I know that im just a teenager,but ive been around the block a few times and i chose advicenators to try and see if i could help in any way. I love giving advice and trying to help people,it absolutely makes my day! (: if you need anything,just ask...im here pretty much 24/7 and il help to my best ability.
Just a little bit about me
-im still in highschool
-im a cheerleader
-i play softball
-i love rock,indie,electro pop,the classics,and country music
-and im just a downright kind person!! :D
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Age: 17
Member Since: December 26, 2009
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what color should i get for my braces (link)
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I guess it would all really depend on what colors you normally wear,the color of your hair,or just practically any color you really like. If you arent wanting them to be totally noticeable you should just get like a clear or a white color. If youre wanting a color that would match just about anything you should get like a pink or something.
Hope this helped,(:
xoxo,taylor.
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i want to start tanning again but my eye lids always get really white, is there any way to tan so this doesnt happen? or should i just get like brozer or something?
thanks! (link)
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Well i know its totally supposed to be dangerous and all...BUT i dont tan with those eye goggles and my eyelids always tan for me. I just make sure not to open my eyes at all while the lights are on. If youre afraid to do that though i would definitely reccommend just buying some bronzer or something that will match your makeup and youl be just fine.
hope this helped,(:
xoxo,taylor.
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16/f
Lately when i use the restroom, there were some bubbles or my pee was a bit fizzy. but today, when i got home i really had to use the restroom really bad.. and my pee came out fast so i guess that's what made it really fizzy.. but it was fizzier than it usually is. sometimes it's bubbly or fizzy, and sometimes my pee isn't. why does this happen? is there something wrong with my body? is my diet making this happen? because lately i've been eating some sweets like candy and soda. help please! i'm worried. (link)
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Dont worry,this is perfectly normal! Its a good possibility that the amount of caffiene and sugars that youve been consuming has caused this. You could also be going through a kidney infection or a UTI. Another practical reason is that you might have had so much urine that the pressure from your bladder could have caused the urine to come out really quickly which would make it appear to be bubbly or frothy. Id definitely reccomend cutting back on the soda and sweets and start drinking more water. If you arent fully comfortable with it you can always go to the doctor and see what they can do to take care of it! (:
Hope this helped.
xoxo,taylor.
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how is secondhand smoke worst than firsthand smoke for people? i dont understand. like both of my parents smoke in the house and i try to stay away from it as best as i can like i go in my room and stuff butthe smell still travels throughout the house so im getting more harmed than the people actually smoking? how does that even make sense? it just confuses me... (link)
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I know it mind seem silly that secondhand smoke is more harmful than regular smoking,because hey..youre not the one smoking,so whats the big deal? The reality,however,is that secondhand smoke is far more dangerous than regular smoking in several different ways. A person that breathes in second hand smoke is actually inhaling two forms of smoke: 1.)the smoke that is let off the ciggarette,known as sidestream smoke,and 2.)the smoke that is exhaled by the person smoking,known as main stream smoke. This makes things worse because you are experiencing the effects of two harmful toxins. The fact that you are still considered a young teen can cause the effects to be worse on you..Teens and children breathe much faster than adults do,so you are recieving more smoke than your parents actually are. The idea might sound stupid,but its actually very harmful...you might want to talk to your parents and ask them to possibly smoke outside so you wont be around so much of the smoke. If they truly care about your health they will understand.
Hope this helped.
xoxo,taylor.
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ok well, me and this kid have been dating for 3 weeks now and we meet about a month and a half ago. since we met hes been fine w/me and always says the nicest things and hes so respectful.. but in the past few days hes been weird and short w/ me and i cant even tell if he stil likes me sometimes. hes hot and cold and during these days he'll be short but then randomly say i miss u or call me babe or something. and he still texts me first thing in the morning all the time. idk what to do, can someone please help me? i dont want to say somethnig and sound hostile w/ him.. help. (link)
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Well it sounds like to me that he might becoming uncomfortable with the relationship..and he might be questioning whether or not you all should be dating. I know you dont want to sound hostile with him,but you deserve to know the truth. He has no right to lead you on and keep you waiting around. I would just come right out with him and ask him whats going on with you guys. You dont have to be hostile about it..just calmy try and discuss it with him..you deserve to know the truth! And if things arent going to work out with you all it will be just fine,there are plenty of fish in the sea,(:
Hope this helped.
xoxo,taylor.
