I want a relationship soooooo bad.
but i cant seem to stay in a relationship once i have one.
"He stops all the flirting stuff" "Hes taking the relationship to seriously" "Hes to clingy" "Hes not clingy enough"
Am i a commitment phobe?
and if so, how can i fix it?
It's normal. You aren't ready to pretend you are in a relationship when you aren't. You aren't lying to yourself about what you want.
Chill out and wait for the right person and the right time. Rushing it only lands you in miserable and stupid relationships. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
taylorcheers answered Friday January 1 2010, 2:51 am: What youre going through is perfectly normal..i wouldnt exactly say that you have a commitment phobia,but maybe you just arent ready for a relationship. There is no sure fire way for solving this but by just being patient. Relationships are nice and all..but theyre even better when they havent been forced and youre absolutely ready for it!
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