Hey guys I am Emily. I am a person who always tries to be her best and loves giving people advice. It comes natural to me. So I really hope you ask me a question because I know I could make a great effort to help you. I have already helped many and have seen really good feedback. Alright I hope to hear from y'all soon. :):):)
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So i am almost 17 and I have an ex that is 18 we recently broke up and now my period is REALLY! late. Well I was hanging out with my guy friend and we had sex. I have know him for 5 years and we have always liked each other. Well when I told my ex he got made then he took me home. He went to my friends house and tried to kill him. My friend got the knife from my ex and ended up getting his finger cut off. He ended up in the ER so I went down with him feeling bad like it was all my fault and my ex said he would go to the cops and say it was rape when I promise you it was not and now I am stuck because I don't want to be with my ex at fear of him getting mad at me me but my mom wont let me see or talk to either of them until this is all blown over. I feel bad and don't know what to do because I really want to be with this friend and he said he would get stabbed a hundred times just to have that one memory everyone says he was using me but if that is true would he still stick around? I don't know what to do about any of this (link)
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Well first thing is first. NOTHING WAS YOUR FAULT! You cannot contrl the way you ex acted. I personally think that if he is you ex that he shouldn"t be so controlling of you. Try not to think of him as much as you think of the man you had sex with. Try talking with your mom and maybe she will let you call him or something. Also make sure you are pregnant before anything :) GOOD LUCK!!!
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Am i pretty? Ugly? 1-10. guys- would you go out with me? Be honest...
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Hoey everyone is beautiful in their own special way. Whether it is inner beauty or outer. Good personality or bad. Every one is pretty. If you feel self concious about your looks, then just remember what I said. You could even use it to defend yourself if some bozo calls you ugly. I am a girl and I think you are very pretty :) (not a lesbian) I HOPE THIS HELPED!
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I've had my glue gun for a while, and its been working perfectly fine, but now it wont work? I even left it on overnight to see if it would heat up but it wont do anything! Is there any possible solution? (link)
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Well not all good things last forever. Maybe thats just what happened with your gluegun. I guess just to buy a new one if you are certain that the old one has broken. GOOD LUCK!!!
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Okay, so me and my boyfriend of 3 months got really into it.. Like he is my first, fingering, eating me out, and hand job and almost sex. Well he came over the other day cause i was home alone we did all that like almost naked, im 14. and he's 16 i am thinking about having sex with him? Should I? I like doing that stuff, im kinda a freak in the bed sorta say, but i just dont want it too hurt. I could care less about being called a hoe cause no one would find out. I just want yall opinion. (link)
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Well it really is your own descision. But many people will think you are young, especially parents or related adults. But also think about the guy and what he would want even though it sounds like hes ready, just to be sure I guess. Well I hope you do whatever you think is right. GOOD LUCK!!!
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What is the average IQ for an average person? (link)
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Well the average IQ for any normal human is 100.
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I'm 13 - girl. I want a boyfriend but i can'not get one. I know there is nothing wrong with ME, because i am beautiful (not in the shallow way)lol. People tell me to join clubs or something to meet them. I don't want to go out with anyone in the schools because they are pervs!
Another question for guys is, at the age of 13, do boys ONLY care about what you look like? Everyone tells me that and it makes me mad! GRRRRRR! lol. (link)
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Well not all guys that only care about looks are 13... some are much older. But you will definately be able to tell just what kinda boy you get trust me. GOOD LUCK!!!
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i've felt that butterfly sensation before when I saw people i liked...all fluttery and happy
i like someone else now and i've noticed when i see him its not that light fluttery feeling, it's more of a queasy, out of breath sensation. i love it just as much as i love butterflies though, but i was just wondering if it was normal...haha thank you :) (link)
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Well you know what I think? I think when you get the butterflies it means you have a crush. When you get a more serious out of breath quesy feeling it may mean something more serious than a crush. LOVE! Maybe you should talk to him. Just a normal convo, and hopefully things come from that! GOOD LUCK!!!
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hey how do you make videos like with the icons for youtube? i always wanted to make one... i have windows media player? like i have nooo clue :/ i want to make one with music nd icons? help! (link)
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Well I don't know anything about the icon junk your talking about, but I know how to upload a vid! You just shoot a video , it dosen't really matter what you use to shoot it. Then you hook it up to your computer with a cord that usually comes with the device you filmed with, then its really simple from then. It says "Browse" on a button you click it and scroll until you see the vid you want to upload on Youtube then it should just be on there. Click upload then title it, make a description and have fun with it!!!! I hope this helped you! GOOD LUCK!!!
