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its been a while


Question Posted Sunday November 29 2009, 6:01 pm

Soo... a lot has happened the last 3 months.. I'm still seeing the ex...but unoffically, has he still dates the other one. He spoke to my momma trying to make peace, my mom was all for it.. then he never broke up with her. There are days where he really seems like he wants to be with me, and admits that I'm like the unoffical girlfriend/part time one. He's unsure of what he wants, and he knows that he means a great deal to me. On the 18th I had a doctors appt and wasnt gonna make it to class in time, and he said go home and dont worry about it, and that he'd stop by after class just so he could say he saw me. So he indeed came over for 20 minutes just to see me.
The other day I asked his gf not to hate me, and she said not to take it personally and that to add her on fb so if they broke up we could gang up on him...It's all of a mix juggle, but I won't add her first thats for sure. :)

On a side note...
back a month ago I got a new phone right, with a new number.. so I decided the right thing to do was to text the former best friend..and just tell him.. apparently I gave him an attitude when I texted him, but thats how he took it.. so last week I had a bio problem, and he is a bio major right...so I took it as a shot, and apparently he was a tad tipsy thats why he answered. If he was sober he wasnt gonna even answer my text from the attitude I gave him back last month..so anyways, I asked if he would do my paper and I'd make him the brownies I owed him from 2 years ago..and we got into the whole brownie thing, and he somewhat remembers me owing him brownies after I refreshed him memory. So I'm like do u want the brownies? and he's like 'up to u'..so anyways he accepted my brownies..and we talked for like 30 minutes outside his house.. and hes like 'ill talk to you on AIM..' im like 'whoa now I can talk to you?!' and hes like 'well I have talked to you the last 3 days everytime you IM me.. but if you piss me off I won't..' im like 'ok then'.. so I won't step over that line at all. :)

but yeah.. I have a mix of things here. i'm losing the ex boyfriend..and slowly gaining back the ex best friend at the same time..


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karenR answered Monday November 30 2009, 7:13 am:
Oh girl what a mess. Sure wish you could get over this guy and find one who treats you like your the only girl on the planet. :)

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