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What can I do at his house?
Ok, so I am 15, nearly 16. So this week I am going to my (boy)friends house for the first time ever. We arent technically going out, but we are basically boyfriend and girlfriend. I am really nervous about meeting his parents, I dont want them to think I am weird, or a slut, or anything. We wont be spending any time with his parents, but I am still scared. Should I talk to them when I see them, or just like, say hello and run off. Also, I am a little nervous about what we can do at his house. I dont want there to be any awkward moments, cause I wont know what to do. Any suggestions? Please help with this, I am really scared of making a bad impression.
Thanks guys.
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Honestly. Be yourself. When you arrive there, introduce yourself to his parents and say hey and ask how they are doing. When you're there, that's his job to figure out something to do unless ya'll want to go somewhere or something, but just go with the flow, everything will turn out right. &make sure you don't wear a really low-cut shirt or his parents may not get as great of a first impression as they should. =] Have fun!! Good luck!!
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How are you boyfriend and girlfriend but not technically going out? An explination would be interesting as I'm curious.
Anyway, just be yourself and don't worry. It's always polite to say hello so start with that and be open to them talking to you (don't have yoour back to them or seem defensive). Smile and just chat - there's really nothing more than that to it. =] If your boyfriend wants to do domething you don't want to by all means you have no reason to talk to his mom if you want (regarding what kaotic_angel said about the smoking part - don't think you have to do something you don't want to just to keep out of their way).
Just have a good time and enjoy yourself. :]
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Its normal to feel nrevous being around parents.
Don't worry about them thinkin that, if you go in and say hello how was your day today? they have no reasons to think that way of you. Most guys have video games, but ask if you can play, guys like having someone to play with, and if your not good at it than ask for help. If he doesn't have one than watch tv and talk, or ask if he has cards. Or if he smokes ask to smoke. theres a bunch of things to do, ask him what he likes doing.
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