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Bad Timing
I have a boyfriend and me and him have been going out for 6 years
Were both virgins and our realonship is great
But the other day everything seemed right and we went to have sex
But when we were going to do it my mom walked in
It was very embaressing and everything
We didnt even know she came into the house
But its been about a month now
and he doesnt try anything sexual anymore
Even if were at his place or anywhere
And if I try anything he pushes me away
Now im really starting to worry about him
Does anyone know any information to help me?
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he is probably worried about your mother coming in again, or being caught by sum1 else. he probably felt very embarrassed about being caught, so next time, try to do it in a private place.
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He's scared. Especially since it was YOUR mom. Guys, unless theyre just plain retarded, are usually pretty scared when they have sex for the fear of getting the girl pregnant all of the things go on in their head like Was the condom tight enough? Did I pull out on time? Did I have an precum on my hands? and this fear usually doesn't go away until a period comes. Couple that on top of being caught by your mom and you have a boyfriend who isn't going to take that chance again.
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you should talk to your boyfriend about. i mean the key factor in a great relationship is communication right? talk to him hun.
hope i helped. pelase rate =]
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He's probably still freaked about your mom coming in at the "right moment"
give some time? or just ask him what is so wrong?
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It must have been pretty traumatic for him almost getting caught like that. He is probably afraid it might happen again.
He'll probably not try again unless there is absolutely no chance of someone walking in on you. It is very easy (as you have found) to get so caught up in things that you just don't hear whats going on around you.
Give it some time. Talk about it. I'm sure it isn't that he doesn't want to do it. :)
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Well all I can tell you is talk to him !
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Talk to him.. Ask him whats wrong.. Maybe he feels the time isn`t right or something.. Just ask him sweetie.. ♥ Dez
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