what is raw emotion or raw anything
A raw emotion would, in my opinion, refer to an emotion that is without boundry, is wild, untamed and uncontrolled.
For example I'm sure you're well aware of the cartoon/movie Hulk. When the man changes into the Hulk he is said to become a creature of immense and raw power and rage. This refers to him being a mass of uncontrolable power and rage (rage being the primary force that brings the Hulk out in the first place, at least int he very old TV series anyway).
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this is a bit long but its very important. my mom has got to the point where im never home and i want to move out but im only 15. and i need help dealing with all of this. i know its long but i need the help. im crying everynight because of her.ok so heres the deal. i have posted questions like these before but htat was like last summerish to a year ago. and i always got the same answer saying oh talk to her and tell her how you feel. but thats not an option! ok so heres the problem...MY MOM! its liek the evil step mother and then the good daughter. except shes my mother. its horrible. so heres the deal i have 2 older sisters. ones a half sister because my dad was married before my mom and had a child and then they had me and my sister when my mom and dad got married. my dads daughter lived with us until she was like 18 i guess? then she ran away. and to be honest thats how im going to be. and im not even lying. the first chance i get to leave im going. ok so the first child my mom and dad had together was born premature. she was about 5 months early. she has Cerebral Palsy. a disability. i love my sister. i treat her as if there is nothing wrong with her. i treat her like a normal kid. but my mom doesnt. she favors my sister to the extreme. my sister is the little angel. if my sister does something wrong she never gets in trouble. but i f i do anything i get in so much trouble. even if its the right thing. all of my friends feel horrible for me like my sister doesnt need to be favored. my sister even tells my mom this. shes like mommy give my sister more attention. but my mom is liek i give her enough attention. well i hate my mom. i seriously do. if she tells me to do something..i do it. but i get in trouble for doing it. and if i do something wrong i get in trouble. so im never not in trouble. so im to the point where im never home. im constantly in fights with my mom. and my friends are over half the time. and the fights just randomly happen. like i will be helping my mom on the computer. and hten she would say carissa why do you have such an attitude? im like what? shes like your totally ignoring me i mean im asking you to help me nad your just doing it. and im like ok sorry. and sehs like whats that attitude for again? im liek what attitude? and shes liek that one! andi mlike forget it let me just show you. and she was asking how to copy and paste and i showed her and then she keeps saying like god i dont understand why you cna t just show me right away. and then im like what? and then it would get in this fight because then right there i would be like mom why do you always do this? like tell me to do things but then dont appreciate how im helping? then she gets pissed at me and we just start yelling and its just really annoying me.and she tells me to hang out with m ysister and include her in things and i do. but i get in trouble becuase my moms like i dont want you doing that stuff when your with your friends and you take joanna. and im liek well thats what we do. and then like i'll be like fine i wont hang out with m ysister with my friends. then liek my mom always yells at me for not hanging out with her but when i do she yells at me. i mean im not going to sit down with my friends and play scrabble for 5 hours. and my sister can do what i do. but my mom treats her like a baby. and i cant count on my mom or anything. i mean she never buys me clothes. she never bought me a bra. so i have to buy my own and there really expensive and i dont have a job yet because im too young. so by the time i save up for one i get it. but then i only have one bra because i cant get another. liek its seriously annoying. and one time i was with m yfriend and i was buying them and my moms like why are you buying these? and im like i need them and hses like no you dont you have plenty. this is only the little stuff. i mean its so bad. i mean i end the day crying in my room because of her. andi go to tlak to her about it and she just yells at me saying thats not true. liek talking to her isnt an option. and im actually trying not to tlak to her. im sick of fighting everyday. and its really annoying. i mean i look at my friends and there like best friends with their moms and i wanna cry because i cant have that relationship with my mom. i mean i told my closest friend im like im turning out like my toher sister. im ready to leave. and my friends like i know how hard it is for you and she supports me and helps me. but i mean after college im out of here. my mom wont ever see me again. i dont want to talk to her. like my mom loves me but she doesnt show it. i hate my mom. its not a lie. shes horrible! and like i told her im liek if your not going to listen to what im trying to tell you i want to go to a counselor maybe she will help me and our family. and my dad does nothing because hes at work all day so he doesnt believe its htat bad. and when hes homee all day im not home. and im always getting in trouble. im crying as im writing this. and i have no idea what to do. help me please. i have no one but my friends and my half sister. there the only ones that know what im going through. my mom doesnt believe what im saying. and she wont take me to a couselor like a family one or whatever. i need help. please its so hard for a teenage girl to go through life without someone there who can help them with advice. i mean i have to deal with heartbreaks with only my friends to support me and everything i have to do so much. please help me.
