don't say anything, so I have no idea what's going on between us. just say what you think, as long as it doesn't pretain to punching him in the face and dumping him like a total ass. :P
so yea, thanks if you answer. :)
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you need to know where that relationship is going or if there is any relationship at all...but if you really want to keep this relationship you need to talk to him and ask him whats going on...also try hanging out with him if you cant go anywhere than at school try sitting with him or just talking to him but if he isn't displaying any attraction towards you than maybe he isn't interested and trust me you could probably find someone that will treat you better than this guy is treating you..good luck :)
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Q: what are some signs that this girl, who i like and she likes me back, might give to let me know that she wants a kiss? im kinda worried about it cause i dont want to do it too soon or she might get creeped out by it or something, but she doesnt seem like the type of girl who would, but anyways what is some body language that she might do to let me know, like playing with her hair or something
thanks
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well it depends on how she acts around you..she could give you a look like staring at your lips and then trying to look away or she could move closer to you..or even what she says to you could play into that...but if you're still not sure then start with kissing her on the cheek and then move from them..good luck :)
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Q: i'm FIFTEEN years old, i've started my period, had my growth spurt, and have all signs of puberty but i've never developed breasts. it looks like i have the chest of a 10-year old boy, and i'm so embarassed because of it. all i can say for now is, i'm lucky there's such thing as padded bras. i look around me and everyone has C-cups and started getting them before their period as early as age 9. what is wrong with me? i told my doctor "i don't think i'm developing breasts" and she just smiled and said "they'll come, you just have to be patient." then why haven't i ever met or even heard of ONE PERSON in the same position as me? some girls might have small boobs, and i would be fine with that, but mine are non-existant. what is wrong with me? is it possible i will never get them?
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theres nothing wrong with you...i have known people that are flat chested and comfortable with it...just be happy what you got and don't let it get to you things will happen in their due time..good luck :)
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Q: How do i persude my parents to let me become scene/emo?I mean i've tried every way possible it seams but they wont have it!!!
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show them that there isn't something negative about being an scene/emo tell them that you want to experiment with something new and if it isn't for you that you can always change it you gotta make them see that you can't be what they expect that you gotta be the one to experience and learn from life..good luck
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Q: Hey 14f i don't know if this is in the right category?
Okay, lately I haven't been feeling like myself. I've been worrying a lot lately and feeling sad. (i'm usually a worrier), but this week it's different every morning this week i had a nervous feeling in my stomach (plus the feelings from my period.) I don't know if its from my period or not? I've been less talkative to my friends and everything..I even walk away quickly in the hallway not even waiting for my bf. I feel so upset this week. I'm not the most popular girl in the school, and usually i don't care. Now i do, i wonder what the hell does my boyfriend see in me? I feel like i'm not skinny enough, even when i look like i'm fine. I remember(this was awhile agoo) I was having this horrible fight with my friends and every morning i made myself vomit because of all my nerves, i didnt really "make" myself i didn't stick my finger down my throat i just threw up.. and it made me look horrible and my friends were really worried about me and i was worried to. I stopped that i don't do that anymore but i'm worried i will. Am i just feeling this way because of my period? I think that's it but i really want to learn to not feel so sad for myself because yes a lot of people don' t like me, but i have A LOT of good friends that a lot of those "popular girls" don't have. A lot of people have things worse than me and i really need to bump up my self esteem? Can anyone help me with that? thanks for everyones help, i appreciate it :)
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could there be something in your life that went wrong?...who cares what you look like your should be self confident on who you are not your looks take it from me don't care about what people might think only be happy with how you are and if your bf is still with you than theres a good reason for it I'm sure that your just overreacting but something that can cheer you is taking some time for yourself and experimenting with new looks also try to hang out with your friends and bf because I'm sure they care and are willing to help you out...good luck :)
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Q: Okay, i have a huge problem. I met a guy online (i know how this sounds), and we absolutely hit it off. We talk everyday for hours at a time. We've sent eachother pictures and we are starting to really like eachother.We haven't met face to face, and we live 765 miles away. My problem is that im scared i might get too attached. It would be impossible for either of us to see eachother. Im fearing that if i say 'fall in love' with him that it might be pointless because we may never meet. I'm so scared, and im not sure where this is going. Please help!!!
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Ask him what he thinks about whats going on between you two and if its good then ask him where you two are going to end up and if he thinks whether or not this is going to work for him...just be careful about online people they can very deceiving especially about the way they are...good luck :)
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Q: well your gonna think I'm Crazy but Ive liked this guy for 3 years and he's way older then me by 7 years and he always stares at me and despite how people say "oh staring means nothing" well i think it does with him and I think he broke up with his gf and I haven't seen him for like a month he goes to my church and I love him even tho we've never talked I just feel a strong connection. you know the saying "love at first sight" well Ive felt it. I remember being in fourth or fifth grade and in children church and he helped out since he was like way older (not like over 18 but like maybe 16 or 17) yea he's really older but I can't help it even though i know we will never be together something in me wont let him go.
so what should i Do
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you can never be sure if you love someone or if its not just a huge attraction to this guy...your not crazy it happens to people but that fact that hes a little bit older than you might be a factor for him i suggest you talk to him and get to know him...but make sure he doesn't take advantage on that fact that your younger and maybe more inexperience...good luck :)
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Q: OK, i NEED a boyfriend. There is a boy that i really like but there are also others i like as well. I really need the best tips on how to attract him. Please help! xxx :)
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my advice would be that if you like others than are sure you really want to be with this guys...but if your sure that you want to be with this guy you gotta make sure he notices you but still be yourself and if its meant to be then go with it
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Gender: Female Member Since: December 12, 2009 Answers: 14 Last Update: February 3, 2010 Visitors: 1283
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