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Go against family and do it or?
ok well my parents have a huge rule about boyfriends and Sex. but ive had a boyfriend for months now and im thinking about having sex with him. What do you think i should do should i do it...i really cant figure this out on my own.
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well if YOU want too then go ahead. if you honestly think your ready to give it up and all. i understand your parents would be disapointed and everything but mostly likely they wouldn't find out. unless you went to a gynacologist, but i think they gotta keep those thing secret. so if you're ready, go ahead.
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Hey there! If i were you i wouldn't! But thats just me. I wouldn't risk it. A lot of things can go wrong. Plus i believe waiting till you get married is the right choise.
I agree with the coulmnist that says that you should KNOW when you're ready first. When you're completely sure that you want this and you're definately know you're ready for this. Then i guess you can go with it. It depends on how you feel about it. And it's your choise; your call. No one will make the decision for you. As i said, i would never risk it. It's best if you wait. =)
I don't know if that helped. Hope it did. Take care! =) If you need anything else ask! <3
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I'd go with what cHaSsi3x said as well and would also like to add something...
When I was with my ex we were together a long while and I was ready to give up everything for her (my family wouldn't have approved regardless that I'm old enough to make this decision by myself) and I was very, very close to doing just that because I was very much in love until things with her went sour and we broke up (I won't get into details). I was VERY glad that I hadn't pushed my whole family away for this one person who nothing even worked out for. We had always promised we'd be together and all that jazz but I was living under a spell called being in love. It doesn't work that way and life's no fairytale. If this is what you truly want then by all means it is your decision but there's no harm at all in waiting. If he loves you he'll wait - it's not going anywhere.
If I had pushed all my family away andsuch with my ex - I'd have no one now because me and her broke up. With you it's a little different but the last thing you want to do is give up a part of you (and have sex with this guy) only to end up breaking up a month later and you questioning yourself and your decision you made. Either way though if you do go ahead with it be on the safe side and use protection. :]
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I have the same problem.. but I'm just gonna try to keep it a secret. If my family finds out, I would lose ALL trust and respect. It's in the Bible. It's like, wrong. So if you are unsure, then don't do it. I'm like 65% yes on this.
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it really depends on if you feel you are truley ready to give that up. don't just do it because you think you're ready, do it when you know you're ready. and if you're willing to risk that for what could turn into a conflict with your family, then go for it. but only if YOU are ready. and if it makes you happy, hopefully you're family will understand.
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