Hi.
I'm sorry about what you are going through, I really am. I was reading it through and I felt really bad because I could tell from your words how hurt you must feel while writingall of this.
First thing though is that it's good you want to try and seek out help to try and deal with things but I want to say right now, running away is not an option so please don't resort to something like that. If you think things are bad at the moment living on the streets (especially being a teenage girl) are a LOT worse and can get so much worse very, very quickly.
First things first though - since your mom wont take you to see or go and see a couselor with you to resolve these problems I suggest starting at school. I was under the impression that a lot of schools in the US (if that's where you are) have couselors available for students to talk to so that would be the best place to start. Find out if your school does and if you are not sure how to find out ask a trusted teacher you can talk to about a school couselor and how you'd like to talk to one as soon as you can. They will be in a position to be able to help you and your family a lot more directly than I can hopefully.
As for things at home, I think next time your mom asks you something to do try and help out and such but if she does start to try and have a fight with you just don't respond or give into it. Basicly, avoid pouring fuel onto the already burning fire that's there to make it worse. It might be hard to try and ignore all the abuse and such yourmom throws at you but try not to lose your temper and get into a shouting contest.
I'm not sure why your mom is actually being this way with you but the only thing I can think of is that she's under some major stress with everything that's going on and since she sees your sister as someone special she feels the only person around the house who she can take out all her frustrations and anger out on is you. As for the whle thing with the buying a bra that is not excusable at all and I think it's really bad that you have to save up money just to be able to buy one for yourself. That's just not right especially since, as you said, you're not old enough to work yet.
Just try and hang in there k, things will work out and things will be okay. Go with the advice I gave about trying to finda couselor at school that you can talk to becuase that will be a big help. If they feel there is a serious problem then I imagine they will try and get your mom involved as well so you can sort these issues out. It might be scary to think that your mom may find out you've been seeing a school couselor and such but you also need to understand the only way your mom will improve and things will get better (like that perfect relationship you so want with your mom) is if your mom actually realises how much she is mentally hurting you with what she is doing and it may hit home more if it comes from a couselor who's been talking to you.
I hope it all works out with you. One my cousins has an awesome relationship with his parents and whenever I see them all I always wish that my relationship could be like theirs when it comes to my parents because it's not even close. It's not as bad as your situation but it's not exactly the best of relationships out there so I know how you wish to improve it. Just hang in there because things will work out. Let me know how things go and anytime at all that you want to chat or if you feel depressed and need to talk feel free to write.
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does it help you lose weight?
If by pooping you mean going to the toilet then yes to an extent, it does.
Basicaly think of it this way... when you eat food you are adding the weight of that food to your own mass. When you go to the toilet you are removing from your body all the waste matter (so you technically lose some of that weight you added).
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my boyfriend's coming over tommorow but i don't know what to do.
he fingered me before, and i attempted to give him a handjob..but im really bad at it and don't know how to do it AT ALL.
1. is there a right way to do it?
2. how do you know you're having an orgasm?
1. Nope there's not really a right or wrong way to do it since it varies on how each person likes it. The best thing I can advise is when you try again to ask your bf to tell you what he likes and what he doesn't like and what he wants you to do and what feels good etc. It's all about communication when it comes down to it. Even when he fingers you - if something feels good let him know and if he does something that doesn't feel good or you don't like then say so because without that kind of communication between you both it could take a long time before you both work out what each other really like and more importantly, how you like it.
