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Cheating
Hey YG. I have a problem, well it's not really me its my mom & dad. To make a long story short. He had/has been cheating on my mom with a prostitute. If thats even how you spell it. My mom is 48 and my dad is 53. They have been married for about 37 years. Fighting and arguing was never anything new around here.
So last early last summer he had been fooling with her again.My mom had threatend him with a divorce because this had been going on off and on for the last 3 or 4 years. And now we expect it again because we have a key to his work truck and he doesn't know it. So my mom and I checked his work phone and he had 8 missed 'unknown'[no number] numbers on his phone, and 3 voice messages, but their wasn't anything on the messages accept someone who sounded like a woman and a child in the background. The prostitute has about 3 children. Which made us believe that it was her. So mom and I did a little thinking. If it was an emergency why would they have blocked their number and they would have called our house. Another thing, why would they have called on a weekend? They shouldn't had. So those things couldn't have happend. Another thing that makes us believe its her is that he has been coming home later than usual in the evenings, especially when she has to work late hours. So,today we stopped at a local store and a woman right out of the blue said that the woman that we believe he has been fooling with, was on the pay phone all day that day. So do you think he is fooling with her?
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I wouldn't really want to say for sure. If he isn't going to his therapy that could be the reason for his behavior.
If she was calling from a phone booth, her kids wouldn't necessarily be in the background. Most unlisted numbers do come up as unknown. Could it be someone work related calling him?
Sounds like they have been having problems for awhile. If mom really thinks something is going on then she needs to just ask him. He may not be truthful, but he will know she is on to him.
Good luck to your mother. I hope she finds that he is just being wacky because he is off therapy. Maybe she can talk him into getting back to it.
Sometimes sad as it is, parents are better off apart. I hope it works out for yours but if it doesn't they will probably both be happier once they are used to it.
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I hope it works out for your mom. I really hope it isn't true. If it is though, you give your mom plenty of moral support. Sounds like you have been. Sorry I couldn't be a lot more helpful. :)
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