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I want him back (I need Male's help!)
My boyfriend (now ex) broke up with me on April 22nd. He told me he plans on getting back with me he just needs a break. He is really stressed because of home and school and he felt like he couldn't be a good boyfriend. But instead of working on our relationship, he lets his stress out by partying. We currently aren't talking but we occasionally have a conversation. He doesn't talk to me because I irritate him (along with a lot of his friends right now so it's not just me) and he doesn't want to be a dick and mess things up. How do I get him back, with out irritating him?
Please don't tell me to forget about him because that is not what I need to hear.
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It's not what you need to hear because you don't want to accept the truth.
You're in a vicious cycle of emotional self harm. If you want to know how to end your addiction to him and pain, send me a message, because what I have to say, as truthful as it is, is porbably something that you don't want to hear.
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you should try helping him and really this is just my opinion but i don't think partying is the best way to get ride of stress. but that's just me. yeah but try talking to him about his problems and help him think clearer. i think it's a good thing that he doesn't want to mess things up by being a dick and stuff but idk if breaking up was the best thing to do. i find it a whole lot easier getting through stuff with someone there to talk to. but that's just me. talking to another person about stuff really is helpful or you can just talk about other thing to try to get his mind off of the problems for a while and give him a much need break. just my opinion, hope it help.
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I know you said its not what you want to hear but unfortunently it may just be the case.
To be honest I don't know what's going through this guys mind but personally if I wanted to take a break and stuff then I'd have asked for space to work out my problems not broken things off completely and then hope she'd be waiting for me.
You're biggest mistake at the moment is that you are waiting for him and e=actually expect him to come back. He may be under stress and partying helps but he can go partying with you? Or is it just the fact being in a relationship that's bothering him and going out partying being attached means he can't flirt or do whatever he wants? I don't know to be honest but you're making a mistake in thinking he will come back. How do you know that he wont just meet some other girl while he's out clubbing away? Do you honestly believe he would still come back when he's done nothing but ignore you all this time?
If you really do want him back really badly though then I think all you really can do is wait it out until he's ready to talk to you since trying to talk to him will just push him away more and possibly irritate him more and make him not want to talk to you.
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