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Family fighting
Me and my family fight...a lot. How do I not get so angry at them??? What are some good ways to cool down??
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Your family, the people who support you, gave you a reason to live, if you just think about it your family is your everything. They are the first to be there for you, when your friends aren't going to stick around. Being able to calm down is a very hard thing to do, i mean i try to do it myself. I'm still in the process, but i know i love my family as much as i love god and i let my family know by actually showing them i love them. I do the dishes for my mom, i take out the laundry, Help cook, babysit my cousin/neices/siblings, buy them gifts, etc. Its all about the love you show them, and if you and your family fight, just ignore em for a second and count to 5 or more, it actually helps for me haha. I hope you keep this in mind =)
Goood luck.
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There is a reason behind it even if you are not sure what that reason might be. My father and I fight constantly that I cant even take it any more. Till a few days ago i didnt relize why i hate him so much. he used to tell me oh your ass looks good in those pants or make comments about my breats. he hit my son while i ran to the store when day left a welt and i flipped stole some of my husbands medicine today that my husband needed for his back. etc. if you sit and think you may find out why you all fight.
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if you fight with your family then there must be a reason behind it rite...someways yo cooling down is reminding yourself to stay calm, or breathe deeply, or simply telling yourself that arguing with them isnt going to get you nowhere let them also cool down before you try talkin to them and make sure to let them say wat they have to say before sayin anythin...i really hope you can work out wat ever problem you have with ur family...good luck :)
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