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am i getting bored or what exactly is going on?
16/f
i actually don't know how i feel about my boyfriend anymore, i don't know why but when i see him nothing really pops up, it's just normal.. it feels like it's an everyday thing or something. he even started noticing that i didn't seem so happy to see him or be with him, so now i act like i am. usually we get into arguements, but i'm tired of it so i end up avoiding any sort of conflict and stuff. i don't really want him to touch me as much or a kiss just seems like a regular kiss. i'm not sure whether my mind is just bored and wanting something new and if i'm just acting like i'm happy. or if i really am happy but i think that i'm bored, if you know what i mean. for example, you don't know what you have until you lose it.
i've been debating whether or not to end it... part of me does, but part of me doesn't because it was somewhat like a schedule that i can't let go. and i'm so used to seeing his face everyday and sleeping on the phone with him, and i do like him.. but i just feel emotionless or something, i'm not sure what it is.. help me please?
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wow...so i recently just experienced this..and i learned quickly that if you start feeling bored,its time to LET GO. Whats the point in wasting your time and his? Someone will end up getting hurt in the end. Noone is to blame in this situation..it just obviously wasnt meant to be. 95% of the people in the world dont live their life..they spend it on never ending rituals..dont be a part of that 95%. Youre still young,so live your life! (: And if you guys do break up it doesnt have to be permanent. Id start off by asking for a break..in time youl see if you truly miss him or if this break should be permanent.
Remember: Whats meant to be will always find its way..you guys might end up getting back together in the end!
xoxo,taylor.
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Yeah, same thing has been going on with my boyfriend and I. And I'm about 90% sure it's boredom. You're probably just used to this everyday routine with him and wanting something new and different.
When my boyfriend and I discussed this, we thought of possibilities such as him doing anything spontaneous for our relationship to keep going.
Every relationship comes to this point, weather you decide to act up on it, is your choice.
Try to spice things up and make things more exciting somehow.
Don't plan on what to make spontaneous, that'd just ruin the whole purpose.
If it doesn't work, I'd say it's time to find someone new.
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