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ok im crazy about my bf. no one knows im dating him. he would do anything for me. but im worried what everyone will think. me and him have talked about it. and he is cool with it. he said it is my life and i can let people knwo about us only if i want. im not ashamed of him by no means. i dont know why i cant tell anyone. he always says that we dotn have to have the whole world nkow about us to have a good relationship. i agree. but i feel like im keeping my life away from everyone. what would you do in my position. ill rate high.
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Well, I don't really see the problem here, If you like him, and you're not ashamed of him, then why not tell your friends?
You didn't write your age, so i don't know if that's the problem, but seriously, why not tell people?
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If you really really care about him, the least you can do is start out by telling your closer friends. Eventually you will have to tell people, because you don't want to lie to guys and tell them you don't have a boyfriend, so they think you are available and hit on you. If you are not willing to do this, maybe you should evaluate how you actually feel about him.
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You should make it known. Why? Because if you don't and another girl comes along she'll probably make a move on him. Avoid unnecessary drama and "come out" as a couple.
Unless you like drama.
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whats the big secret? You like him. He will do anything for you, sounds to me like hes a good guy by being understanding about not telling people. No you dont have to tell everyone "omgoshhh like i have a boyfriend" and brag about him and tell them every detail, but saying you and him are together is completely harmless. Theres always things that you keep from people, stuff that stays between you n your boy but still, people can know. Good luck dear (:
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I can understand in a way your keeping it a secret. If nobody knows they can't interfere. It may also be exciting having a big secret like that!
That being said though, I think you should let people know. Just don't let them interfere. You don't have to suddenly double date or have your friends give their opinions on your love life.
Just tell them who you are dating and that you prefer to keep your private life private. You don't have to give your friends any details about your dates or what you do. :)
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