I like a girl, but she might not like me. What do I do?
Question Posted Tuesday December 22 2009, 3:30 pm
I like this girl, and we talk alot. We hug, but we're just friends. I want to ask her out, but I'm afraid she'll say no. I don't take rejection well. I mean, she might say no, but she might say yes. We are in middle school. I'm in 8th grade and she's in 7th grade. What should I do?
DrPlayer answered Wednesday December 23 2009, 3:17 pm: Don't be afraid of rejection just gather up your courage and ask her. Plenty more fish in the sea and you have many more years of girls ahead. They ain't going no where anytime soon. Plus if you don't ask you will always wonder what could have been. [ DrPlayer's advice column | Ask DrPlayer A Question ]
orphans answered Tuesday December 22 2009, 10:16 pm: think about this. Act like every decision you make has no consequences. i mean, she's just a girl, who cares what she thinks of you right? So just ask, balls out, no chicken. Like Nike says, Just Do It. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
amazingness answered Tuesday December 22 2009, 9:55 pm: Well like I once said this is very common. The best thing to do is to just begin a normal convo. Then you will know when the perfect time to ask her is. Chances are if she is as nice as you say, then she will accept. But if rejected chances are she will still want to be frineds accept this offer because you can always say you tried! GOOD LUCK!!! [ amazingness's advice column | Ask amazingness A Question ]
gr8fruit answered Tuesday December 22 2009, 9:37 pm: Hi,
I would definately try. Ask her! If she says no, it might be because she is shy or nervous. She could really like you too, and I think you have a good chance because you two are friends. Also you have a close bond, I can tell because she allows you to hug her :)
If she says no, just keep being friends as normal, and sooner or later she may ask you out for she would already know how you feel. Or you could ask her again after a few weeks and I am sure she may change her mind once she thinks about it.
lolalufonda222 answered Tuesday December 22 2009, 8:48 pm: i get that your scared of rejection, most guys are. but if you think theres a chance that she likes you ask her out. if she says no then later tell her it was a dare or something. unless you think shes the kind of girl who will get insulted bu that....
and if she does say no, that doesnt nessacarily mean she doesnt like you.
im in high school but when i was in middle school ui rejected a lot of guy who i actually liked, really for no reason at all just becuasse i was embarrased. so dont take it offensively. and try again in a few years, she may change her mind,
good luck! plz lemme know how it works outtt =) [ lolalufonda222's advice column | Ask lolalufonda222 A Question ]
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