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why would you get banned on this site for talking in all caps? that seems stupid. (link)
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Typing in all caps is the internet equivalent of shouting. Shouting is really not considered to be polite. :)
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i dont know what this goes under. but me and my bf have been sexually active. there was a point when we thought i was pregnant. we were relieved when we found out i wasnt. but ive been babysitting a newborn baby. adn she is just so cute. i babysit her for hours 5 nights a week. he helps me. adn he does a great job. we both want a baby now. but were in high school. juniors. how can we get over this. i mean wanting a baby. ill rate high. plez help (link)
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Just think of what it would cost you.
You would loose your freedom to just go out and be with friends. He would have to work full time, you'd have to pay bills.
I've done it and I don't recommend it to anyone. There is enough stress just being a teenager and going through all the changes from child to adult. Don't rush it.
That doesn't mean you can't enjoy babysitting together! I think that is great. Just be happy that you can come and go as you please (well, when its mom and dad get home) and don't have to worry about the expense right now. Save it until you are more able to give a baby a good life. :)
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ok im crazy about my bf. no one knows im dating him. he would do anything for me. but im worried what everyone will think. me and him have talked about it. and he is cool with it. he said it is my life and i can let people knwo about us only if i want. im not ashamed of him by no means. i dont know why i cant tell anyone. he always says that we dotn have to have the whole world nkow about us to have a good relationship. i agree. but i feel like im keeping my life away from everyone. what would you do in my position. ill rate high. (link)
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I can understand in a way your keeping it a secret. If nobody knows they can't interfere. It may also be exciting having a big secret like that!
That being said though, I think you should let people know. Just don't let them interfere. You don't have to suddenly double date or have your friends give their opinions on your love life.
Just tell them who you are dating and that you prefer to keep your private life private. You don't have to give your friends any details about your dates or what you do. :)
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alright... so i'm 90% over this last guy... and then i realized there has been a man there for me this whole time.. and i have liked him soo.. should i go for it? (link)
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Sure, why not?
Quickest way to get over the old guy is to replace him with someone new. Go for it and good luck. :)
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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself. (link)
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If someone is being mean and insulting then please file an abuse report. Be sure and send a link to the question so it can be found.
There are so many questions and answers on this site that everyone needs to help by doing this. The moderators just aren't able to catch everyone, so please, file an abuse report. :)
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Hey YG. I have a problem, well it's not really me its my mom & dad. To make a long story short. He had/has been cheating on my mom with a prostitute. If thats even how you spell it. My mom is 48 and my dad is 53. They have been married for about 37 years. Fighting and arguing was never anything new around here.
So last early last summer he had been fooling with her again.My mom had threatend him with a divorce because this had been going on off and on for the last 3 or 4 years. And now we expect it again because we have a key to his work truck and he doesn't know it. So my mom and I checked his work phone and he had 8 missed 'unknown'[no number] numbers on his phone, and 3 voice messages, but their wasn't anything on the messages accept someone who sounded like a woman and a child in the background. The prostitute has about 3 children. Which made us believe that it was her. So mom and I did a little thinking. If it was an emergency why would they have blocked their number and they would have called our house. Another thing, why would they have called on a weekend? They shouldn't had. So those things couldn't have happend. Another thing that makes us believe its her is that he has been coming home later than usual in the evenings, especially when she has to work late hours. So,today we stopped at a local store and a woman right out of the blue said that the woman that we believe he has been fooling with, was on the pay phone all day that day. So do you think he is fooling with her? (link)
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I wouldn't really want to say for sure. If he isn't going to his therapy that could be the reason for his behavior.
If she was calling from a phone booth, her kids wouldn't necessarily be in the background. Most unlisted numbers do come up as unknown. Could it be someone work related calling him?
Sounds like they have been having problems for awhile. If mom really thinks something is going on then she needs to just ask him. He may not be truthful, but he will know she is on to him.
Good luck to your mother. I hope she finds that he is just being wacky because he is off therapy. Maybe she can talk him into getting back to it.
Sometimes sad as it is, parents are better off apart. I hope it works out for yours but if it doesn't they will probably both be happier once they are used to it.
