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I wake up in the middle of the night or around like 3 am usually and get up and just drink so much. Like this morning, for instance, I remember getting up and drinking two cans of coke a cola and then a glass of chocolate milk and then just going right back to sleep. I usually do this very fastly. It seems like i cant control it, i just get up and do it without thinking. But i dont even wake up when i need to use the potty!!
Is this/Am I Normal?
What should I Do?
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A lot of people do this.
I would get a big giant cup. Maybe one of those they sell at convenience stores with a lid on it.
Fill it with icy cold water and keep it next to your bed.
By the way, chocolate milk will make you thirsty. Be careful of what you eat or drink before going to bed. Stay away from salty things. That might help a little too. :)
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How can i remember to take my medicine every night?!
I have to take it every 12 hours and i take it around 7 am before school so i guess i'd have to take it around 7 pm nightly. What can I do to help me remember to take it at night? I have a fine time remembering to take it with my other med. in the morning. Help me!
Thanks!
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I have this very same problem.
You can get a container at the drugstore or walmart. It has the days of the week on it and if you can't remember if you took it (my main prob) then you just look at it and see.
I also keep it right by my computer so I see it sitting there. Put it close to where you will be when you need to take it. :)
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Right, i have a best mate called rowan (he's a guy im a girl but im called roHan lol) im 14 he's 14 and we'v been best mates kinda on an off for about 3 years, a month ago our friend nikki had a party and we were laying down and just watching a movie when we started kinda flirting and touching each other up then it prgressed and he fingered me and i gave him a handjob nobody saw us though, Since then we'v had a thing going in secret, we'l go up an alley for a *talk* after school, and stuff will happen, iv gievn him head twice and we'v talked online about fucking and stuff iv had 1 bf during this thing and he's had 2 gfs, its stopped then, thing is i dont actually have a crush on him and he doesnt have one on me, im just a lil confused an all, should i keep it going with him? or should i end it?
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I think you should stop. Save those things for someone who really loves you.
He will use you as long as you allow it. If you want more of a relationship with him...he has no reason to make you more than friends with benefits. If you don't care for him that way, then no sense letting him have his way. :)
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Ok well here it goes..
I like this kid who im friends with and ive liked him for a while. When im around him I just have fun and im myself. Well only two people know and when my one friend asks if I like anyone I say no and she says your lying! and I say im not. I would tell her, but then when we are around him she would be like look look! and make me self concious and a month later she would probobly tell him and ruin it all. I feel bad lying to her and all, but I really just dont want her to know.
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I don't think you are being cruel.
If you can't trust her not to act goofy when the guy you like is around then I wouldn't say anything.
You are already friends with the guy and she probably knows that so I would just leave it at that.
One of these days when a guy asks you out...then you can tell her you like HIM. In the mean time, I think you are handling it okay. Keep it to yourself. :)
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okay i decided to shave 'down there' instead of trimming it and now i have little red bumps down there. how can i get rid of them and if i shave down there again are they going to come back? (link)
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Unfortunatley it will probably happen every time you shave. It is probably razor burn.
You can try a new razor and baby powder helps a little. :)
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two years ago i started going out with this boy he was 15 i was like 16 i didnt really like him that much we had sh together in school and he would always sit behind me and pass me these pieces of paper that said things like your hott and whats your phone number i just thought he was a funny guy. well that summer we got closer and started dating. after a month i broke up with him bc i didnt think i liked him anymore, but things didnt end alltogether we became friends w benefits. then he started dating this other girl who im now best friends with. they recently broke up and now she has a diff bf. fri the 13th he asked me over and we had sex again. its been like 13 days and i havent heard from him and we havent talking in school either. what should i do or say to him? (link)
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What you really need to say to him is no more sex.
He is just using you. He doesn't honestly give a hoot what your feelings are. That's the point of friends with benefits.
Unless a guy is willing to make you his girlfriend and really, honestly cares about you, you shouldn't be having sex with him.
