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Why am I not getting over this jerk?!!!
So after 3 1/2 years its over. He broke up with me once. That lasted 1 month. Well, we got back together again just before his birthday in OCT. (Please note he gets extremely depressed around the holidays and his birthday.)During our back together time he was mean, and conveniently unavailable on the weekends all the time.
Well, in January (10th sh) is broke up with me again. It was over the phone and hung up on me when I started to cry. I emailed him a week later and asked for a 500 guitar back that I gave him for x-mas b/c quite frankly, I felt used (as always,) by him. His answer? He had his sister email me at work telling me never to contact him again.
Its been over 4 months with no calls emails or apologies AND we work at the same company! I am getting dirty looks from everyone who works on his floor and I am just so angry!!!! The one thing that I have always known about him is that he is a good liar and he is perpetually the "poor baby." I feel like everyone at my company sees me as this crazy girl he just "couldnt help anymore."
How do I get past this anger? Anger over the fact that I believe he was cheating, anger over the fact that he "loved me more than life" when he was broke with no friends, and dumped me when he got on his feet, and anger over the fact that everyone thinks he is the good guy??? I hate the idea of wishing bad on people but...
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I can totally understand how you feel and I think you have every right to ask for that gift back considering how much it cost you.
Since he is being a jerk about things and yes, I think you're right - chances are he's been telling everyone at work this and that about you so they all see you as the bad one. I'll be completely honest with you and say to hell with him and all those other fools.
Liars eventually get found out especially when they lie to so many people. He will get what he deserves in time so don't worry yourself with that. You have your friends who know what the real story is and what really happen and that's all that counts. :] If other people want to believe him then be it.
I know you're really angry but let it go because someone like him really isn't worth getting yourself worked up over and stressed out over. If how he treated you is how he treats all his gf's then I can safely say he's in for a long and lonely life so far.
As for all you've done for him and how he paid you back (lies, cheating etc) I've been through that myself as well and it was heartbreaking and it pissed me off a lot but I had to let it go because there wasn't really anything else I could do about it. All you can do is let it go, don't let him get to you because when he does get to you he gets what he wants.
Sorry I can't help more than this but I hope what I said helps a little, and good luck. Don't worry about jerks like him too, plenty out there but you'll find the right one.
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