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How do i turn a guy on at school and in class? (link)
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Well about the only way that you can "turn a guy on" in school and in class,WITHOUT getting in trouble is to FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT! ;) Its always fun to try and excite a guy at school..it can be pretty dang entertaining. Sometimes you can tip a guy off just by giving him that "you know you want it" look,haha (: Sexy little texts/notes can work..Barely brushing their thigh or neck while passing by them will send schocks all through their body,and theyl know exactly what sort of message your trying to put off. But remember,too much at school can get you in trouble.
Hope this helped,(:
xoxo,taylor.
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Okay so im 14 && most of my family got their periodz late ;; lately ii get discharge && the other night ii saw blood on my underwear ;; i dont know if i started or if its getting there because it wzt a lot ;; please help!! :) (link)
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It sounds like to me that you havent started your period just yet,but you are very close. A month or two before my period i went through the same symptoms that you are now..Youre spotting at the moment and your period hasnt fully formed just yet. Id inform my mom if i were you,and just be prepared!
Hope this helped,(:
xoxo,taylor.
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Hi
Well I've taken ballet for a couple years when I was younger & up to a couple years ago I wish I had stuck with it. Im 19 now, about to be 20, and I only wish I could take classes again but am I too late for that? Like I've been to a couple websites to some dance studios in my city and they talk about enrollment for young girls.
If anybody knows anything about it I'd appreciate
the help. Thanks so much. (link)
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Im not really sure about the requirements for taking ballet classes in your city..but one thing i can tell you is that you can NEVER be to old for anything! Too many people dont live their lives and in the end they look back and wonder why they never did certain things. So i say go for it..whats the worst thing that can happen? Theyl tell you that youre too old? So what! at least you tried! And im pretty sure that you wont be "too old" for this..ive heard of much older people taking ballet classes,(:
hope this has helped.
xoxo,taylor.
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Well Im Actually Really Short, Everyone says that plus dey allwaiz tease me bout it. So i wanna grow Taller but i dont know how, I've alwaiz wanted to be tall. If Therez A Easy But Effective Way to grow (female, teens), would you please let me know. I've tried lots of things, but now i'm desperate. If theres certain things i could eat/drink, or certain things i should do it would really help, plus if you have any ideas in how you can that would b a help too. Thanks (link)
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I hate to break it to you,but there isnt any possible way of making yourself taller. Im a whopping 5'2 and im alot shorter than most of my friends and family. I used to always get teased about it,but they werent really trying to be mean. The only probable solution for what youre going through is learn to accept your body and be happy about it. We were all created uniquely. Some of us are big,some of us are small,Some of us are short,and some of us are tall. Everyone is beautiful in their own little ways. And there are a few perks that come with being short,(: And hey...some guys even like short girls!
Remember that before others can see how great of a person you are,you must first become comfortable with yourself!
xoxo,taylor.
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18/F
So recently I've pulled 3 gray hairs out of my head, and it's brown and has highlights from the sun so I doubt that they're just blonde, I'm sure they're gray. Is this normal? Anyone else experience this? Is my whole head gunna become gray soon? I don't want gray hair at a young age.
HELP!!!! :(:(:(
--scared (link)
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Its perfectly normal,dont freak out! My best friend has brown hair and recently the top of her head has been looking a tad bit grey and its all due to the sun. She was kind of worried at first like you are,but she talked to her hairstylist and she explained that the sun can turn the brown pigments into an ashy grey color. So dont worry,it will all be fine.
hope this helped.
xoxo,taylor.
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I want a relationship soooooo bad.
but i cant seem to stay in a relationship once i have one.
"He stops all the flirting stuff" "Hes taking the relationship to seriously" "Hes to clingy" "Hes not clingy enough"
Am i a commitment phobe?
and if so, how can i fix it? (link)
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What youre going through is perfectly normal..i wouldnt exactly say that you have a commitment phobia,but maybe you just arent ready for a relationship. There is no sure fire way for solving this but by just being patient. Relationships are nice and all..but theyre even better when they havent been forced and youre absolutely ready for it!
hope this has helped.
xoxo,taylor.
