ok so my two friends are going out. Before they started going out my guy friend would flirit with me a lit I knowhe had a crush on me. When they started going I thought this was all going to stop but it didn't. So I told my friend about what her boyfriend was doing. I think she told him to stop and he did for like two days but then he started flirting again. He texted me after school two days ago and I didn't reply because I didn't have my phone but i found out he tested me because my brother told me and he had my phone. So after i didnt text him back the flirting stopped but he didn't seem mad he just dosnt flirt. I think I am getting feelings for him I miss him flirting with me. I want to tell him so badly but I can't he is going out with my friend. What do I do? I feel like I don't want to get between him and my friend but at the same time I want to be with him.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kiran answered Friday December 18 2009, 11:22 pm: You want your friend to be happy right? Just back away from the guy. I mean your gonna be around him and everything because they're both your friends but just watch what he does. You might just miss him flirting with you. I mean if they broke up, would you still go out with him? Even if she is your friend? I think maybe finding some other guy to get the attention from would be better than your friends boyfriend. If you sit back and look at your situation it makes sense and you would know what to do. Good luck! [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
dearcandore answered Friday December 18 2009, 6:35 pm: Are you sure its him you miss or just the attention? Its easy to get it mixed up like that at this stage in your life. I say leave it alone and let their relationship take its course. This is actually a gift. Now you don't have to worry about it and I bet you'll find if you give it some time the feelings you have now will change. Concentrate on other things for now, keep yourself distracted, and don't text him anymore. Its not fair to your friend and no good will come of it. [ dearcandore's advice column | Ask dearcandore A Question ]
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