ok well, me and this kid have been dating for 3 weeks now and we meet about a month and a half ago. since we met hes been fine w/me and always says the nicest things and hes so respectful.. but in the past few days hes been weird and short w/ me and i cant even tell if he stil likes me sometimes. hes hot and cold and during these days he'll be short but then randomly say i miss u or call me babe or something. and he still texts me first thing in the morning all the time. idk what to do, can someone please help me? i dont want to say somethnig and sound hostile w/ him.. help.
taylorcheers answered Friday January 1 2010, 6:24 pm: Well it sounds like to me that he might becoming uncomfortable with the relationship..and he might be questioning whether or not you all should be dating. I know you dont want to sound hostile with him,but you deserve to know the truth. He has no right to lead you on and keep you waiting around. I would just come right out with him and ask him whats going on with you guys. You dont have to be hostile about it..just calmy try and discuss it with him..you deserve to know the truth! And if things arent going to work out with you all it will be just fine,there are plenty of fish in the sea,(:
rayy23 answered Friday January 1 2010, 5:57 pm: You're the same as me. I worry a lot about the texts I get from guys. But sometimes, texting gets boring, that's why he's saying he wants to call you. If he's still texting you first thing in the morning, then I'm sure he still likes you. The conversations won't always be entertaining and fun, cause honestly, after talking for too long, there isn't much to talk about after. Trust me, I know. Just don't worry about it unless he really starts giving you signs that he doesn't like you. But he's saying he misses you, so he's throwing in little flirty things. I'm sure everything is going fine. But I suggest not asking him about it. He might think it's kind of weird that you think something is wrong just cause of some messages you know? Based on what you've told me, it seems that you have nothing to worry about. If you have any other problems, please don't be afraid to ask me about them. I hope this helped(:
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