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Why him?
Okay there's this kid, let's call him Henry.
I can't stop thinking about Henry. But my best friend is like in love with him. He doesn't talk to my best friend and my best friend doesn't talk to him. She just "worships" him from afar but tells everyone that she likes him, when she herself does not talk to him. Me on the other hand I talk to him all the time in school. In lunch I always feel like he stares my way when he walks past the table with his friends. Henry likes this freshman. She is using him as like a safety, avoiding him when he tries to ask her out and falling back on him when she is lonely. What I want to know is why do I think about him when he doesn't even like me? I don't want to like him. I want to like someone whose available and who likes me back. Please help me I don't know what to do and my life sucks as it is. Thanks in advance.
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Well, first off who you like is who you like, there is no picking and choosing. It's understandable to like him esp. if he is a friend, but maybe you should try hanging out with him outside of school. Obviously it isn't going to work out with the girl he likes and if you really do like him, try to sneak yourself into his life even more than you already are. Hang out with him, talk to him on the phone, find some way to keep that other girl off his mind and put yourself in that place instead. Also, give yourself some time. You're still young and you have a lot of life to live, just don't freak and eventually guys will come. More than likely a guy likes you that just hasn't told you yet. =]
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Hey there hun. =)
One thing that's for sure is you can't help who you like! If you have feelings for this guy you won't be able to change them or ignore them easily. He will stay in your life, and you guys are going to talk, so you have no control on it. You can't ignore him all of a sudden. (That's a not mean =( )
I think you like him, because he's a good friend to you. Once again, you can't help how you feel about him.
But this is like trying to get over someone. What you can do is just think of him as a friend. And try going out with different people. When you guys hang out, hang out in a big group.
I don't know if that helped! Hope it did. Good luck, update me and tell me how things are going. Take care. <3 =)
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