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Is this fair?
I am very angry at my parent's descision. I asked them if I could go to a New Year's Party with a few close friends at her house. I told them that there would be no drinking, no drugs, the parents would be present at the party the whole time, and we wouldn't leave the house. And if they wanted, I could sleep over at her house so that they would not have to leave the house at midnight to come and get me. They said no. I respected their descision, but I asked for a reason. They will not give me a reason. I just don't understand. I am a straight A student, I attend the top highschool in the state, I am very very responsible, I have never lied to them, I have never done anything to loose their trust in me, I have finished all my homework for the Christmas Break a weeks ago so I could go to this. I really want to go to this party, but I don't get why they won't let me go. I have tried asking but everytime I go and ask they get up and walk away. I understand that they just want me to be safe on New Years but they would drive me to the party during the daylight and pick me up during the daylight, it is not as if they were picking me up at night. Should I respect their descision or do you think that I should not give up on my opinion to be allowd to go to the party? Does anybody see why they wouldn't let me go?
Thanks - Sorry if it is long.
14/f
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I don't see a reason for you not to go.
You could have your friends mom call and talk to your mom. Then maybe your mom will feel more comfortable letting you go. I know I sure would.
Go give it a try. :)
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i think it probably doesn't have to do with you. i mean sometimes on new years eve, there's crazy drunken drivers & all, & they juss want to be extra careful ya know?? what if they took you to the party, walked in with you, met the parents ahead of time, & made sure that you stayed at the house until morning?? they probably juss don't want anything to happen. i don't think they lack trust in you, they probably juss lack trust in the people at the party. keep talking to them because they might see your point. if they knew the parents & saw that the parents would be good guardians to you & others at the party, then maybe they'll let you go. if you can't then don't worry about it. maybe you can have friends sleep over er something.
-hope that helped!♥
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