2. It's actually hard to describe but I can say that when you have an orgasm you will know it, that's for sure. :]
Good luck and hope it all goes well. :]
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My boyfriend (now ex) broke up with me on April 22nd. He told me he plans on getting back with me he just needs a break. He is really stressed because of home and school and he felt like he couldn't be a good boyfriend. But instead of working on our relationship, he lets his stress out by partying. We currently aren't talking but we occasionally have a conversation. He doesn't talk to me because I irritate him (along with a lot of his friends right now so it's not just me) and he doesn't want to be a dick and mess things up. How do I get him back, with out irritating him?
Please don't tell me to forget about him because that is not what I need to hear.
I know you said its not what you want to hear but unfortunently it may just be the case.
To be honest I don't know what's going through this guys mind but personally if I wanted to take a break and stuff then I'd have asked for space to work out my problems not broken things off completely and then hope she'd be waiting for me.
You're biggest mistake at the moment is that you are waiting for him and e=actually expect him to come back. He may be under stress and partying helps but he can go partying with you? Or is it just the fact being in a relationship that's bothering him and going out partying being attached means he can't flirt or do whatever he wants? I don't know to be honest but you're making a mistake in thinking he will come back. How do you know that he wont just meet some other girl while he's out clubbing away? Do you honestly believe he would still come back when he's done nothing but ignore you all this time?
If you really do want him back really badly though then I think all you really can do is wait it out until he's ready to talk to you since trying to talk to him will just push him away more and possibly irritate him more and make him not want to talk to you.
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So after 3 1/2 years its over. He broke up with me once. That lasted 1 month. Well, we got back together again just before his birthday in OCT. (Please note he gets extremely depressed around the holidays and his birthday.)During our back together time he was mean, and conveniently unavailable on the weekends all the time.
Well, in January (10th sh) is broke up with me again. It was over the phone and hung up on me when I started to cry. I emailed him a week later and asked for a 500 guitar back that I gave him for x-mas b/c quite frankly, I felt used (as always,) by him. His answer? He had his sister email me at work telling me never to contact him again.
Its been over 4 months with no calls emails or apologies AND we work at the same company! I am getting dirty looks from everyone who works on his floor and I am just so angry!!!! The one thing that I have always known about him is that he is a good liar and he is perpetually the "poor baby." I feel like everyone at my company sees me as this crazy girl he just "couldnt help anymore."
How do I get past this anger? Anger over the fact that I believe he was cheating, anger over the fact that he "loved me more than life" when he was broke with no friends, and dumped me when he got on his feet, and anger over the fact that everyone thinks he is the good guy??? I hate the idea of wishing bad on people but...
I can totally understand how you feel and I think you have every right to ask for that gift back considering how much it cost you.
Since he is being a jerk about things and yes, I think you're right - chances are he's been telling everyone at work this and that about you so they all see you as the bad one. I'll be completely honest with you and say to hell with him and all those other fools.
Liars eventually get found out especially when they lie to so many people. He will get what he deserves in time so don't worry yourself with that. You have your friends who know what the real story is and what really happen and that's all that counts. :] If other people want to believe him then be it.
I know you're really angry but let it go because someone like him really isn't worth getting yourself worked up over and stressed out over. If how he treated you is how he treats all his gf's then I can safely say he's in for a long and lonely life so far.
As for all you've done for him and how he paid you back (lies, cheating etc) I've been through that myself as well and it was heartbreaking and it pissed me off a lot but I had to let it go because there wasn't really anything else I could do about it. All you can do is let it go, don't let him get to you because when he does get to you he gets what he wants.
Sorry I can't help more than this but I hope what I said helps a little, and good luck. Don't worry about jerks like him too, plenty out there but you'll find the right one.
