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Guy Troubles
I really like this guy. Problem is, I barely know him, plus he does drugs. Bad thing, I know. Have you ever felt that like when you see someone you feel like something is there and sometimes you just want to help him? I don't know if I should go for it and not even try so I don't end up hurt in the end.
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Yes, I have a friend with a very similar problem. I think that if you have fallen head over heels for this guy, talking to him would be worth a shot. But don't tell him how you feel right the second you begin talking. Just have a normal convo then things can get heated whenevr you fell like it. GOOD LUCK!!!
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I recently just ended things with my long term boyfriend who was just like that. We started dating practically the day after we met, and we hardly knew each other. But I heard from plenty of people that he was, "bad news" because he did drugs and "only cared about sex." Well, I believe everyone deserves a chance and he got one. While we were dating, he stopped everything for me. He stopped chewing, weed, popping pills, and lowered down on drinking. I was very good for him. And when we broke up, he went back to all that stuff and was known as a bad guy again. You could be that one girl that's good for him. If not, at least the chance was taken and you know for future reference what type of guy isn't for you.
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Stay far away from him!
He's bad news your best bet is to stay away from him. He has got to want to help himself and clearly he can't at this moment. You don't want to hurt yourself so therefore go for a guy who is less complicated. I know it sounds mean and that he is a cute guy but that doesn't mean he won't bring you down with him. Good Luck! Happy Holidays! :)
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okay i get where your coming from. however you have to think to yourself is it because you actually like him, or just because your feel the need to help him, or are you attracted to the whole "bad boy" image.
I'm sorry if anything i say/or have said offends you but im just looking at all the options.
I believe ( and im sorry for this ) that the only way you can actually like someone is by knowing him properly. you say you dont know him that well, then sit yourself down and ask yourself "why do i like him?" If there is a straight answer then go with whatever your heart tells you, however if you cant really put a finger on why you are attracted to him, then i would advise leaving it and focusing on your friends and to having a good life until the right decent guy comes along. To be fair, if he is doing drugs, then the chances are he isnt ready for a reletionship anyway. of corse its fine to get to know him better before you make a decision, just dont let him drag you into anything...bad.
Good Luck
priaa x
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