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idono. please help me.
I'm like bipolar about this. I love being in relationships and seem to always be looking for one that I think will last a long time but once I'm in one after about 3-4 weeks i get bored with the person and either dump them or end up cheating[I'm working on that though cause i know cheating is wrong]. When I'm single though i get very lonely after a while even if m talking to someone. Even now I've been single for about a month now and I'm lonely. I really do want i long relationship but I don't what usually happens to me to happen yet again.
advice please:)
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The thing about love is that people expect it to be thrilling and passionate like it is in the beginning all the time, the way relationships are in movies. But real love isn't like that. And a lot of people, when the passion starts to fade a little and they start getting more comfortable in the relationship, they get bored and look for someone else they can feel that spark with. Which is really sad, because that's the point in the relationship where REAL love actually starts. And then people end up doing just exactly what you described, and jumping from person to person without ever staying with anyone because nobody can ever give them that "new love" feeling permanently.
Either it's that, or you're just not ready to settle down yet, in which case I would recommend dating around for a while without getting involved in anything serious until you're ready to commit. Hell, that might be a good idea anyway.
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Yet again..this is something i can relate to. My goal in life is to actually find someone to love and have a lasting relationship..which doesnt seem to work out for me all that good. I always get into a relationship and it never lasts long because i get bored and tired of the person and i want something new. I hate being single though and it puts me in a depression..something that really hurts is to hear my friends talk about their great relationships or see happy couples walking around. I always talk about how badly i want something like that,but every time i get in a relationship i scew it up. Maybe there isnt really a way to solve it..people like you and i could just possibly not be ready to settle down. As much as i hate to say this..its probably just going to have to take time.
Youre young..be patient and let life run its course!
xoxo,taylor.
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Ummm okay, it sounds to me like your looking for love in all the wrong places. I think you need to figure stuff out with YOU before you date anyone else. If you become bored with the person your dating try to remember what it was like before when you first met them that attracted you to them. Hope that helps ya!:)
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