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do girls have to shave below?? or do u not have to? (link)
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You don't have to.
You can if you'd like to, but it is not necessary. :)
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Okay well my dad bought me 6 tickets to the Houston Bowl like 3 weeks ago. I asked my best friend, Ryan to go with me the second I got the tickets and he said yes. They were great tickets in the nice, club area of Reliant and my dad got us a limo and everything.
The game was today and after the game we were supposed to go back to his house because he was throwing this big New Year's party.
He called me this morning an hour before we had to leave for the game and said he wasn't coming. I asked him why and he just said "no reason" and hung up. I called him back and asked him what his problem was and if he was mad at me. He told me that if I cared about him the least bit I would know what I did. I thought about it and could not come up with one thing that I did wrong.
At the game the rest of us were talking about it and I told them that if he was going to be like that then why would I go to his party. One of my friends that was there was going to a different party so I said that I would just go to that one since I knew people that were going there too.
Well someone from our Houston Bowl group had called Ryan during the game and told him that I was going to another party. He then called me and cussed me out and everything. I still had no idea why he was mad to begin with so I told him that unless he tells me why he's mad then he can't cuss at me and stuff. After that he just hung up.
What am I supposed to do here? Should I just ignore him until he decides to tell me what the matter is?
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I think he's being a little immature about this myself.
If you did something wrong then why didn't he say something at the time? Why wait until an hour before the game? That ticket was probably worth a lot of money for someone to do a last minute ditch on.
And, if hes so mad why get pissy because you aren't going to HIS party? He didn't have a problem bailing out of going to the game with you!
So yes, at the very least ignore him until he does some pretty good apologizing. :)
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What happens if you take too many sleeping pills? (link)
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You fall asleep and don't wake up.
Taking to many can kill you. Don't even get in the habit of taking them at your age. :)
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I'm always tired. Even when I get 8+ hours of sleep. What's wrong with me?
It's hard to do something when all day I feel like I'm going to pass out on my desk. (link)
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You should probably see a doctor and find out what is going on.
Something is interrupting your sleep enough that you are dragging all day. :)
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ok i was just wondering is it a safe bet that someone is not a preditor if u have seen them on their webcam or what cause i really lik this guy who really likes me and ive never met him face to face. ive seen tons of pics of him and him on his webcam and hes 16. i would talk to the computer teacher at school or something, but i wont see him intil winter break is over. thanx i rate high (link)
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I think you should treat anyone you meet online with a certain amount of caution.
Not everyone is a predator of some kind but, they are out there.
If you get along with this guy and want to be friends online I don't see anything wrong with that.
Should you run off and meet him all by yourself...NEVER.
If you would like to meet (assuming he lives near by) then that's okay too...IF you use caution. Take a parent along and meet in a public place a few times until everyone is sure the other is okay.
I don't think he will have a problem with that if he is a good guy. He will understand and appreciate your caution...because he should be cautious too. :)
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I have a question.
What is a good way to learn the language of German through self study? (link)
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German sounds like it would be a tough language to learn because of the heavy accents!
The best way would probably be a DVD or tape where you can actually hear the words pronounced correctly.
There are alot of web sites available if you want to check on a few of them.
Good luck. :)
http://www.mamma.com/Mamma?qtype=0&query=Learn+to+speak+German&Submit=%A0%A0Search%A0%A0
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I am very angry at my parent's descision. I asked them if I could go to a New Year's Party with a few close friends at her house. I told them that there would be no drinking, no drugs, the parents would be present at the party the whole time, and we wouldn't leave the house. And if they wanted, I could sleep over at her house so that they would not have to leave the house at midnight to come and get me. They said no. I respected their descision, but I asked for a reason. They will not give me a reason. I just don't understand. I am a straight A student, I attend the top highschool in the state, I am very very responsible, I have never lied to them, I have never done anything to loose their trust in me, I have finished all my homework for the Christmas Break a weeks ago so I could go to this. I really want to go to this party, but I don't get why they won't let me go. I have tried asking but everytime I go and ask they get up and walk away. I understand that they just want me to be safe on New Years but they would drive me to the party during the daylight and pick me up during the daylight, it is not as if they were picking me up at night. Should I respect their descision or do you think that I should not give up on my opinion to be allowd to go to the party? Does anybody see why they wouldn't let me go?
Thanks - Sorry if it is long.
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I don't see a reason for you not to go.
You could have your friends mom call and talk to your mom. Then maybe your mom will feel more comfortable letting you go. I know I sure would.
Go give it a try. :)
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I have a boyfriend and me and him have been going out for 6 years
Were both virgins and our realonship is great
But the other day everything seemed right and we went to have sex
But when we were going to do it my mom walked in
It was very embaressing and everything
We didnt even know she came into the house
But its been about a month now
and he doesnt try anything sexual anymore
Even if were at his place or anywhere
And if I try anything he pushes me away
Now im really starting to worry about him
Does anyone know any information to help me? (link)
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It must have been pretty traumatic for him almost getting caught like that. He is probably afraid it might happen again.
