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I just got out of a relationship w/ a guy that I didn't talk to much before we started dating. He was a fun guy and I asked him to a dance and we got closer from there. Well, we broke up over a month ago, and he hasn't said anything to me at all really. He's smiled at me, but it's rare. I do want to keep a friendship with him even though he broke up with me. Should I talk to him first, or should I be patient and let it come...or tell him I miss talking to him? What would you do? (link)
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You can go up and tell him that even though your dating relationship didn't work out, you would still like to be friends if hes willing to be. Tell him you miss talking to him.
If he broke up with you and you still want to be friends with him, then I don't see any reason why he would hesitate if he enjoyed talking to you too. :)
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ok before i start i am 13/m
see there is this girl i like and we flirt alot but somtimes she stops talking to me and then all of a sudden she is talking non stop. Should i ask her out or should i just avoid her or should we just be friends. and what does it mean when she stops talking for days at a time (just stops talking to me)
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It could be she is just a little shy about starting a conversation with you.
Maybe she just doesn't know what to say. A lot of people are like that. She may also not really be sure you like her.
I think if you like her then you ask her out. She may get more talkative once she is sure you like her. :)
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I want to go on birth control but do not want to get my parents involoved, I am 16, if i go to my doctor will they keep it confidential if i ask them to or should i go to a clinic. I also want to get birth control properly, not just anything, something that fits me. Another thing is i heard that a pap test needs to be done after you have lost your virginity. Is this true? I would also like to get a pap test without involving my parents, is this possible since i will probably use my OHIP whihc my mother is ion control of. If i pay for it how much willl it be. Please help me i have been wondering about this for a while and cant put it off for any longer.?????? (link)
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You will have to have a GYN exam & pap test in order to be put on birth control. It is mandatory.
If you want to keep it confidential then try a free clinic / health department/ planned parenthood type place first. They are usually free or at least low cost.
A doctors office will keep your info private too. However, if you are billing an insurance which is in your mothers name, she is the one who the bill will go to. Since it is the law that they itemize the bills these days, she will know what you went for.
Paying a doctor is expensive. You will be billed for the office call ($ 85), The exam itself ($100)& The lab work ($100. Those prices are just approximate, they vary by area.
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My boyfriend and I were fooling around, we never had sex and my hymen isn't broken. Things got a little carried away and we were rubbing our "private" parts together, but my stuff never touched the top of his. Is there any way I'm pregnant? I've been freaking out because my period is late, but I am so irregular that I normally miss a few months anyway. I'm just worried, so any input would be great. (link)
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So long as no sperm entered your vagina you are not pregnant, just late.
Being irregular is very normal, especially for teens. :)
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Hi there
iv gotten myself in quite a bind. Iv never been so confused before..well here it goes.
Im 16 years old and live in toronto, now i have this family friend whom iv known for 10-12 years, we recently became reaquainted in May; since than wev talked alot, wev seen eachother at various occassions, at these occasions we always hang out or dance together...he says sweet things to me, and hes just a great guy.
Just after christmas he asked me to go see a movie with him, he said him his sister and her bf were going to see a movie and he wanted to knw if i wanted to come, (i accpeted of course) so he came and picked me up and we all ended up spliting up and we had a great time. So than we went to the same new years party together, at this new years party his family seemed very intrested in me;like always smiling at me etc. He asked me to dance a few times and we did,but at one point i was dancing with another guy and he was staring alot, but we overall had a blast together (i also ended up taking him home). Wev talked a bit after that. Hes a great guy but the only problem is hes 20, and he goes to skool in london (which is about 2.5 hours away). so i guess im in denial! like why wud he be intrested in me?! but i like him soo much and i just dont wanna make a fool out of myself and i dont wanna get hurt! so does he like me? is he intrested? wat shud i do?
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Sure sounds like he likes you to me. If you had a blast he probably did too!
2.5 hours away may seem like a long ways away, he does drive though and he may figure you are worth visiting on the weekends. I think if he calls you again you should go out.
