so basicllyyy i keep having these problems with every trip and idk what to do. i have friends but just everytime we go on a schoo ltrip of something we have to take a bus and i always worry about who to sit with. to the point where i dont go becuase im too scared about the bus ride. please help me. what do i do?
hawee answered Saturday December 5 2009, 5:00 pm: hiii sweeeerie....what i think you shud do is just choose one of em randomly and sit with that person....but you should try and chat with the rest too even if theyre not close to you ,i kno it wud be hard but evn if its jst for 5 mins..laugh when som1 makes a joke and stuff like that....lemme kno how it goes and what u sincerely think of the advice....xxxx! [ hawee's advice column | Ask hawee A Question ]
just_ask_me answered Friday December 4 2009, 10:39 pm: Well...are you worried about sitting with one friend which would leave another out? or you just can't decide who to sit with?
I used to have the problem of deciding which friend to sit with, since all of my friends used to fight over who we would sit with and either people were left out or were angry!
You should ask one of your friends the day before the trip if they'd want to sit with you. Decide who'd be the most fun to sit with or who you're the closest to. Basically say "Hey, let's sit together on the bus tomorrow and keep eachother unbored!" or something along those lines. Don't keep worrying so much and then losing out on fun trips ! The bus ride is only so long, and then the actual trip/destination is the main event. If you don't want to actually ask a friend the day before, play it by ear. As everyone's getting ready to get on the bus, grab a friend and ask then so it doesn't seem like you have been worrying. [ just_ask_me's advice column | Ask just_ask_me A Question ]
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