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(sorry so long but i do rate! :) Hello im 18/f so heres the situation im in. My mom and step-dad recently got divorced. My mom and sisters moved in with my grandparents and i decided to stay at my stepdads until my mother got her own apartment. My stepdad is really cool and he told me he loves having me around and i can stay there as long as i want. Well my mother can move into her apartment on tuesday. I dont have anything packed and i really dont want to live with her. The tough situation is that me and my mother are very close. But this divorce situation has sort of seperated us if you will. shes moving to the "bad side of town" and i have nothing against that. My mom had me when she was 16 and shes became more immature i've noticed over the past couple weeks and she cant stand to be alone. She constantly has to have a guy with her and that really bothers me. I want to stay at my stepdads house because i've been bounced around over 40 times and im just 18. Its a stable home. Everyone is telling me that im stupid if i move out. And do what makes me happy. I honestly wanna stay here. I've lived here for 5 years. Im sick and tired of getting moved around. I just dont know how to break it to my mom that i dont want to stay with her its not because im chosing my stepdad over her its because of the situation. I guess im just wondering what your thoughts are on this entire situation. If you need more information please feel free to e-mail me. Thanks so much for any advice!
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Well I guess no one can tell you what to do. I think you should do whjatever you think is right for you. Stand up for what you believe in even if you stand alone. It may hurt other people, but maybe you can talk to them about it. /Maybe possibly visit your mom when you can even if you do choose to stay with your father. Once again I think you should do whatever you think is right for you. GOOD LUCK!!!
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I am a plus size women in certain places. My breast are a size 42GG but I don't have very large shoulders. Everytime I try to wear a V neck sweater it never lays down on me nicely. It always creaps up around my neck and I am always pulling it down. I really don't understand why this is. I have tried to use velcro on my bras to hold down the shirts but it does not work. Can you please give me some advice for this problem? (link)
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Well don't feel bad about it. It's just that some clothing may not fit everyone just perfectly. I'm sure there are people that can really help you with your situation. Since I am no clothes expert. GOOD LUCK!!!
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what are some cute, flirty or sexy things that i could send my girlfriend just randomly in the day to make her smile? i usually do it but im just running out of things to say
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Well the suggestions sia had were good. I also suggest adding terms of endearment. "Hey Sweetheart, Cuddlebug, Honey, Lovely, or even sexy would work good. It will certainly make your girl feel loved and cared for. GOOD LUCK!!!
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I like this girl, and we talk alot. We hug, but we're just friends. I want to ask her out, but I'm afraid she'll say no. I don't take rejection well. I mean, she might say no, but she might say yes. We are in middle school. I'm in 8th grade and she's in 7th grade. What should I do? (link)
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Well like I once said this is very common. The best thing to do is to just begin a normal convo. Then you will know when the perfect time to ask her is. Chances are if she is as nice as you say, then she will accept. But if rejected chances are she will still want to be frineds accept this offer because you can always say you tried! GOOD LUCK!!!
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I'm a 15 yr old girl. How can i thicken my hairline? I DO NOT have a receeding hairline nor am i suffering from hair loss. I just want to thicken/grow it so i can part my bangs further to the side (i like the scene hair style). I also want to be able to but my bangs back into a quiff. (link)
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Well there are alot of ways to thicken a hairline by just asking about it at a perfessional salon, looking in an add, buying hair care supplies,( JUST NOT FROM A BLACK MARKETIST BECAUSE THAT CAN MESS YOU UP AS SEEN ON THE TYRA BANKS SHOW!!!) So I hope some of these suggestions really help you. GOOD LUCK!!!
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i'm 18/f. i've been dating my boyfriend for about a year. what are some new, really hott kissing tips or positions? we like to try new things.
our current favorite is me backwards in his lap and we grind while making out. things like that, i guess. or while standing up. thanks. :) (link)
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Well there are certainly alot of places to find new ways to kiss with your sweetheart. I'm not exactly the kissing expert, but I know there are many out there wanting to help! You can find tips in catalouges,youtube, and other sites for that matter. I hope you find what your seekin'! GOOD LUCK!!!
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So I have a bit of an issue. Whenever I get mad at myself about something (whether it's just something that I did during the day that I think "Why the hell did I do that??", something stupid that I said, etc, etc) I bite my arms. Hard enough that it hurts and leaves a red mark for a few hours or more, but never enough to bleed (Which is surprising, since I have braces). I do it if I'm mad at myself, like I just said, or if I have a million thoughts and emotions running through my head that I don't understand.
I used to cut myself-I only bled once, my last time, about two years ago- but I just can't bring myself to do that anymore. I'd rather not leave anymore permanent scars on myself, as my mom has inquired many times about the other ones but I don't have the guts to tell her the truth.
I think I bite myself because I don't know of any other way to deal with everything in my life. My mom has a boyfriend (My parents split when I was seven but I still see my dad a few times a week) and I've heard them having sex quite a few times which is completely disgusting and in my opinion is INCREDIBLY disrespectful to me. I think that's one of the reasons why I started biting.
Also, I have issues with my weight. I used to starve myself (only a few people know) and I lost about 10-15 pounds in one week, but gained some of it back. That was almost two years ago. I still constantly think about my weight and check the scale at least twice a day. I get really mad at myself if I have gained anything. I don't starve myself anymore, but I do cut down on food every once in a while. Not often.