Due to his age make sure it is okay with your parents. Other than that, good luck! :)
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having trouble getting my tampon in for the first time, and ive already tried 3 times. it hurts, and it doesnt go in all the way! what am i doing wrong? the hole is like the one all the way in the back, right? please help me. (link)
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Here are some web sites that may be helpful. Pick whichever applies :)
Tampon use, FAQ…
http://www.tampax.com/en_us/pages/ques_main.shtml?pageid=tp0002&=1
Tampons, guide to using first…http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/tampon.html
Tampons, how to use………
http://www.kidzworld.com/site/p3627.htm
Tampons & virgins…………http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/girls/virgin.html
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Why does everyone on this site always assume that because a father is a teenager that they are automatically going to leave their child? I asked a question on here about a month ago and all the answers that I got relating to my baby and his father were that he is going to leave me and my son because he is a teenager and a deadbeat? Thank you (link)
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Certainly not all teen fathers will leave their child and its mother. Mine didn't.
Statistically though, it happens all to often. And that is what makes news. That is what people will base their opinions on.
Those few brave men who stick around and accept responsibility are never given the applause they deserve.
Best of luck to you both. :)
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This is kind of embarrasing to ask, but what do you do when you get really horny and you can't masturbate because you're at work?
Sometimes when I'm working my mind wanders and I think about my bf. I think about us making love and then I get aroused.
I'm not a pervert or anything, infact I'm quite reserved and shy. I try not to think about him until I come home from work but my mind and body just can't control itself.
What can I do, and does this happen to anyone else? (link)
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You don't say what kind of job you have but, if possible just get up and make yourself busy. Get your mind occupied doing something else.
Clean something, file something...whatever applies! :)
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Im 13, Female.
And Im very into music. Specially Eminem.
Now i do have friends and everything (i dont ignore my scocial life to listen to music whatsoever mmkay?) But, i do have a mjaor problem. Im so crazy about Eminem, I have like have and know everything about him. My friends even call me Mrs Eminem,Em's love, Miss Mathers, they even use them when we pass notes. I dont care, if they do it. But i think my obession with eminem needs to stop some where. But its gotton to the point if i got ride of anything or just obessing over him I'd feel so empty inside. How can i stop being such a "Eminem Freak" And dont tell me your opinions on his music either mmkay. (link)
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There is nothing wrong with it at all.
I still have his posters hanging in my daughters room! Him and Vin Diesel were pretty hot around here for awhile!
But, my daughter got a job and moved to her own place, leaving the poor guys behind.
You will outgrow it one of these days. For now you're doing OK! :)
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Me and my girlfriend have been seriously dating for almost 3 years. 8 years before I met her, she became friends with an exchange student from Belgium. She had a big crush on him, however nothing romantically happened. Last week he was in town and needed some 1 to go to Orlando Florida with him, my girlfriend and her brother agreed to go with him. At the end, her brother wasent able to go, so she ended going with this guy by herself. I trust my girlfriend 100 percent, however, the thought of her willingly going, while fully aware of my negative feelings towards this so called "friends" trip has been driving me crazy. Ive asked around and the answer I always get is " get rid of her". My question is, do I have the right to feel mad, disrespected and betrayed by my girlfriends actions, what should I do? (link)
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I agree with Funnycide.
There is no reason to get rid of her if you trust her.
The crush was long ago and nothing came of it then. I can understand your being jealous and even upset about it but, I don't think it is worth ruining a 3 year relationship over.
She didn't go with him alone to spite you. Her brother was supposed to be going along. She may not have had time to change plans or get someone else to go along at the last minute.
Talk to her about it. Let her know how you feel without being accusing. I think you can work it out. Just don't keep your feelings bottled up about it. :)
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Okay, so, I might be having sex for the first time in a few days, and I'm wondering, should I be shaved...down there... or not?
And please, I dont need the "If he loves you for who you are inside he wont care" bit, so leave that out and give me a straight awnser... thanks :-)
Ah yes, and I'm a girl. (link)
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Believe it or not very few females shave "down there". It is basically something someone started for wearing bikinis that somehow became as a fad.
Mature women (and men) have hair. If you prefer shaved then go for it. But if you don't want to then it is really not necessary.
It is difficult and can even make you itch...really not worth the trouble. Legs and armpits are plenty enough.
