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boyfriend's coming over tommorow.
my boyfriend's coming over tommorow but i don't know what to do.
he fingered me before, and i attempted to give him a handjob..but im really bad at it and don't know how to do it AT ALL.
1. is there a right way to do it?
2. how do you know you're having an orgasm?
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1. I don't think there is really wrong way to do it since everyone's opinion of what feels good is different. Ask him to point you in the right direction movement-wise. He'll tell you what he likes and what he doesn't like. Just remember, the wetter the better.
2. There are two different types of orgasms. Well, they feel different for me anyway. The clitoral orgasm kind of feels like fireworks exploding on your happy spot. A vaginal orgasm feels more like a rolling explosion inside of you.
Hope this helps!
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1. Nope there's not really a right or wrong way to do it since it varies on how each person likes it. The best thing I can advise is when you try again to ask your bf to tell you what he likes and what he doesn't like and what he wants you to do and what feels good etc. It's all about communication when it comes down to it. Even when he fingers you - if something feels good let him know and if he does something that doesn't feel good or you don't like then say so because without that kind of communication between you both it could take a long time before you both work out what each other really like and more importantly, how you like it.
2. It's actually hard to describe but I can say that when you have an orgasm you will know it, that's for sure. :]
Good luck and hope it all goes well. :]
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