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ok so it's only been like 3 months scince i got my bellow button peirced. There is a strange bubble around the top half of the peircing. The skin around it is not red and the bottom half is fine. And it dosn't hurt really. My mom is a microbiologist and she used a sterolized needle to poke a hole in it. Only some blood came out no puss. Si i was wondering. Is it infected? or is it just healing or what?
If it was infected it would generally be filled with pus (a byproduct of your body fighting off the infection) but if all that came out was blood it may just be nothing but since it did appear after having the piercing it would be safer to have it checked out by your family doctor just to be on the safe side and to make sure it's notan infection since I am no doctor, and last thing I want to do is say it's not an infection when it might actually be just that.
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At what age can you sign up for Advicenators?
I thought when I signed up it was 12 or 13?
I believe, as with most online forums and such, it is 13.
You can find more details of this in the FAQ if you follow the link below.
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=53
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Okay, this may be a stupid question but i really want to know. can your animals get sick from the germs of their owner when their owners are sick?
thanks a bunch
Actually I found your question to be a very good question indeed.
In recent years we have seen a large number of virii and germs that have been able to be passed on from their animal hosts to humans so it would seem only fitting that the germs can work the other way around as well. Animals may be immune to certain germs and virii but certainly there are some they are not immune to.
We are told to wash our hands after handling animals and such and this would only be because of the possible germs that can be spread so I'd have to say yes, it would be possible for certain germs to be passed on to animals but I am basing this more on opinion than on actual evidence/research. I had a brief look online to see if I could find any related details but was unable to and at the moment I am pressed for time but I shall look again to see if I can find anything and pass it on if you'd like, to you.
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Ok, so I am 15, nearly 16. So this week I am going to my (boy)friends house for the first time ever. We arent technically going out, but we are basically boyfriend and girlfriend. I am really nervous about meeting his parents, I dont want them to think I am weird, or a slut, or anything. We wont be spending any time with his parents, but I am still scared. Should I talk to them when I see them, or just like, say hello and run off. Also, I am a little nervous about what we can do at his house. I dont want there to be any awkward moments, cause I wont know what to do. Any suggestions? Please help with this, I am really scared of making a bad impression.
Thanks guys.
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How are you boyfriend and girlfriend but not technically going out? An explination would be interesting as I'm curious.
Anyway, just be yourself and don't worry. It's always polite to say hello so start with that and be open to them talking to you (don't have yoour back to them or seem defensive). Smile and just chat - there's really nothing more than that to it. =] If your boyfriend wants to do domething you don't want to by all means you have no reason to talk to his mom if you want (regarding what kaotic_angel said about the smoking part - don't think you have to do something you don't want to just to keep out of their way).
Just have a good time and enjoy yourself. :]
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is Datying and Going out with the same thing? i was told by a friend that they weren't. Help. lol
To me, no, their not although everyone has their own versions (like what everyone's opinion of what going on a break is).
Dating to me is the same as seeing someone whereas your seeing different people and going on dates with people (guys) as a way to get to know them and what their like and ultimately to hopefully hook up with one of them if things go well.
Going out with is when you're past the dating stage and are actually girlfriend and boyfriend. :]
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ok well my parents have a huge rule about boyfriends and Sex. but ive had a boyfriend for months now and im thinking about having sex with him. What do you think i should do should i do it...i really cant figure this out on my own.
I'd go with what cHaSsi3x said as well and would also like to add something...
When I was with my ex we were together a long while and I was ready to give up everything for her (my family wouldn't have approved regardless that I'm old enough to make this decision by myself) and I was very, very close to doing just that because I was very much in love until things with her went sour and we broke up (I won't get into details). I was VERY glad that I hadn't pushed my whole family away for this one person who nothing even worked out for. We had always promised we'd be together and all that jazz but I was living under a spell called being in love. It doesn't work that way and life's no fairytale. If this is what you truly want then by all means it is your decision but there's no harm at all in waiting. If he loves you he'll wait - it's not going anywhere.