If you want to go to the trouble it there is nothing wrong with it, but SHOULD you be? No. :)
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Everytime I sign onto AIM, and leave the room for like 20-50 minutes, it signs me off. I know it's not one from my house and my computer doesn't get turned off. How do I stop this and what is causing it? It just started this yesterday. (link)
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I don't know anything about aim in particular, but there are some programs that automatically kick you off if it doesn't detect activity for so many minutes.
It sounds as if that may be what is happening. You might check the FAQ for aim, or even write to their technical support to find out for sure. :)
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A friend has had a lot to drink, and they are on the verge of collapsing or throwing up, etc. I'm good at the emotional consolation stuff when people get upset, but what about what I should do physically?
Should they lie down, sit upon the floor, sit in a chair? Should they drink water? Should I get them to eat something? Should I take their wrists and make them wave their arms to keep blood rushing? Should I get them to walk? Should they be outside in the fresh air, or in the warmth? Where should I be, sitting side by side with them, sitting on the floor with my chest to their back?
Secondly, if I'm also drunk and I think that the atmosphere around me is getting aggressive, how can I accelerate sobering up to retain the role of a coordinator and get people sorted out?
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If they drive take their keys. First thing.
Anything they do or you do at this point will not sober them up any. Contrary to myth, coffee and showers do not sober up drunk people. Neither does cold air.
Sorry if this next part is kind of gross.
About the best you can do is do not let them lie on their stomach. Should they get sick they can aspirate the vomit, and it could kill them if nobody else is sober enough to get their face out of it. They could do the same lying on their back too. Sitting up is probably good if you can get them to do it. They don't have to be sitting up straight, just enough that they won't swallow it if they do vomit.
There is no way to accelerate the sobering up. If you are going to babysit a bunch of drunks it is best to stay sober yourself...not a fun job, I know. :)
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Bulimia Nervosa (link)
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bu·li·mi·a (bū-lē'mē-ə, -lĭm'ē-ə, byū-)
n.
An eating disorder, common especially among young women of normal or nearly normal weight, that is characterized by episodic binge eating and followed by feelings of guilt, depression, and self-condemnation. It is often associated with measures taken to prevent weight gain, such as self-induced vomiting, the use of laxatives, dieting, or fasting. Also called bulimarexia, bulimia nervosa.
Excessive or insatiable appetite.
[New Latin būlīmia, from Greek boulīmiā : bous, ox + līmos, hunger.]
bu·li'mic adj. & n.
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Okay I know this guy named bobby(18), (im 16) and we had sex without a condom. My ex-boyfriend and him are good friends, and awhile back my ex told me that Bobby had an std. I asked Bobby about it and he said that he got tested and didnt. I dont know what to do. Im not showing any signs of an Std but you can never be sure! What should I do. I dont want to get my parents involved! (link)
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The safest thing would be to go to your local health department and get checked.
There are a lot of STDs and some of them don't have much in the way of symptoms early on.
Since it is your health we are talking about, I wouldn't trust the word of your friend Bobby. He got checked out for some reason. And, if he did it may have been treated, but err on the safe side.
Call your health department, ask questions. It is more than likely a free test. If not they may be helpful in telling you where to go for free testing.
You can also check at www.coolnurse.com for lots of helpful information, I believe they have 800 numbers also.
If there is no free testing available then tell mom and see your doctor. :)
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There's a slight chance that I could be pregnant. First of all, I'm only 15 years old. I recently had sex for the first time (a little over a week ago). We used no protection, and I'm currently not on birth control. Apperently, there's certain days after your period that you can get pregnant. Well, these were one of the days. He didn't cum, but my sister told me about "pre-cum", and apperently..that can get you pregnant too. I'm terrified. I should be starting my period again in about a week, and I'm usually never late. So if I am, should I tell my mom? My mom is a very God-like lady, and when she found out my brother, 19 years old, had sex she was VERY dissappointed in him. I'm 4 years younger..and a baby? hmm. What do i do! Abortion clinics tell your parents, and there's no way I would have the baby.
p.s. I'm not certain if I'm pregnant or not, so please don't respond with anything to make me regret my experience. (link)
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First of all stop panicking. That can make you miss your period too.
Chances are real good you are NOT pregnant. It is very possible but not real likely. So don't panic until you have to.
Don't say anything until you have to. Give it a couple of weeks and if you don't get your period get a home pregnancy test.
Try not to worry. Hard I know but it will make matters worse. Check back with us if you don't get your period.
