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My Love and I
Well ... me and my bf have been together for sometime now. Actually about 4 months. The thing is though it seems longer. When we're apart for like just the weekend, i feel like i shouldn't miss him the way I do. I'm trying to figure out if I should be falling for him as hard as i am. Don't get me wrong I love him to death and i want to be w/ him for as long as we can last. I just feel like we might be rushing into stuff way to fast. He's who i lost my virginity to and i wanted to with him. But was it too soon? I need help, is 4 months okay to be thinking I couldn't live w/o my baby? Or am i just wayyy to attached? Plus Im only 15 w/ a 16 yr old bf.
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i know alot of 15 year olds who havn't been with a boyfriend more than a month, and 4 months to them would be forever..so take tht into considoration as you read my answer
i think that you might be rushing things a little too quickly, knowing tht you guys lost it 2gether, atleast you lost it with him, you 2 share tht special '' thang'' as i'd say
if you guys did that, and everythings still going well thats good new, alot of times people have sex and it puts alot of tension into the relationship which causes them to break up..
i think that you guys have it going on, just be careful bc i do'nt want you getting pregnent, bc thats like almost a 100% tht he'd break up with you, play it safe, and don't get too attached bc when/if you guys break up it will be very hard..
recently i've lost my boyfriend who moved away, i cried for a few days and stuff, but now i realize i can live without him
so i hope i helped
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HEY HEY tht person who answered above is kinda right and wrong at the same time...well first this is my sisters advicenators acc...well iam here bro..anyways iam in love with this girl like you are with your bf...i want to be with her forever and such..it doesnt matter if your rushing into fast...i mean look at me and her,we been together for only 2 month and we're so close..that worries me sometimes but its love and real love feels like this...dont distant urself from him..talk to him about it..tell him exactly how you feel and such..trust me..this is love so you cant distance urself from him or think ur moving to ffast...love is like a reflex,you cant stop ur reflex nor see when and how it will spawn...let me kno wht i said help you in anyway so i can feel reassured as well :P bye
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well, i had someone like that not too long ago, and to be honest (from personal experience) theres a slim chance thngs will last forever. i know in this case you want an answer that YOUD wnna hear like don wrry! ull be together forever. hey who knws! you might! but you are still young, and its great uv found someone youv become so close with....just lay back a bit try to distance urself and try not to fall too hard...because the harder you fall the worst it will be when you break up. so take it easy and just go with the flow.
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well it's awesome that you found seomone that you love so much...but i think your getting just a bit to attached to soon..but it's normal..just be careful
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