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I just woke up with a shortness of breath and I haven't been able to get back to sleep. I understand that happens to people from time to time, but it's like I can't even take a deep breath. I coughed a little, no mucous came out.s more like a dry cough. When I cough it feels like my throat is completely dry.. and my nose isn't running but i can't really take a breath too well out of it because its a tiny bit stuffy.
I took my temp, and that turned out fine.. but a few weeks ago I had some weird stuff going on with my throat. It felt dry no matter how much water I drank. I'd take a sip and it'd hurt to swallow the water. It wasn't soothing at all.
I feel like I can almost take a deep breath and when I try it gets stopped short or something.
Could this be pneumonia? Even though I'm not running a fever? If not.. what else can it be?
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I definitely agree...this is something only a doctor can truly help with. Dont wait around on this..you really need to see a doctor before things could get worse.
leave feedback to let me know youre fine!
xoxo,taylor.
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I absolutely hate shaving. I was thinking about laser hair removal but know that wont happen for a while because I do not have enough money. What are some things that I can do that WORK to remove hair that aren't shaving? Please only recommend them if you have tried them. I haven't tried the new nair, veet, or any of those. So if you've tried them tell me your experience.
Thank you (link)
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Yeah if you dont like shaving i would definitely reccommend either waxing or using veet/nair. Waxing can be painful though so im not sure how good of an option that is. If you dont like pain,your best bet is to use veet/nair. Using veet is super simple and easy. I didnt really know how good it would work until i finally tried it one day. You have to make sure you get enough of the lotion on and allow it to sit long enough so that it will remove all of the hair. If your hair is super long i would just go ahead and shave it one time and then get that out of the way so that you can use veet later on and it will be more effective. If you use veet on alot of hair it becomes more difficult to remove..i learned that first hand.
hope this helped.
xoxo,taylor.
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I'm like bipolar about this. I love being in relationships and seem to always be looking for one that I think will last a long time but once I'm in one after about 3-4 weeks i get bored with the person and either dump them or end up cheating[I'm working on that though cause i know cheating is wrong]. When I'm single though i get very lonely after a while even if m talking to someone. Even now I've been single for about a month now and I'm lonely. I really do want i long relationship but I don't what usually happens to me to happen yet again.
advice please:) (link)
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Yet again..this is something i can relate to. My goal in life is to actually find someone to love and have a lasting relationship..which doesnt seem to work out for me all that good. I always get into a relationship and it never lasts long because i get bored and tired of the person and i want something new. I hate being single though and it puts me in a depression..something that really hurts is to hear my friends talk about their great relationships or see happy couples walking around. I always talk about how badly i want something like that,but every time i get in a relationship i scew it up. Maybe there isnt really a way to solve it..people like you and i could just possibly not be ready to settle down. As much as i hate to say this..its probably just going to have to take time.
Youre young..be patient and let life run its course!
xoxo,taylor.
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i need help finding some friends that will always hangout with me and always do something. im the kid at school that is a great athlete and everybody views that im good at everything. I switched schools after middle school and none of my friends went to my new school so i knew absolutely no one there, it was hard to make friends cuz most kids ther already had ther cliques of friends and im kind of a shy kid with little self confidence so i had trouble finding friends, and i still dont have that one rly good friend. i hav a few friends but they all live at least 20 miles from me and its tough to get together. we do every once in awhile, but most weekends im alone and hav nothing to do. im also a little overweight which doesnt help my confidence. i just want to know how to make good friends, i had some at my middle school but we all went different ways... i went out with 2 girls at my old school and was friends with alot of them but everytime ive tried to text them or fbook message them to go do somthing or hangout they just make up some excuse everytime or just ignore me, its kind of frustrating and the same thing happens everytime... i dont rly hav those "go to friends" i had lots of friends at my old school but wasnt very good at sports and now im at my new school and hav very very few friends but im extremely good at my sport... what can i do to find some friends to hang out with? its frustrating when basically my only two friends cant hang out on new years eve and i hav to sit home with my parents when i envisioned hanging out with friends every weekend, having a girlfriend, going to parties, none of this has happened, and im afraid college would be the same. (link)
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Remember this...You cant make people be your friends..its not as simple as just going and finding someone to hang out with all the time. Id reccomend just trying to search around and talk to people that have the same interests as you. Have you tried talking to a few people that are on your team? Im sure that once you started talking to people and letting your personality show you will gain plenty of new friends! (: Just let the friendships gradually blossom...Sure you could just go out and find random people to hang out with,but i guarentee they wont be "true" friends that will always be there..it takes time to find good friends..but in the end it will all be worth it.