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I hope it works out for your mom. I really hope it isn't true. If it is though, you give your mom plenty of moral support. Sounds like you have been. Sorry I couldn't be a lot more helpful. :)
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Weve been friends for 3 Years!!We were a trio.Me,Miranda,and the stupid barbie,Kaylie.Me and Miranda dumped her because she thinks shes all that.She wears things that are in style(they dont even look good on her and no im not lieing)and trys to compete with me.I dont mean to brag or anything but im Phater and way thinner than her.Shes very jelous of me.She feels really mad because she knows were better of with out her.Right now shes hanging out with the stupidest girls in school.She recentley came up to me and told me she needed to talk to me.I just walked away.Then she came up to me and asked do you think we will ever be friends again.I said i dunno(In a rude way)then she started giving me dirty looks and told her :"you know what,no i dont want to be friends again.She said fine.Im really happy with out her.Miranda and I are even hanging out with a cool girl we met:Catherine.My Question is how ca we just get rid of her,because shes always trying to talk to us.Note:This girl is very sensitive,we will make her cry if we say anything.And it is really hard to ignore people,so please dont tellme "just ignore it.p.S WE CALL HER THE BARBIE BECAUSE SHES BLONDE AND HAS A VERY UGLY NOSE"PEOPLE:4 THIS,ILL RATE HIGH!!!!!!!! (link)
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If she is smart she will realize she is better off with the other group.
I don't see what you find wrong in having a friend who obviously looked up to you and wanted so much to be like you.
Instead of taking it as a compliment you made her feel like an idiot.
Maybe someday you will grow up. In the mean time I hope Kaylie finds some REAL true friends. Ones who care about her as a person instead of what she looks like. Because you, little girl are a snob. :)
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okay say if you give someone oral sex and you do swallow their cum. well do you like always get STDS or only if they have an STD? because people make it sounds that everyone has an STD and if you dont use a condom then you'll get STDS. like im confused. (link)
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Everything said so far is correct. I will give you website though that you can go to for information on STDs. If you check the column on the left side of the web page, there is a chart you can go to that gives symptoms.
Mostly with oral sex, you want to watch for any kind of sores.
http://www.coolnurse.com/std.htm
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I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months. But whenever we greet each other, we don't hug or kiss. We just say "hey." However, he is affectionate when we are watching a movie or something. But I want him to kiss, or atleast hug me when we greet each other. How do I get him to do this? I don't want to be the first one to do it .. because it might be akward, and he'd probably think "what was that for?" Help? (link)
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Talk to him about it. Ask him why he doesn't greet you more affectionately. Tell him that you would be really happy if he did.
Bet he wouldn't mind obliging you. :)
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I am so mad. I just got into an argument with a friend. It all started when I told her that I wouldn't date a man who already had children. I told her this because I wanted to have children of my own someday, and that from my parents divorce I learned that dating other people who had kids was a recipe for disaster, especially if the kids didnt like you.
Well then she told me that I had issues!! I told her it was a personal choice and that why would I want to date a man who already had kids if I wanted my own. She is a stepmum and was judging me, that's what go me so mad. I told her it was fine for her to be a stepmom but it wasnt for everyone, and that she had no right judging me. NOw she's not speaking to me.
What should I do? I had every right to defend myself. (link)
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It really is a personal choice. She shouldn't get mad because you expressed your opinion. Your experience if different than yours was.
It IS possible that she took your comments to much to heart. She may have thought you were saying she was stupid or something because she is a stepmother.
I think you should let her know that there is nothing WRONG with dating a man with children, it just isn't something you yourself would want to do. Not at this point in your life anyway.
Other than that, there isn't much more you can say. Hopefully she will get over it soon. :)
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in the movie "dirty dancing" who sings the song at the end it goes something like, "im having the time of my life and i owe it all to you." i love that song!! thanks! (link)
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Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes :)
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I'm the co-captain for my middle school's cheer squad. There are 3 girls specificly that talk bad about, make fun of, and put all the other girls down. They won't listen to anything I say and if I make a descision they don't like they simply to not do what they are supposed to. They act like they rule the squad. I've had many complaints about these girls hurting other teamates feelings and talked to my captain about this but those 3 girls are her best friends and since she doesn't wanna have to yell at them about it she ignores the problem. Our coach is very self-absorbed and won't listen to anything I try to tell her. All she says is "You're the Co-Captain, figure it out" And I can't change those girls attitudes on my own, they just won't listen to me. Does anyone know how I can solve this? (link)
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My suggestion would be to suspend them for lowering the moral of the other members. However, that may not be something you are able to do.
Maybe you need to really rally all those other girls. As a group you should all be able to ignore the little princesses, and make them look like fools who talk to themselves. :)
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I've known this guy my whole life and have never really been interested. We've always been friends and he's known to many people as the guy who's always looking to get laid.