You may want to go to www.coolnurse.com and check out some of the articles there. It has a lot of good information and it will help you to understand what to watch for. :)
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My ex Boyfriend and I walk home from the bus everyday and today, we were talking about what we used to do.. (I gave him a handjob) and then when I got home I got a phone call from him and he was saying that do you want to be friends with benefits and I want to.. because I dont know if we could be in a relationship but i really like him and I dont know if I should or not because I feel like im being used but I want to be more than friends but less than a relationship. Because if I do this I have 2 guys that I'm friends with benefits with.. And this is my first time ever having guys that are friends with benefits.. but me and this guy have known eachother for 4 years and have gone out a lot but im physically attracted to him and he is to me.. so please help me.. My options are I should do it and have fun or not do it and not know what im missing but may save my self from hurt.. not sure.. because when it comes to this guy there is a lot of physical attraction but we always are friends in the end..
THANK YOU TO ALL THAT HELP!!!
;-)
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Its really not a good idea.
You will get to known by some pretty nasty names if others find out. This kind of reputation will get around and no decent boy will date you.
Another thing is the guys you are having the benefits with...they don't need to date you or make you their girlfriend. They get benefits for free.
In other words, They will be known as real studs at school. You will get a rep as being a slut.
Not good. I am not judging you or trying to make you upset. Those are just the facts. Think about it. :)
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hello. im a muslim and ever since 9/11 i know there has been a lot of sterotypes on muslims. Very bad ones. i had a lot of racism especially during that year at which i was 10 years old. people would stare at me and my sisters and be like go back to your country. now i want to know what are peoples views on islam and muslims?
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I'd like to think that most people judge people individually on their behavior and actions and not on what other members of any particular group might do.
No doubt there will be those who don't feel that way, which is sad.
By the way, I really don't think MSH deserves a 3 for giving you an opinion for which you asked for. It was a perfectly good opinion. And very true. :)
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ok heres the story. my friend john has been going out with this girl for a little over a year. today this other guy walks up to me and tells me that the girl he was with cheated on her, but that i wasn't supposed to know that. he was in my next class, so i asked him how his break was and he gave me the thumbs down.
he told me that his gf told him yesterday that she cheated on him...8 months ago. so i was like wow what did you do when she said that, n he said he cursed her out. im pretty sure theyve done stuff before, but she slept with some other guy and tells him this now. ill give her credit for at least waiting until after the holidays to tell him. so the friend that told me said to the guy: so i guess theres no chance of you guys getting married now, and john said: wait why not?
so its a bit confusing. should i talk to him about it? i mean i want to help but at the same time dont want to get dragged in and involved. should i just let things happen? all of my friends are really mad at the girl for doing all that...but for me, not that im mad and hate the girl, but i do feel bad for the guy. any ideas - will rate (link)
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I don't think you should get involved.
It is really up to John to decide if he can take her back and up to her if she realizes her mistake. She could have just not said anything to him at all.
Cheating doesn't have to be the end of a relationship. I am sure they will talk it over and decide what is best for them. It is not a good thing by any means but it is forgivable.
If he takes her back and you have said negative things about her, it could affect your relationship with them. Best to keep out of it all together. :)
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sorry its long but i RATE HIGH! 13/f okay so i like this guy named coby and today at hebrew school i think we were flirting and we always talk at hebrew school and he threw tape down my shirt and then he's like well you no when you get home tonite and take off your shirt the tape will be down there and we started laughing and flirting. The thing is at school he is REALLY popular and all and he barely talks to me but i really like him and i am not sure if he likes me. We also talk on aim and all that stuff and he was like the blow job that the ____girl gave me really ruined my reputation and then i was like well i think thats sexy. but the thing is i already have a boyfriend. so what i am asking is
1) does he like me?
2) what do i do with the boyfriend i alreay have?
3) should i as coby (the guy i like) out? (link)
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He may like you but I would watch out for his motives. Talking to you about things like that on aim is really not a good thing. Your response may make him think you will do anything to date him. Just watch that.
He probably does like you but like I said his motives may be a little suspicious.
If you don't like your current boyfriend then break up with him. If you do like him though, you may want to wait and see what happens with coby. Make sure he isn't playing you first. :)
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