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he loves me he loves me not
Hi there
iv gotten myself in quite a bind. Iv never been so confused before..well here it goes.
Im 16 years old and live in toronto, now i have this family friend whom iv known for 10-12 years, we recently became reaquainted in May; since than wev talked alot, wev seen eachother at various occassions, at these occasions we always hang out or dance together...he says sweet things to me, and hes just a great guy.
Just after christmas he asked me to go see a movie with him, he said him his sister and her bf were going to see a movie and he wanted to knw if i wanted to come, (i accpeted of course) so he came and picked me up and we all ended up spliting up and we had a great time. So than we went to the same new years party together, at this new years party his family seemed very intrested in me;like always smiling at me etc. He asked me to dance a few times and we did,but at one point i was dancing with another guy and he was staring alot, but we overall had a blast together (i also ended up taking him home). Wev talked a bit after that. Hes a great guy but the only problem is hes 20, and he goes to skool in london (which is about 2.5 hours away). so i guess im in denial! like why wud he be intrested in me?! but i like him soo much and i just dont wanna make a fool out of myself and i dont wanna get hurt! so does he like me? is he intrested? wat shud i do?
HELP!!!!
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Personally, I don't think that age difference is such a big deal. You are almost an adult, after all. When you're 18 he will be 22. That is a perfectly acceptable age difference. And your families know each other. You know he's not sleazy or anything. I think he does like you, and you should go for it. Don't worry about making a fool out of yourself. If you never try, you never know. Would you rather embarass yourself once now and laugh about it later when you've been married to this guy for 50 years (you never know, it could happen), or never say anything to him and see him end up with another woman? You should ask him. Say that you ask because you noticed he was acting odd lately. As for the location, well, that's not such a big deal either. I live in the US and I know a guy who rides the bus up to Canada every weekend to be with his girlfriend. And with all the great communication tools we have these days, you can always talk to him.
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tasuki
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If he was staring at you while you were dancing with another guy and you guys arent ever definied as "together" than he likes you. Defiantely. If your worried about the age difference then that may be a problem for you but if you really like him and want to be with him than go for it. And with the whole long distance thing i am actually in a long distance relationship right now. Yes it's sometimes scary and you dont know if you can trust the guy but if he truly likes you and wants to be with you then he wont do anything and he'll wait for you. You just have to talk. That is the key thing in a realtionship talk and be open with your partner. It'll work i promise.
Do you wanna follow your head and possibly give up a great guy or follow your heart and take the chance of being with someone great? It's your decision follow your head or you heart?
Please let me know how it goes!
Kayte
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well it does seem he likesyou im kinda positive ...and what about the distance between u guys 2.5 hours is freakin good my friend is in egypt and her bf is in america and they liked eachother and still do ...now theyre in love...and the age might be kinda weird well to me but as long as your ok with it who cares ...go for it dont let these good slip away...later
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age doesn't matter at all..my 15 year old friend is engaged to her 21 year old boyfriend..and 2.5 hours isn't that bad..since he's 20 i'm guessing he can drive so i'm sure you'll see him on the weekends and in the summer..hope i helped
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Sure sounds like he likes you to me. If you had a blast he probably did too!
2.5 hours away may seem like a long ways away, he does drive though and he may figure you are worth visiting on the weekends. I think if he calls you again you should go out.
Due to his age make sure it is okay with your parents. Other than that, good luck! :)
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