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I really like this guy. Problem is, I barely know him, plus he does drugs. Bad thing, I know. Have you ever felt that like when you see someone you feel like something is there and sometimes you just want to help him? I don't know if I should go for it and not even try so I don't end up hurt in the end.

okay i get where your coming from. however you have to think to yourself is it because you actually like him, or just because your feel the need to help him, or are you attracted to the whole "bad boy" image.
I'm sorry if anything i say/or have said offends you but im just looking at all the options.
I believe ( and im sorry for this ) that the only way you can actually like someone is by knowing him properly. you say you dont know him that well, then sit yourself down and ask yourself "why do i like him?" If there is a straight answer then go with whatever your heart tells you, however if you cant really put a finger on why you are attracted to him, then i would advise leaving it and focusing on your friends and to having a good life until the right decent guy comes along. To be fair, if he is doing drugs, then the chances are he isnt ready for a reletionship anyway. of corse its fine to get to know him better before you make a decision, just dont let him drag you into anything...bad.

Good Luck
priaa x

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My whole life, so far anyways, has been one, big, miserable hell. I'm going to be 19 in September and I don't feel like I can trust anybody. I've been told I'm pretty even beautiful, but I am not popular. Everybody makes fun of me, all throughout school they've made fun of me. My friends make fun of me, my family makes fun of me, and they do it in front of people who just met me which gives them a bad impression of me. I feel like everyone hates me because of some of the stuff they say. Everyone talks down to me when I say how I feel and I just hate it! Everyone seems to want to know how you feel and then when you tell them, they yell at you! I hate my life, and I hate being alive. No one would miss me if I was dead, so why does God keep me alive?

maybe gods keeping you alive because he knows that there is more for you in the future and if you look forward to it, and embrace everything then it makes you a stronger person so you can take the world without fail. of corse there will be the bad points, but everyone has a purpose and they need to be at the right point in life to find their true calling. so dont give up on life as there is so much to do. take risks and just try to enjoy being you instead of taking grief of everyone else. try doing something new until you find comfort in what youre doing.

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We're talking and he liked me.
After a while,he decided he just liked me as a friend but i still like him more than a friend.
We have the same group of friends,so we are going to end up being around each other.
I really want him to like me again in the future after things and tension settle down.
Should I try avoiding those times when he's with my friends and not see him as much and keep distance for a while?
Should I keep a close friendship? I need help!

sound like youre in a bit of a mess. no worries, ive been in the same situation before and it isnt easy. if you feel you want to be together in the future then think to yourself if it will really work, but try to keep an eye out for other guys too, so that you wont get left out in any action. if this guy only wants to be friends then he's probably serious, but dont avoid him, just try to talk it through with him and still stay friends.you never know, he might just introduce you to some of his mates you dont know and a relationship can blossom from there. you shouldnt really worry too much about past relationships, but try to focus on new ones with new people. you dont want to wreck a friendship so carry on being friends and wait for someone new to catch your eye.

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okay there is this guy named Marcus in my math class that i like.i really want to ask him out,but i dont want him to tell all my friends and make me a huge loser.and yes he is a little geeky.he has friends like him, he's not a loner. how do i ask him out? plz respond
-kelly,13 f tx

if you really do like him and your sure that it would work then dont be afraid of what your friends think of it. if they are true friends then thay will respect your decision and be with you all the way. try not to rush into anything though, as its best to get to know the guy first properly. try inviting him to a get together with some of yours and his friends where you can socialize and expand your relationship or even just arrange a study date. if you then do decide that you want him to consider being your boyfriend, then open up to him about it and trust he wants it too.

Pria .x

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