If I had pushed all my family away andsuch with my ex - I'd have no one now because me and her broke up. With you it's a little different but the last thing you want to do is give up a part of you (and have sex with this guy) only to end up breaking up a month later and you questioning yourself and your decision you made. Either way though if you do go ahead with it be on the safe side and use protection. :]
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Ok so last year my ex broke up with me. While we were together he lied,cheated, the whole 9. Every since we broke up which was a year ago he tells me he is so sorry for what he did, that he loves me, he misses me, and all kinds of other stuff. I know he has had a few girlfriends since then, and currently has one that on his myspace page he calls her his wife. So why won't he stop the games?? And what can I do to get him to stop??
This guy is starting to sound like someone I used to know. I believe he was eventually arrested for harassment. :/
Anyway, he may just be looking for forgiveness and if you've forgiven him since then you should tell him so as it might be all he wants - even though he does seem far too persistant if all he want's is your forgiveness. If you really do want him to leave you alone (because if it's not about forgiveness then he's probably just looking for a way back into your life somehow) and you don't want that then you would be best to just tell him to stop talking to you and to leave you alone. The only way he will stop is if you actually TELL him to stop. The fact you've keptin touch or not told him to leave you alone for good after all he did while with you is surprising but then I guess I am not as forgiving as others might be.
If what you want is him to just stop and leave you alone then tell him that and make it clear so he will understand that's what you want. Being subtle sometimes doesn't work because some guys just don't get it. So you may have to be direct and to the point.
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Ok...i'm 16, my parents are going away and my aunt is staying with us. She already told me i could have some people over, like 10ish...and that we could drink.
Should i do it?? I'm a little worried about being caught, but i feel like if we're careful we wont get caught....
Advice??? I feel like its all a part of being in highschool :)
If you were told you can do it then why are you scared of getting caught? Surely you've no reason to hide it or be scared if you've already got permission to have people over and you can drink? Unless it was a typo and you meant to say you can't have people over?
I had a party when my parents were gone and Imanaged to hide it really well till a week later when they eventually found out. Turned out it was someone down the street who told my parents. They were okay with it tho in the long term but then I was older than you at the time anyway AND, more to the point, if things went wrong they knew I can deal with it.
If they said no then its up to you but I wouldn't suggest it unless you plan to tell them afterwards since they may find out afterwards anyway. IF you have people over though make sure you prepare for it especially if alcohol is going to be available. When friends get drunk they can get out of control so anything that's breakable and expensive should be put someplace out of the way in a safe place. All rooms you don't want people going into should be locked shut (this way you can keep a track of where everyone is as well). If people are going to smoke ensure they do it outside (last thing you need is cig burns on furnature) and the most important of all - make sure you can handle the number of people coming. This is probably most important of all. I had invited only 15 or so people and had 25+ turn up because friends told other friends and they told more freiends etc, etc. Most of them were high to and in groups (5 vs 1 when you're trying to kick someone out is not good odds) but I hardly look like someone who can't handle myself as well as having a dozen guys who were close mates around at the time so it made for easy kick outs when I had to boot people out.
All these are things you will have to ensure you have covered. :] Other than that if you have permission then by all means have a get together with some mates - it's always a great laugh. :D
Oh and for the record yup I had to boot a group of guys out. They turned upwith one my friends I invited over (a girl who was at a concert before gettin to mine so she probably told them of the house party while there and drunk/high) and since she was too out her mind to really know what she was doingor on about these guys thought they would stay over with her to 'look after' her. Was at this point I told them to either walk out the door or I'd have to call them the medics to carry them off. Suffice to say they left peacefully and my mate was fine the next morning (albeit a hangover as well as not remembering anything about those guys or who they were).
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well i'm 14yrs.old in the 9th grade. i've never been kissed yet, or had a boyfriend.i don't know why. i think it's because of my personality or maybe because i'm not like all the other girls. why haven't i gotten kissed yet??[and please don't reply with" someday it'll come" or "when it's the right time it'll happen]
I'm goin to answer this very directly and to the point so excuse me if it sounds harsh at all... you're 14, you've got aaages to go so I don't think it's a major disaster so just wait - it'll happen. I know you don't want to hear that and stuff but at the end of the day that's pretty much what everyone has to do - they wait or go out and find someone they like and such. If you get desporate then you'll end up wanting whatever comes your way (especially when it comes to guys) and that's the mistake a lot of girls make when it comes to relationships and ending up with a total jackass of a bf.
