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....single today..single tomorrow.
well i'm 14yrs.old in the 9th grade. i've never been kissed yet, or had a boyfriend.i don't know why. i think it's because of my personality or maybe because i'm not like all the other girls. why haven't i gotten kissed yet??[and please don't reply with" someday it'll come" or "when it's the right time it'll happen]
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well, it seems that you had a personality manners! if in your school, nobody said or kick you as a looser, than everything will be ok! But if it happens, you should check yourself! are you willing to check your own attitude? Since, we didn't give a mark for ourselves (but people did, the society did1). may be you didn't aware about your surroundings, how other people behave on you, how the way they look at you!
Just try to see with other people's point of view, then you can get what the hell is wrong with you and try to adjust your self without loosing your own personality, the real you and what you really want!
Hope i could help you!
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I'm goin to answer this very directly and to the point so excuse me if it sounds harsh at all... you're 14, you've got aaages to go so I don't think it's a major disaster so just wait - it'll happen. I know you don't want to hear that and stuff but at the end of the day that's pretty much what everyone has to do - they wait or go out and find someone they like and such. If you get desporate then you'll end up wanting whatever comes your way (especially when it comes to guys) and that's the mistake a lot of girls make when it comes to relationships and ending up with a total jackass of a bf.
Ba patient - it'll happen when it happens. If you cant hear that then by all means you're welcome to change who you are but personaly I see no reason foryou to do that - youd only be pretending to be something your not and all youd do is attract jerks. Girls here act like sluts and they think its great because their so popular. Poor things haveno idea the guys their attracting are nothing but scum. :/
I don't think there's anything wrong with your personality at all. I think I have an awesome personality but I've been single for 2 years now. I don't think I look all that bad either, I mean I'm no <insert the name of some popular hot celeb guy here> but I'm not all that bad regardless. It's all a matter of just waiting it out. :]
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hmm
so lets see
were gonna talk the truth no bs in the middle or anything
so look at these factors
are you....
1.outgoing-do you like to talk to guys etc like saying hey whats up or sometimes it has to come with dares but remember your ethics and peer pressure
2.attractiveness-im sorry but guys are asses when it comes to this you have to be attractive most of the time when it comes to getting a good guy cause guys are that shallow (personally as long as shes decent looking and i can talk to her forever then ill go out with her)
3.parental control-try to look at if your parents restrict you to stop dating or anything or simply as if your parents dont allow you to do things as in go to the movies or use aim or myspace etc
and yeah you want to talk to the guy too
4.Dont be mean-i know guys like to flirt by being mean by like putting funny stuff on your back cause i do it too just make sure youre making a good first impresion or being nice overall
5.listen-male egos are bigger than anything, so you gotta give them attention cause i personally like talking with a girl that can keep me going and listens to me and gives her input
so try these five points cause these are the only things i can think of
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