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Why are me and my "almost ex-boyfriend" not talking anymore? -_-
okay (this is a little long, just a warning. sorry.) so like I'm a freshman in high school, (I'm also a girl in case you were wondering LOL) so I know I shouldn't be taking relationships too seriously yet, but this is my first boyfriend so I really don't know what's going on.
I met him in october, and we were good friend, online at least. we talked on AIM whenever we had the chance. then near the end of october he asked me out. we got along well, but the problem was we never really talked a lot in school. we usually said hi to each other or ask how we did on tests, and I sat with him at lunch once, but that was before we were dating. he said he felt bad that he couldn't take me out becaue he didn't have enough money, and I offered him that I could pay but he said that's not right.
so anyway its been almost a month that we haven't spoken and my friends are bothering me about it. I don't wanna end it with him because I think we have something, but maybe it was just too rushed since we've only known each other for like 3 and a half months. and also, he's never on AIM anymore, and he's barely on facebook, so I can't even talk to him like that. and I have 3 classes with him at school, and sometimes we just give each other these blank glances, but not in a bad way. and sometimes when we say something funny we turn and laugh at each other. otherwise, we don't say anything, so I have no idea what's going on between us. just say what you think, as long as it doesn't pretain to punching him in the face and dumping him like a total ass. :P
so yea, thanks if you answer. :)
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Ok it's like this---LOL
You are like-in like not love. He is like TOTALLY N2U but is skeert ta step up on you and tell you.
You should ask him to shuffle you Ipod with his fave stuff. If he fill it wit Mylie then you KNOW he totally is N2U.
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If you want to find out whats going on between you two then your gonna have to talk to him or you won't know whats going on.
I've been in a situation somewhat close to this. We were with each other alot but we had a whole communication issue there, which led to the break up. So if you want to save this then you should talk to him. It might be hard to talk to him in person since your more use to talking to him online. If you can't catch him online, send him a message or either talk to him at school.
Just ask him where you guys stand. Good luck!
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you need to know where that relationship is going or if there is any relationship at all...but if you really want to keep this relationship you need to talk to him and ask him whats going on...also try hanging out with him if you cant go anywhere than at school try sitting with him or just talking to him but if he isn't displaying any attraction towards you than maybe he isn't interested and trust me you could probably find someone that will treat you better than this guy is treating you..good luck :)
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In my opinion, if you want to salvage this relationship, you have to talk to him. Find him at lunch and say you would like to talk to him. Don't use sentence structure like "you said" or "you did" or "you never". He might consider it an attack. Ask him if everything is going on well in his life. Try saying that you miss him and wish that you both would spend more time together or hang out more. If he wants to keep your relationship, he will speak up. If he doesn't say much and is closed off, you might just want to consider ending it with him. If you do not communicate, you do not have a relationship. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be happy, and how much fun will you have in a relationship if you don't even see or talk to him?
Bottom line: Try talking to him or consider breaking up with him and finding another guy who wants to be with your awesome self!
Hope this helps and hope it all works out!
-Charlotte
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Before you do anything I suggest you talk to him first You never know what could be going on in his life. If after you talk you see that things are just not gonna work out you will know what to do next. Hope my advice helped.
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