Ba patient - it'll happen when it happens. If you cant hear that then by all means you're welcome to change who you are but personaly I see no reason foryou to do that - youd only be pretending to be something your not and all youd do is attract jerks. Girls here act like sluts and they think its great because their so popular. Poor things haveno idea the guys their attracting are nothing but scum. :/
I don't think there's anything wrong with your personality at all. I think I have an awesome personality but I've been single for 2 years now. I don't think I look all that bad either, I mean I'm no but I'm not all that bad regardless. It's all a matter of just waiting it out. :]
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A couple of days ago i started getting a really sore throat and now it's just scratchy and really annoying. Sometimes if i swallow i'll feel like i have strep or a fever but i don't. Any thing i can drink or take would be helpful just to get rid of this scratchy and sore throat!!!
and i went to my allergy surgeon person today and he ordered a pill that supposedly makes things swell less and these things in my sinuses are swollen well the side effects are:
-swollen face
-increased appetite
-being very moody
-getting hyper
-feeling loopy
-gaining weight
i guess i just really like the way i am and i don't want any of these side effects i'm 13/f i weigh about 98 or 99 lbs and i'm about 5' 3'' i know i'm tiny i guess i really don't want to get chubby in the face. should i really be worried? or just ignore it and let the medicine work.
please help.
thanks!
I can't really advise on the throat problem but with the tablets you are taking and your concerns about them and the possible side effects - generally (at least where I am) if you are taking any kind of medication and you experience any side effects from them normal practice is to stop taking them immediately and to contact the doctor who prescribed them for further details and to make sure its safe to carry on taking them.
If you have any concerns that you might be experiencing a side effect from those tablets you're taking then I suggest calling up the doctor who prescribed them and then letting him know to check if this is normal. Not only would it just be a good idea to be certain but it will also put your mind at ease. :]
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im 17/f. i dont ever feel happy anymore. i feel like im faking it all the time. i have absolutely no friends. i never go out with people. i talk to people in school but never hang out. i feel jealous of other girls who have best friends they hang out with and can count on. i dont have a boyfriend. im slightly buliimic but still feel fat everyday. i feel like such a failure. people tell me im pretty and no one would ever guess any of this is true about me. i lie all the time about having friends and stuff like that. how can i be happy and enjoy my life?
Hi.
Not having a bf is no big deal at all so dont worry about that at all - things like that come when they come so dont worry. :) As for everything else like not having friends - talk to and get to know some of the people at your school. Maybe try a part time job somewhere which will give you a chance to get out and meet people and make new friends. I think all you need to do is have some confidence in yourself. Don't put yourself down so much because it's not doing yoou any good on the inside at all. Ive no doubt that your an awesome person and would be a great friend but its just a matter of letting your guard down a little. If people invite you to hang out then by all means go for it. Its true a lot of guys are only after sex especially in their teens years but not all are and even if it ever comes down to that you can tell them to get lost (or no if you prefer, hehe). Someone once said to fear love is to fear life and those who fear life are already 3 parts dead.
I'll tell you something about myself no one knows - I didn't start to live until a lot later into my teen years (later than you even). I was exactly the same as you in some ways so believe me to an extent I can relate. Take it one step at a time and make it happen for yourself. You don't need to be jealous of all those other girls with best friends because you can have that yourself too. Talk to people at school (girls to start with if you feel more comfortable) and from there you'll make friends in no time youll be hanging out with and such. Its the way it happens with everyone.
Bulimia is a dangerous problem - are you seeking professional help to deal with it at all? If not I think it might be a good idea to. I've no doubt that you do look pretty and fine just how you are but being bulimic does make you think otherwise no matter how much you hear to the contrary and the last thing I'd want as well as you making yourself ill becuase of it so please, if you haven't already then please try seeking some cousil with that problem (there should be help lines that you can call where you don't haveto give any of your personal details as well as web addresses with a lot of information and tips - if you'd like me to look some up for you jsut give me a shout and let me know).