And if it makes you feel any better..im a junior in highschool and i spent my new years with my family to,haha. You cant expect to always get what you want..give it time (:
xoxo,taylor.
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I'm normally the first to suggest going to a doctor for things like this. But this time, I'm not so sure.
I have a lump in my neck. I remember first noticing it in my early teens. I'm 31 now. All this time, I've been aware of it, but it hasn't changed so I didn't worry. Now, I'm paranoid. My husband has cancer - hodgkin's lymphoma. I've been tense, and so trying to rub knots out of my neck. So, I've felt it more often than usual and while thinking about cancer. I think it seems bigger, but I think it is probably just the paranoia, the worries about cancer in general. (I kinda feel like veda in My Girl, assuming every little thing is the worst)
I would normally tell someone to ask their doctor about it, but if it has been there 18 years with no change, what are the odds that it is anything? I've been to my doctor a few times recently (a couple times to update meds, and then I managed to get meningitis around thanksgiving). I feel like I've been in far too much recently.
I'm also a little afraid to bring it up. I'm afraid a biopsy will be done. If it turns out to be nothing, I will have been cut open for nothing. If it turns out to be something, well, I just don't think I can handle that. My husband having cancer, then me getting meningitis, it is already too much.
So, what do you think? (link)
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Im not that old,so you might not want my advice. But id like to try anyhow (: I know that you might be worried about the WHAT IF'S that will come with going to the doctor,but youre really just going to have to disregaurd those and do whats best for your health. Think about it this way... You might not have anything wrong with you at all and you might have had a biopsy for nothing,BUT at least you dont have to sit and worry about the possibility of having something wrong with you. You might end up finding out that there is something wrong with you..BUT at least you now know what the problem is and you can have it treated so that you wont have to worry anymore.
i really hope this helped.
xoxo,taylor.
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This isn't a cry for advice, I just wanted all y'all to have a Happy New Year! (link)
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Well happy new years to you too! (:
xoxo,taylor.
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My gf is worried because i was touching my penis and i know i didnt touch any juice on it but even if i did lets say if afterthat i fingered her and she is worried she might become pregnant after that? is that possible? (link)
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It is possible for her to become pregnant. Everyone assumes that you can only become pregnant from having sex,however that is not true. If your semen comes into any contact with her area..its a very good possibility. BUT if youre 100% positive that you didnt touch any semen then i doubt she is. But to be on the safe side i would have her checked out and remember next time to be more careful.
hope this helped.
xoxo,taylor.
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I have this friend, she is kind of a bezzie but, she gets really annoying, she hears but doesnt listen and if you tell her something, she'll just be like 'yeah yeah, lets go shopping' and she gets dictracted 2 easily. when i ask her why she doesnt listen, she just says something like 'im dumb' or'argh, stop it i dont know ok' then goes off in a sulk-help...plz? BTW im fourteen, not four so plz be honest... (link)
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It sounds like to me that your friend might have a form of ADD or ADHD..which are diseases that can cause hyperness and the inability to focus. Its a pretty serious problem that should be treated with medicine. Im sure she cant help with the way shes acting..and im sure her actions might seem like shes just wanting attention,but its really not her fault. Give her time...and if you guys are truly good friends you will be able to work through it.
Be patient,(:
xoxo,taylor.
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no speeches and no need of trying to convince me otherwise, trust and believe everyone would be happy if i was dead or better yet to see me suffer, all i wanna know is if i continue to take these sleeping please without eating and drinking period how long will it take for me to die and how will i feel, i don't mind pain, i just wanna know how long (link)
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No speeches...just one statement. DONT DO IT. If you continue with these sleeping pills you wont die..youl just suffer terribly and become a vegetable. Believe it or not i went through a depression last year and it was probably the worst thing in the world. I wanted to die more than anything and i actually almost carried out my plans. But looking back on everything im glad that i didnt. Like it or not,things WILL get better.
just think about it...and if you need to talk about anything privately..email me...24/7..and i mean that.
xoxo,taylor.
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