We're both transfering college right now so this semester we're both kind of taking it easy at home and going to community college (I'm 20/f btw). Lately he's been IMing and calling me like everyday to hang out and sometimes is pretty vulgar. It's more jokingly than like offensive though.
It's like "We used to be friends and we haven't talked in a year so lets go hook up" um no.. Anyway to get to the point, for whatever reason I finally gave in and agreed to go to a movie with him tonight. I'm still not interested but I know he's going to try to make a move. I don't particularly want to go, but I don't want to rude.
My real question is what should I wear? Should I look hot so I feel good and appear to be in control of the situation and then like blue ball him for badgering me for so long. Or.. should I wear like sweats and look schleppy in hopes of him maybe backing down?
Either way I don't think I'm leading him on because he knows I'm not intersted. Looking for answers asap- this date is tonight! (link)
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I'd wear jeans and t-shirt, sweats, whatever makes you comfortable.
I don't think dressing up is a good idea. It might make him think you are dressing up for him.
Just let him know in no uncertain terms should he try to put the moves on, that you are not interested. You're just friends. :)
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Does a condom still work ok if you're doing it in the shower? (link)
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So long as it is put on correctly, a condom will work in the shower just fine. :)
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i know this sounds silly
but im 15 and ive never been kissed.
its all going to change tommorrow
and im going to be making out with this boy too.
but im nervous because im totally clueless on what to do.
and i dont want to tell him, or for him to know
are there any personal tips or sites you can give me ..thanks =] (link)
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Here are some sites you might get a few tips from.
Mostly, just relax. It will turn out fine. :)
Kissing tips…………http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
Kissing includes French & everything kissing…http://www.partyhearty.com/kissingadvice.html
Kissing, is there a right way?
http://www.sxetc.org/index.php?topic=FAQ&sub_topic=Sex&content_id=656
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I am in a relationship with a certain guy,but it happens that i am hemoglobin AS and he is hemoglobin AC.We are close to getting married,but my problem is, is it advisable to go ahead with the marriage or should i forget about it taking into consideration the children that we would be having.Please advice me.I am 24yrs. (link)
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Talk to a doctor about this.
I'm not sure if what you are meaning is that one of you are RH + and the other RH- ?
If that is the case then having children is not necessarily out of the question. You do have to have proper prenatal care. This should begin even before you get pregnant.
It is definitely something you would want to discuss with your doctor before you begin a family. Before marriage couldn't hurt either.
If this isn't what you are meaning, I do apologize.
Here is a website in case your are interested.
http://www.emedicine.com/EMERG/topic507.htm
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I am 29 years old. I met this guy who is 35 years old. Both of us are single.
I have known this guy for three months now. We always sms to each other. I spent some time with him at a forum. He was always talking to me about stuff.
I caught him staring at me when I was with my friends. When I had a cough, he was caring towards me and asked me whether I was fine or not. He bought me cough drops.
Recently he sent me a chinese new year card.
Does he like me?
What should I do?
Regards.
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I would guess he probably likes you.
Are you giving him signs that you may be interested? Next time you see him, go over and say hi.
If you like him then let him know you are interested. He is a little older than you, unless he already knows your age, he may think you'd consider him to old for you. You never know what they are thinking! So let him know you are interested. Talk to him. :)
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Ok,I just found out that this girl has been putting birth control pills in my food at lunch,I need too know if anything bad is going to happen to me because of this. I'm really worried because I'm a guy,should I go to the Doctors??? Or is there a website I can go to and check if anything bad is going to happen to me because of this. (link)
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They won't do much harm. That is a pretty nasty thing to do to a person though.
I think you should scare her and threaten to turn her in to the cops. Thank goodness it was only BC pills, you know? Keep an eye on her. :)
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Hi 15F. Just because im a girl means that im supposed to have a BF. and i dont by choice and becuase im ugly. but that still doesnt stop
family or friends from asking if i have a
BF.
usually when they ask i say no and leave it at that but they still ask other questions like why not? or do you think your gay?
its sooo annoying!
is there a way to say something that will make them stop asking these things i want to be polite yet firm.. i rate 5s. thanks.
~~No Boyfriend. No Problems.~~ (link)
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Just tell them you prefer to keep you personal life private. As was said in earlier answers, it is none of their business. :)
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Does anybody know what stores sell Chia Pets?
Any type of chia's would be great.
Or does anybody know where I can get movie chia's like scooby doo or shrek or something. (link)
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They used to have them at Walgreen's Drugstores.
I don't know if they have one in your area. If they don't, then you might try whatever big drugstore chain you have available where you live. :)
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