Sometimes I just feel like I have to punish myself for stupid things. The pain that comes with biting my arms blocks out all of the other sh** in my head, which feels amazing, even if just for a few seconds. So I guess I'm just asking if anyone does this too, and how I might find a better way to sort out my crazy emotions. I've tried diaries, they don't work. And I can rule out talking to people, since most of the things I bite myself for are things that I don't want people to know.
I know someone might say "Just stop biting". I've tried, but I can't help it. If I'm with people and I get the urge to bite myself, I'll usually put my hand in my sleeve and dig my nails into my arm. It kind of scares me that I do all of this. (link)
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I used to do this to be honest. I did I felt like I didn't do good enough and that I'm just plain stupid. I bit, sratched, and guaged myself with my nails. I always felt terrible about it when I saw the mark I left on myself. So it isn't any suprise if you're scared. When i saw that the bruises didn't go away as fast I got scared and knew I had to change. I switched to writing, or talking about it. I now love myself even though I harmed myself. I also loved myself then. You should always love yourself. I know exactly what you are goin through and I know how hard it is to stop. So GOOD LUCK!!!
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I am 15/f and i hate my family. This isn't a "teen rebellion" thing, i cant stand it here. My only sibling is in college, and when hes gone, its better but still bad. When hes home, my life is hell. Im sensitive and he makes fun of me and my insecurities, he embarasses me in front of my friends, he drinks and yells at me, and i hate it. My parents are always fighting because my mom tries so hard and it stresses her so she takes it out on me by yelling at me and teling me in worthless and she doesnt want me here. My dads an alcoholic and drives when drunk and he totals his car a lot and we have money problems. Every night i cry myself to sleep and i want to get away from here. I cant live here, its killing me. Ive wanted to commit suicide for years now, but i havent because i dont want to hurt my boyfriend and my best friends. I dont know what else to do, ive tried talking to my brother but he just pushes me out of the way and leaves. My dad just starts drinking and he drives away, and my mom just yells. I wanted to go to therapy but my parents wont let me because they dont want me telling other people my problems, they told me i have to handle it myself. i need help, please. what can i do to get away from my family? (link)
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Sweetheart I first of all never want you to be thinking that any of this is your fault. They made their own choices. I think you did a good thing come here for advice in secret instead of risking things with your fam. Just because your family says to not let loose who they really are, you should if you are against it. Stand up for what you beleive in even if you stand alone. There are many online therapsts (since I am not one) that you could seek, even links with people in similar situations for some real expert help. God bless and may you find what you are looking for!! GOOD LUCK!!!
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what is fun to do in new york city with your friends at night? (link)
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The wonderful city of NY!!! There are many things to do there. You could go to the city and see the biggest buildings, like the Empire State Building, the big toy store, And even the Statue of Liberty! You can look over the ocean, or just buy a good NY hot dog. But since your seeking night activities, I'm sure there are some clubs where you can dance the night away. Even get a date! GOOD LUCK!!!
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I need someone who is good with computers to
answer..
Whenever i go onto Myspace and go into my messages
this message appears it says
Stop running this script?
A script on this page is causing internet explorer to run slowly if it continues to run
your computer may become unresponsive
My questions are:
How can i stop this from happening?
Is this a virus?
Why is it happening?
The box keeps popping up and gives me the
option to either click yes or no
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OK well I have viruses all the time and usually dad fixes it. But if there is one thing I know, is that if there is a pop - up saying you have a virus and if you downlaod this we will fix it, DO NOT DOWNLOAD. THAT IS WHAT HAS THE VIRUS! I really hope this helped! GOOD LUCK!!!
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I'm 14/f and have liked this boy for a while now. About a month ago, we both admited we liked eachother, but that was it. And he never brought it up again, he told one of our mutual friends he wanted to get to know me more first, and i accepted that. But then he also told our fiend that he wasnt sure if he still liked me. So i just decided to leave it, but i still like him and talk to him. Lately, he's been getting jealous of this boy who is flirting with me and he's started questioning me loads about it etc, what does that mean? He also told me that i never make any effort to talk to him, but he doesnt with me either!? I want to talk to him about, well, all of it, but i just dont know what to say or how to bring it up, any ideas? (link)
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Well it means that when he tells friend he wants to meet you more, he wants to know for sure about a relationship, who dosen't want to do that? And when he jealous of your flirters, it just goes to show how much he well, likes you. Maybe he is just shyish? Like you said yourself it's hard to bring up this kind of a topic. Just try to talk like any human conversation. If he once really liked you, maybe it will be okay. GOOD LUCK!!!
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There is this bag I saw on the Burberry website, but I can't find it.. I don't know the name of it or anything.. If you click on this link:
http://us.burberry.com/shop/index.jsp?categoryId=2119866
You see the girl sitting on some step, you can't see her face or anything, just her body and the bag next to her, the blue burberry bag.. The biggest one in the picture. THAT is the one I like and want. Please could you help me figure out what is the name of it.. It is gorgeous.
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Well if the bag isn't in any stores, maybe the only way to get it is to order it online. If you really want I guess that's what you should do! GOOD LUCK!!!
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