As it stands right now, he has you available for sex whenever the mood takes him. The rest of the time you are left hanging in the wind while other girls get his heart. Move on away from this guy. You can do a lot better then him. :)
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My dad made me cry my eyes out today. This is what happened.
Well last August I was asked by my cousin to be a bridesmaid for her wedding in April of this year. I said yes, and at the time was unemployed. Well I have a job now at a really good company. But I'm still on a 3 month probation. My grandma (who is paying for the wedding) was expecting me to take 3 days off on a weekend this Febuary just for a dress fitting!! She lives 6 hours away, and I would have had to take the greyhound bus. I told my dad this and he started screaming at me, saying that I was going to lose my job over this. I have a mental illness, and this is the first job I've had in 5 years. He said I would never get another job again and that he wanted me to drop out of the wedding, and that the job was too important. Well I started to cry because I really want to be a bridesmaid but also don't want to lose my job. I asked him if he could phone grandma and make some sort of comprimise, like maybe get the dress fitted her. Then he said "the fact that you're crying shows how delicate you are". He was really mean about the whole thing.
I still want to be in the wedding. I talked to my grandma and she is going to send up the fabric for me to get a local seamstress to make the dress so I won't have to take time off work until the wedding. But I'm still really upset at my dad. How should I act around him? And does anyone else think what he said was out of line? (link)
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I think you need to point out to your dad that you are not delicate.
You handled the situation very well. You called grandma and got it worked out just fine.
Your job is probably very important for your self esteem. Dad knows that and flew into a panic.
You, on the other hand got upset and then did something about it. Very good move on your part.
I don't think it is necessary for you to get into an argument with dad about his being out of line. I think he will realize this all on his own. No sense rubbing it in. Just be proud of the fact that you handled it well on your own. :)
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Okay, my boyfriend and I had went to wal-mart recently and he saw his ex girlfriend there. She's 14 and I am 17. My boyfriend is 16 (and they dated for about 9 months and broke up cause she cheated on him twice). Anyhow, he didn't speak to her in the store, he just waved. Now I've been nice to where he can still be friends with her like on the phone, but she took things into her own hands. She called him this morning and told him that she loves him and misses him, and that if we don't work out, that she'll still be there waiting for him....anyhow he says to her, "Do you think I am gonna break-up with for you?" And she got quiet... then she says to him "Well would you go back out with me if that happened?" And he says " I don't know..." ( and as my boyfriend is telling me this I'm thinkin to myself...what do you mean?) So then as we were going to our separate high schools, I gave him a kiss and I told him I loved him... and the he goes "I love Rowbyn (that's the ex's name)" And I knew he was doing that to make me mad... but as I was walking him to his school, I remember him saying "I'm gonna feel funny the rest of the day". So I am wondering if yall think he may leave me for her, or does he still have feelings for her. Any advice I am sure would help! THANKS FOR READING! (link)
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Oh, I think he was only teasing you.
You need to talk to him about it but I really doubt he would have said anything if he were considering going back to her. You would have been the last to know about it.
Tell him it worried you and discuss it. However I wouldn't worry about it to much. :)
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Right now I have a decent paying job that I don't hate. I like most the people I work with and my boss. I'm in a position of power so I have a lot of control which is always good. However, I live an hour away from work. That's a lot of driving and a lot of money going to the car. I want a job closer to home and I have a job interview this week at a place in the town I live in. My problem is, the phone receptionist here is going to have to have her tonsils removed and won't be able to speak for awhile. We are the only people in the office that work full time and the only other phone person is in on Mondays and Tuesdays. I'll be needed here but I don't know when she's actually going to get them removed, need off work, etc. If I do find another job, should I take it? Should I mention my predicament and try to start at the new place after she gets better? I don't want to drive back and forth any longer than I have to but I don't want to leave this office in the lurch. (link)
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I think if all goes well with the interview, and they call you and say you have the job, you put in a 2 weeks notice and begin your new job.
