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BEST FRIEND
Long story short, I slept in the same bed with my best guy friend. (I'm 16/f, he's 16/m) And he actually slept, like not sex or anything, but we went to sleep. Before this, he used to call everyday just to see how I'm doing, and we'd hang out everyday even if it was for 5 minutes. After this happened, he left at about 7 in the morning, and I didn't hear from him for 5 days. I had to call and ask why the fuck he was treating me like this, because I really didn't understand what was going on. Basically, our friendship has never been the same. And I guess I'm just asking, it's been about 4 months now, will our friendship ever return to how it used to be?
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yeah well thhat's not gd friendship should be better than anyhting
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Hi.
I'm not sure if it'll ever be the same because I have no idea why it's changed in the first place to be honest. :/
When you asked him on the phone what had he said? Did he say why he was acting this way? I've slept in the same bed as some of my friends (females whereas I'm male and all we did was sleep too - no funny business) and we had been fine, it was no big deal at all really.
Ican't understand why he's being this way unless he was expecting you to make a move on him or was expecting something from the whole encounter (wrong signals maybe?) and when nothing happen he just got into a '12 year old boy not getting what he wants' type of stress.
If he didn't say then I think you should ask him what his problem is with you and if he doesn't want to remain friends anymore he should tell you so you're not chasing after him all the time. At the end of the day the way I see it he shouldn't be and has no reason to be treating you this way. And if he's acting this way because he WAS expecting more to happen that night then him acting this way is even more pathetic and I'd say tell him to go to hell. If your whole friendship was based just on what he could get out of you that night then he doesn't deserve to have a friend like you and you deserve a friend who's actually going to be a friend and not someone like this.
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