He'll probably not try again unless there is absolutely no chance of someone walking in on you. It is very easy (as you have found) to get so caught up in things that you just don't hear whats going on around you.
Give it some time. Talk about it. I'm sure it isn't that he doesn't want to do it. :)
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I always wondered how long does sex usually last. like i always thought it was a while but on tv they are done in like 5 min. i mean i know everyone is dif. but what is your average or whatever? (link)
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If done correctly, and there should be more involved that the actual act of sex itself, it can last a good long time.
Your average teen (no offense intended)isn't usually interested in making it great, they just want to get it done. 5 minutes may even be a stretch at times. :)
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There is a guy named John I recently met who has really taken a liking to me. We've gone on a couple of dates, we get along well and I know that he'd probably be very good for me, but of course, I'm still hung up on my ex, Tom. What's more, Tom and I are still kind of seeing each other, too. We've decided to just go with the flow and seeing what happens, rather than just jump back into something or decide against it.
I made this clear to John on our first date so that I would not be maliciously leading him on. This didn't change John's stance at all and he still seems to want to pursue me. Even though I've told John everything, am I still leading him on by talking to him on the phone and texting him a lot? John and I haven't even so much as kissed but I still want to be careful about this. (link)
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I don't think you're leading him on at all. He knows the story.
I do think you should give him half a chance though. If Tom was that caring towards you...he'd still be with you. So really, give John a chance. :)
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Hey. I've been friends with this girl for about 4 years now and i just can't seem to get her out of my mind. I've tried to tell her how i feel but just cant seem to get it out. I did one time and she said she didnt want to ruin our friendship, but even though i told her it wouldnt she still doesnt want to go out with me. I told her how i felt a while ago. So i figured i would give it some time and see, but now i dont kno if i should say anything or leave it alone. (link)
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I know this is the last thing on your mind at the moment. But, since people should be best friends with the one they ultimately marry someday, the whole can't date because we're friends thing doesn't make sense to me.
Maybe it would be best if you tried writing down what you are feeling and give that to her. It is so much easier when you don't get sidetracked by the other persons questions and all that.
Then give it to her. Talk about it and see how she honestly feels about it.
If she worries for your friendship just let her know you will talk about how it is coming along every so many weeks and if one or the other wants out...you let them go. No hard feelings.
Everyone I know who has dated friends are still friends after breaking up. Sometimes they need a little space for a while, but they are back to being friends again before long. It can work out fine.
Good luck. :)
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How do you qualify for a disabled parking badge in the UK? (link)
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I'm not sure about in the UK but it is probably close enough to the US to give you a place to at least inquire.
When I was working at a doctors office the patient would get a form from the place where you get your car tags (I'm wanting to call it the motor vehicle dept. but don't think that's right)in the county courthouse.
Then the form has to be taken to your doctor and he/she will fill it out and sign it for you.
You then return it to the tag department and they get you all set up with a disability tag for your car.
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hey i am 17 and my boyfriend is confusing me. last night on msn we were talking and then he was not drunk but tipsy, and he tells me how he fels when he is drinking. well i told him that my friend patrice called me and was wanting me to hang out and he goes well you dont want to do nothing with me on new years? and i said i want to see you so bad and i havent seen patrice in over two years. he thinks i am going to hang with guys. i told him no i wasnt. well he must have been talking to a few other people and wrote me and said srry wrong person. well he writes me again saing i am going to drink with anna away. i might not do it yet. and he was talking to this girl anna on the phone. well i dont care it is just he says you dont need a guy like me and i said why and he goes huh? i said well r u wanting me to break up with you he goes no maybe it is the other way around. i said so you want to break up with me? he goes no i dont and he just kept on well he says you go with patrice and i will go with anna. he was invited to a party but he said if he goes bad habits will happen. so i dont know whats going on i am so confused. i am helpless at the point and i told him to call me when he is sober and i still havent heard from him. i dont know why new years is a bad time fir me. can anyone help me please? (link)
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Call him when you think he has sobered up and demand some answers.
Do you know who Anna is? It doesn't sound to me as if he needs to be drinking with another girl if he is dating you. Especially since he is so easily confused when he is just tipsy. :)
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What's a good muscle relaxer liquid (you know, spread it on the stiff, sore muscle and the soreness goes away) that doesn't stink? I tried Tiger Baum and it worked wonderfully but it also smelled very strong and very bad. (link)
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Capzasion doesn't stink. The walmart generic brand works better than the big name brand too.
I have a thyroid problem that cause me really bad muscle pain now and then. I have found this to be the only thing that help me any...and I have tried them all! :)
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I have had my period for about a year now. My breasts are developing, but much slower than other girls. Why? Will my breast development speed up? If so, when? (link)
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Here is a web site that may help you more than I could. :)
Breast development questions
http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/menstrual2.html
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So here's the facts thus far:
1. 2 weeks ago, I meet a girl who I had known just as a passing acquaitence, and I became closer friends.
2. She reveals to me that she really likes me, however, she has a boyfriend, but that boyfriend has been in the Phillipines for the last 1.5 months.