The tonsil removal will probably have the other gal down about a week. However, if she doesn't do it soon...like before you leave, they will manage. So long as you put in the customary 2 weeks notice, you aren't leaving them high and dry. The new employer will probably realize that you will need to give your current employer notice before leaving. :)
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Last Monday we were assigned a paper about something we've failed at and how it affected us. It was due Friday.
I thought about it all of last week and quite honesty, I've never really failed at anything. The only thing I could come up with was freshman year when I got a B in Geometry when I wanted an A and I'm not kidding. So I asked my teacher if I could write about that. She said I could if I wanted an F.
So I decided that I would think about it a little more over the weekend and turn it in for a late grade on Monday.
I thought about it over the weekend--nothing. So I wrote it on how I've never failed at anything and how that makes me feel about my life. I went into depth just like the other students and it was 4 pages long.
Today, she asked me to stay after class. She told me that she gave me a zero because I did not write about what I was supposed to write and that if I don't write about something I FAILED at by tomorrow, she'd keep that zero and not change it.
I think this is way unfair because what I wrote about was true and it was still on topic. I know it wasn't exactly what she asked but what else was I supposed to do? I'm not going to make something up because I'm not good at that and I won't.
What do guys think I should do?
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This one seems so obvious. But I am on this side of the screen.
Write about how you failed to think of something to write your report on.
Give the whole story. Add on how you failed for not failing at anything. :)
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hey, how do i get people to view my colum/ask me for advice?!?! i've had my colum for over a year and only about three poeple have asked me for advice. thanks a million (link)
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That is probably about average.
Usually inbox questions are someone wanting some follow up advice to something you answered on site.
Sometimes they are people who liked the advice you gave them on the site once before.
So, the key is just to give good advice to the questions you answer. Sooner or later someone will want to know more. :)
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i have been going out with this guy for 2 months and our relationtship is great!.. but my best friend doesnt like him that much but she was fine with our relationship for a while... but the other say she told me that either i brake up with him or then she wants nothing to do with me!! she flat out told me choose between her and my boyfriend!!
how do i choose??.. i mean my boyfriend is great but i also love my best friend and would never want to lose her!
thanks.
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She has no right to give you that ultimatum. She isn't dating him you are. Her approval is unnecessary.
She doesnt have to like him, she doesn't have to hang out with him. She isn't much of a friend if that is how she is going to be about it.
You don't choose. She does. Either she is your friend unconditionally, or she isn't. Up to her.
Good luck. :)
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how do u awnser/rate so many qs? (link)
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I really don't answer that many questions. I try to answer only if I can add something new.
I rate so many because I spend so much time on the site. I don't work outside the home any more so I have a lot of time to devote to it.
It won't be held against you for not rating as many as I do. Most people have school, work or other things to do with their day. :)
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i was just typing in advicenators and you no how like theres a history of sites you visited and so if your typing in www.a it will show up www.advicenators.com. so i was typing www and i saw bunches of porn sites like www1._____.com and www2._____.com and all that crap! and then i was going to www.b and it shows up the b word .com. i never went to those and its really weird! i swear i never went there but it is there and no one in my family or friends nos my password. please tell me whats going on!!! thx. (link)
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Just helping out in a different way here because I am not real computer savvy.
Maybe what someone needs to answer for you is this....
First add if anyone else uses the computer besides yourself. Using their own password.
Then maybe someone knows for sure if the history drop down boxes contain history of everyone using Google (or whatever search engine) on your computer, OR if it just keeps your personal history under your password.
My guess is the history includes anyone with access to your computer. But I don't know for sure.
