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how can i choose???
i have been going out with this guy for 2 months and our relationtship is great!.. but my best friend doesnt like him that much but she was fine with our relationship for a while... but the other say she told me that either i brake up with him or then she wants nothing to do with me!! she flat out told me choose between her and my boyfriend!!
how do i choose??.. i mean my boyfriend is great but i also love my best friend and would never want to lose her!
thanks.
--confused--
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Well this maybe out of the question but I think that she just told you that one day cause maybe she likes him or did 'something' with him and she doesn't want you to know about. Ok but anyway you should get together with both of them and talk it over with them. It could work and your bestF would understand
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I don't think it's right for your "friend" to say you have to choose between the two best things going for you.. I think it's wrong and immature.. i also think there has to be a reason behind why she "doesn't like him".. if there's something wrong with him to her too bad.. he's not her boyfriend anyways.. she doesn't have to be around you when you're around him and no one's making her like him or even SAID she had to.. obviously she's not a very good friend and if she's really going to make you choose someone then she's not worth your time.. and maybe even if you do lose her as a friend soon enough she'll realize she was being really immature and start to miss you as a friend and want to make up.. if not then it's her loss.. don't choose between them because what's meant to happen will..
I hope I helped <33
Lindsey
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its like this a true friend would never make u pick sides no matter who is on the other side or how much they dislike them they will cope if they really want to be ur friend
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She has no right to give you that ultimatum. She isn't dating him you are. Her approval is unnecessary.
She doesnt have to like him, she doesn't have to hang out with him. She isn't much of a friend if that is how she is going to be about it.
You don't choose. She does. Either she is your friend unconditionally, or she isn't. Up to her.
Good luck. :)
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