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No boyfriend! so dont ask.
Hi 15F. Just because im a girl means that im supposed to have a BF. and i dont by choice and becuase im ugly. but that still doesnt stop
family or friends from asking if i have a
BF.
usually when they ask i say no and leave it at that but they still ask other questions like why not? or do you think your gay?
its sooo annoying!
is there a way to say something that will make them stop asking these things i want to be polite yet firm.. i rate 5s. thanks.
~~No Boyfriend. No Problems.~~
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Just tell them when your ready you'll get one and right now its just not meant to be. and dont come down on yourself by saying your ugly....
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Well i know that must be annoying..
tell them you don`t have one by choice.. Tell them you don`t want one and your not looking for one..Mention that just cuz you don`t have a boyfriend doesn`t mean your gay.. Maybe even lie a bit tell them that your school work is more important or a sport.. *thats completely up to you* ♥ DEz
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yea it is not neccessary to have a boyfriend at 15. if you want them to really stop you should just sit them down and say, "i am alright with not having a boyfriend, please stop asking me about it and we will all be happy. i will get a boyfriend when i am ready." but don't yell or maek it seem like a lecture. just casual, serious talk. hope i helped =]
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Just tell them you prefer to keep you personal life private. As was said in earlier answers, it is none of their business. :)
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You are only 15, so I don't think it's the end of the world if you don't have a boyfriend. I never dated all through highschool. It wasnt that I didnt like guys, or that I was a lesbian, it was that I wasnt interested in any of the boys in my class because I found them to be too immature. Most of the guys just wanted sex and not a meaningful relationship. People are always going to gossip no matter what. I heard a few rumours that I was a lesbian. You just have to try and not let it bother you, or these people can destroy you.
If it comes up again that you don't have a boyfriend, just tell your friends that you havent met the right guy yet, and that you're just not interested in anyone from school. It's really no ones business but your own.
So try not to let them get you down. I know it's hard, but I'm living proof that you CAN survive highschool.
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Just because you're a girl does not mean you HAVE to have a boyfriend. It's a person's choice if they want to or not and if you choose not to, that's perfectly fine. When they ask you something like that, don't even answer the question but ask them something okward back and they will get the point. Don't say that you're ugly because you probablly aren't and it just bothers me when people think so low of themselves, so please, say you're beautiful. :) Anyways, just tell them that you don't want a boyfriend and that you don't have to give them an explanation about it and it's final.
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If you have no problem with not having a boyfriend just tell them that.Just when they ask you say it like you mean it for example..lets say they ask you ," Hey do you have a bofriend yet?" all you have to say is ,"no and i dont want one right now." And if your family or friends ever ask you if your gay that is just wrong.Tell them no and tell them that just because that you dont have a boyfriend doesnt mean that you are gay.I dont have a boyfriend but i cannot stand lesbians they are just plain creepy.Also, if the same person keeps asking just say, "I told you like 5 times already i dont have a boyfriend!"That actually makes people stop asking that because it embarasses sometimes so they will stop.If they still continur to ask, just tell them etheir that you just broke up with someone or you like someone.(i know that its lying but it will make them stop.)
I hope that helped :)
♥ Bailea
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Just tell them no and if they ask something else just say that you dont want one right now or that no one catches your eye at the current time that way they get an answer even if its not the one that you think is the right one. I'm sure you're beautiful, I'm not the best looking girl but I eventually got a guy who I'm completely head over heels for, I didn't meet him untill you're age though darlin' so don't fret. Message me if you need me
<3 Rae
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Whenever they ask you that, ask something aquard to them back. They'll get the hint. Or distract them with something completely random, like start breakdancing or something.
I love you,
The Waffler
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