3. This boyfriend and she had been going out since about early August, but he "moved" in right before his trip b/c his apt lease was over and didn't want to resign until he got back.
4. He got back on Tuesday morning. She's called me a couple of times since then about how she's really uncomfortable about him being there, but he's still not getting the idea that she wants him to move and that she doesn't feel the same way as she did before he left for the trip.
5. However, since Tuesday morning they've had romantic "relations"- and she feels about that. (yes, denial i know).
So what do I do? Do I try to forget this girl or not? Is she serious about leaving him? My mind and heart is troubled. What do you think I should do about this situation? (link)
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I think in order to preserve your sanity, you tell her you are backing off until she rids herself of the former boyfriend.
If her feelings for you are strong enough she will have to do it. I think she is probably confused. You don't have romantic "relations" with someone you have no feelings for.
If you want to, set a time limit to wait on her. Tell her what it is. You may want to, but you can't wait forever for her to make up her mind.
Best of luck. :)
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My name is Alex, I am a female, and I’m thirteen years old.
Well I have this friend I knew since the 5th grade, and now we are in the 8th grade, and she has changed, a lot. And she has been telling me I changed but I think it's the opposite, she's changed! She has gotten meaner than ever since Elementary school. Anyways, the day before a dance at our school, I told her that I like a guy that she knows & that is in every single one of her classes. May I add, he is also my ex-boyfriend. But then when the dance came, she started dancing with the guy I like. I got pretty mad, after all, she knows I like him and she just dances with him in front of me! I don’t know what to do, I am not going out with the guy, but I like him. But then I don’t want to ruin our friendship over a guy. But I really like this guy though. Please Help!
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I would imagine you have both changed over the years. You will do more changing before its over with too!
Have you talked with her since the dance? Have you asked her what she was up to? If not then I think you should.
I know you like this guy. But, if he isn't asking you to dance or hanging out with you then he may not feel the same way you do. If he doesn't, then you really haven't lost anything.
You can be upset, anyone would be, but don't let it ruin a friendship. If he really likes you, whatever she does will not make a difference. It probably wasn't the nicest thing in the world for her to dance with him in front of you, but, she really didn't do anything wrong either.
Talk to her. :)
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i realy dont even know y i am so freaked out i have so so much to be thankful for a great family great friends an awsoem bf but none of that helpes me i always just look in the mere and hate myslef the way i look the dumbest possible things i pick out everything that is wrong mayeb even not wrong i see it from i think i am realy fat, to i am ugly, to my smile is horrible and lamest of them all my butt is shaped weird im not depressed been there doen that i used to cut myself but i opened my eyes and relized how much it was hurting the pl areound em and myself so i will never go back to that or anything like that. hateing the way i look is one of the worst feelings i know ill think i look realy hot one minute but then it shadders ill ne at the mall with my friend and look awsoem but i see a pair of realy realy hott guys and automatically no there not staring at me but at my friend no possible way that they are staring at me i never get a hot hot hot guy. i need help hwo can i possibly not look down on myself so much thanx u so much and no mean answers pleezz thanxs (link)
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Sounds like you need a healthy dose of self esteem. It is real difficult to explain how to get it so, I will give you some web sites to go to. I hope you read and find some tips to help you get some confidence in yourself. :)
Self esteem and confidence
http://www.cyh.com/HealthTopics/HealthTopicDetails.aspx?p=243&np=293&id=2161Self estee
Self esteem
http://www.lovingyou.com/content/advice/dating/content.shtml?ART=buildselfesteem
Self esteem improving…http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/mental_health/self_esteem.html
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I love my job and the people I work with. The money is nice too. I don't HAVE to work because I am on a disability pension for having schixophrenia but I WANTED to go back to work because I needed more money and was getting bored. No one at the job knows about my disability by the way.
Well the problem is that even though I really enjoy my job and I'm good at it ( I'm a sales associate in the clothing department) my boss can be very intimidating and downright MEAN. I've heard from the other girls that she has sweared at people when there stuff was in her way. She yelled at me about two months ago for holding the clothing wrong. Well we had been getting along a little bit better the last couple of weeks but on boxind day she blasted me for not getting some work done on time for the boxing day sale. She was really hard on me and I almost burst into tears. Now I'm scared she may fire me.
How can I get her to be nicer to me? I work as hard as I can but nothing seems to satisfy her. She wasnt just mad at me though.
Does anyone have any suggestions? (link)
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Since she wasn't just mad at you, but mad at everyone, I am going to guess she was stressing out.
With all the holiday sales and everything she was probably trying to get a hundred things done at once. This is not a good excuse for her behavior but it may be the explanation for it.
All you can do is your best. I think it is probably good for you to be out there working so don't quit. Just do your best.
Don't let your boss intimidate you. She is just another person, she is nothing special. She is your boss and you do have to do what she says. You don't have to take everything she says to heart though.
She is probably either new to being a manager or she is poorly equipped to be doing the job. If that is the case she won't be doing it for long. Just hang in there. :)
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what is a wench? (link)
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wench (wĕnch)
n.
A young woman or girl, especially a peasant girl.
A woman servant.
A wanton woman.
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