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I've known this guy my whole life and have never really been interested. We've always been friends and he's known to many people as the guy who's always looking to get laid.
We're both transfering college right now so this semester we're both kind of taking it easy at home and going to community college (I'm 20/f btw). Lately he's been IMing and calling me like everyday to hang out and sometimes is pretty vulgar. It's more jokingly than like offensive though.
It's like "We used to be friends and we haven't talked in a year so lets go hook up" um no.. Anyway to get to the point, for whatever reason I finally gave in and agreed to go to a movie with him tonight. I'm still not interested but I know he's going to try to make a move. I don't particularly want to go, but I don't want to rude.
My real question is what should I wear? Should I look hot so I feel good and appear to be in control of the situation and then like blue ball him for badgering me for so long. Or.. should I wear like sweats and look schleppy in hopes of him maybe backing down?
Either way I don't think I'm leading him on because he knows I'm not intersted. Looking for answers asap- this date is tonight!
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i dont think that you should dress up for him because hes going to think that your into him, and then he might want to make a move, but just dress what you feel comfortable in..if he trys to like make amove be like okay no this isnt working out because were just friends..hopefully hell get the point,good luck and have fun =),
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you should not wear sometihn HOT.. you shoudl wear liek a peair of jeans not to bad not to good.. n ya OK shirt.. n like BURKZ or something.. if he tries to make a move on you just let him not dat you are not interested. if he still doesnt stop then ask him to take you home.. if he got you there.. if you dont relly want him to take you home call you paretns or a friend to pick you up..
&& hope i helped
&& write backk about wat happenz..
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I'd wear jeans and t-shirt, sweats, whatever makes you comfortable.
I don't think dressing up is a good idea. It might make him think you are dressing up for him.
Just let him know in no uncertain terms should he try to put the moves on, that you are not interested. You're just friends. :)
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