Sorry I couldn't be of more help or if I misunderstood what you are meaning. :)
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well about 5 month ago my friends started to tell me this guy i barley talk to likes me. i knew nothing about him. but he liked me? well i denied it until he came to my face and said i like you. so for the last 5 months we have been writing notes to each other. he is always makes me feel good about my self. he is always flirting with me and touching my butt. well today he said he wanted me. HERE IS THE PROBLEM. he has a g/f!!! i dont no what to do. it is really confusing.. what to do what to do?? (link)
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You tell him you are unavailable until he has no girlfriend. That includes any further but touching.
The girlfriend probably isn't putting out and for some reason he must think you might.
Make sure he gets that idea right out of his head. DO NOT let him use you. You are the one who will get hurt. There are some guys out there who will take advantage of the fact that you like them. Even those who seem to be nice.
Be aware and be careful. :)
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Is there any way of making your breasts smaller? Mine are pretty big and it makes me uncomfortable. Thanks. (link)
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There really isn't to much you can do short of having them surgically reduced in size.
Wearing a tight fitting sports bra may help them look a little smaller.
By uncomfortable do you mean they are causing you shoulder, neck or back pain?
Or, do you mean you have matured faster than some of the other girls your age and are a little embarrassed?
You may want to add that info for those who answer after me.
If they are causing physical pain then you should consult your doctor.
If you are just uncomfortable due to maturing faster, The others will catch up soon.
You may want to talk about it with your mom if you have a good relationship with her. She may have gone through the same thing as a teen and could probably be a lot of help.
Plus, moms really do like helping with problems like this. :)
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Hey. Is it true that guys won't have sex with girls if the don't shave their vaginas? (link)
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No it isn't true at all.
Really, if they are that picky they have a nice clean shaved hand. :)
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K i have a quick ? for my friend, we live in the state of ct, and shes 17 years old, she wants to date a 20 year old guy, but the guy said its ilegal. Is this true? cause i told her from what I read myself , it is not ilegal as of now in the state of ct a 16 year old , and older is legal in the state of ct to date / have sexual contact with a man over the age of 18, but its 2006 all the laws i see are 2005 and older is this still true? thanks for any input my friend would really appreciate it, because i dont kno if the rules have changed i dont kno where to look (link)
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I have for you a chart. It lists the ages of consent by state.
http://teenadvice.about.com/library/weekly/qanda/blageofconsentchart.htm
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:P, just thought I'd have a crack at that bad subject line warning...
Subject:4000+ questions?
Is it me, or have you been answering 13 questions a day for about 10 months??? O_o
How do you answer that many question, and not manage to answer the trivial little short ones that are all the same, without going crazy?
^_^ Thank you
oh yes, "please don't delete" my question 0=)
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Wow! I didn't realize I had answered so many!
That is the amount that I have answered since starting almost a year ago,I think. I answered a LOT when I first started and they were all pretty new to me. Even the really stupid ones.
Now I pick and choose a little better and don't answer all that many. They drive be batty just rating them.
I do rate a lot of questions though. Even if I don't answer them. Since I am not working currently I have plenty of time to do nothing but work on advicenators. :)
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okay so im not exactly sexually active, but ill have my clothes on, and sometimes during a moving my bf will like "touch" me... but like i had been tanning.. and got of course a little burnt cause i hadnt gone in a while. But okay... then i shave n stuff.. well i think i like cut my self.. And i itch ALLL the time at night... and after my bf will touch me.. i start to like hurt.. or it like burns kinda. What is it?? I was scared cause i know like crabs and scabies or whatever make you hecka itch.. but i dont have any of the other side effects... just that i itch. I dunno what to do. I put lotion and the next night im still itching... any ideas or anyone that can relate n tell me what they did that worked? greatly appreciated. (link)
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I have to agree with protossc541. He is on a roll today!
I just wanted to add, do not take an allergy medicine unless a doctor tells you that you have an allergy. If it continues after a few more days, check with your doctor.
Use some baby powder or lotion. Don't feel you have to shave. The majority of women, contrary to popular belief, do not shave.
It is a personal choice of course, but if you don't like that itching...really, you don't have to shave. :)
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