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Should I?
My ex Boyfriend and I walk home from the bus everyday and today, we were talking about what we used to do.. (I gave him a handjob) and then when I got home I got a phone call from him and he was saying that do you want to be friends with benefits and I want to.. because I dont know if we could be in a relationship but i really like him and I dont know if I should or not because I feel like im being used but I want to be more than friends but less than a relationship. Because if I do this I have 2 guys that I'm friends with benefits with.. And this is my first time ever having guys that are friends with benefits.. but me and this guy have known eachother for 4 years and have gone out a lot but im physically attracted to him and he is to me.. so please help me.. My options are I should do it and have fun or not do it and not know what im missing but may save my self from hurt.. not sure.. because when it comes to this guy there is a lot of physical attraction but we always are friends in the end..
THANK YOU TO ALL THAT HELP!!!
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Friends with benefits are sometimes refered as booty calls...i dont know how old you are but take my advice and stop hoeing yourself with some asshole kid who obviously wants to be able to get pleased when needed. Whe I was in high school, there were a few girls who were know for being "friends with benefits"..i dont mean to sound rude, but behind their back they were also called "hoes, skanks, bitches, sluts, whores, cock suckers" and many more, you do the math, get out before its too late
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being friends with benefits means the guy gets everything he wants...pleasure with no strings attached and a good rep aroound school...all it gives you is...yeah some pleasure but a bad rep around school and possibly hurting you if you develop stronger feelings for him...i dont think friends with benefits is a good idea... :]
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Its really not a good idea.
You will get to known by some pretty nasty names if others find out. This kind of reputation will get around and no decent boy will date you.
Another thing is the guys you are having the benefits with...they don't need to date you or make you their girlfriend. They get benefits for free.
In other words, They will be known as real studs at school. You will get a rep as being a slut.
Not good. I am not judging you or trying to make you upset. Those are just the facts. Think about it. :)
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