Hope I was some help and Ihope you'll be okay. Don't worry though things will be fine, just give yourself a chance and youll see. :]
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Last night, I sms with one of my friends (a guy who I actually has feelings for) to ask him help me out on something. But I was too scared to ask him to help me out. While he was guessing what I was trying to ask him, he somehow wrote like flirty sms "want me to be your bf? Not a bad idea also". Then later on, he told me he just wanted to see how my reaction was by saying that. A while later, he suddenly pop out a question asking me "does religion matters to you in relationship?". I was stunned why he suddenly asked this because this guy and I actually have different religion. Lately I realised that he sings christian songs and do the sign of the cross (I am a Catholic). Is he trying to drop some hints that he actually likes me or is it that I am just too sensitive? Actually, now I am quite worried about him cause I do not know what has gone into his mind..
It does sound like he might like you and if this is not what you want then I think the best thing to do would be to let him know as soon as you can rather than wait, it'll be better he knows now before he gets too attached to the idea and thinks that you like him (if you don't that is).
On the other hand if you do like him then I think I can say the it seems he does like you too.
Either way though I think you'll need to talk to him to straighten it out. If you can't directly talk to him about it then use txt or even online chat but if you don't like him it might be a good idea to hint that you don't think of him in that way.
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Long story short, I slept in the same bed with my best guy friend. (I'm 16/f, he's 16/m) And he actually slept, like not sex or anything, but we went to sleep. Before this, he used to call everyday just to see how I'm doing, and we'd hang out everyday even if it was for 5 minutes. After this happened, he left at about 7 in the morning, and I didn't hear from him for 5 days. I had to call and ask why the fuck he was treating me like this, because I really didn't understand what was going on. Basically, our friendship has never been the same. And I guess I'm just asking, it's been about 4 months now, will our friendship ever return to how it used to be?
Hi.
I'm not sure if it'll ever be the same because I have no idea why it's changed in the first place to be honest. :/
When you asked him on the phone what had he said? Did he say why he was acting this way? I've slept in the same bed as some of my friends (females whereas I'm male and all we did was sleep too - no funny business) and we had been fine, it was no big deal at all really.
Ican't understand why he's being this way unless he was expecting you to make a move on him or was expecting something from the whole encounter (wrong signals maybe?) and when nothing happen he just got into a '12 year old boy not getting what he wants' type of stress.
If he didn't say then I think you should ask him what his problem is with you and if he doesn't want to remain friends anymore he should tell you so you're not chasing after him all the time. At the end of the day the way I see it he shouldn't be and has no reason to be treating you this way. And if he's acting this way because he WAS expecting more to happen that night then him acting this way is even more pathetic and I'd say tell him to go to hell. If your whole friendship was based just on what he could get out of you that night then he doesn't deserve to have a friend like you and you deserve a friend who's actually going to be a friend and not someone like this.
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ok so, i have to take a pee test tomorrow to see why im losing wieght.
and i did weed about 2 weeks ago, and it takes 21 days to get out of ur system
my question is will they be able to tell, if thats not what they are looking for?
dont judge me, i just need help. big time.
I'm no sure of the procedure they use but more than likely it will show up in their tests. If they are still uncertain as to why you're loosing weight then they are still looking to find the answer, therefore they may well look for anything at all that shouldn't be there or seems out of place.
I wouldn't worry too much about it thoughto be honest. As far as I know weed doesn't account for weight loss so I doubt they will really care (chances are half the guysdoing the tests smoke the stuff anyway). Unless weed is the reason you're looking weight in which case you can bet they will mention it and you'll just have to bite the bullet as far as what they say goes.
I don't think you have to worry about them calling the DEA or anything like that just coz you was smokin weed so you should be okay - don't worry about it. :]
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