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I usually sleep really well, but last night I didn't fall asleep until 2 o clock in the morning. I don't know why. I think it might've been because I was talking to this one guy and I really didn't want ot sign off and go to bed but I had too. So i was thinking about him and stuff and I couldn't sleep.
Does anyone have anything that might help me sleep?
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2 words! SLEEPING PILLS!
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i have been going out with this guy for 2 months and our relationtship is great!.. but my best friend doesnt like him that much but she was fine with our relationship for a while... but the other say she told me that either i brake up with him or then she wants nothing to do with me!! she flat out told me choose between her and my boyfriend!!
how do i choose??.. i mean my boyfriend is great but i also love my best friend and would never want to lose her!
thanks.
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Well this maybe out of the question but I think that she just told you that one day cause maybe she likes him or did 'something' with him and she doesn't want you to know about. Ok but anyway you should get together with both of them and talk it over with them. It could work and your bestF would understand
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Right, i have a best mate called rowan (he's a guy im a girl but im called roHan lol) im 14 he's 14 and we'v been best mates kinda on an off for about 3 years, a month ago our friend nikki had a party and we were laying down and just watching a movie when we started kinda flirting and touching each other up then it prgressed and he fingered me and i gave him a handjob nobody saw us though, Since then we'v had a thing going in secret, we'l go up an alley for a *talk* after school, and stuff will happen, iv gievn him head twice and we'v talked online about fucking and stuff iv had 1 bf during this thing and he's had 2 gfs, its stopped then, thing is i dont actually have a crush on him and he doesnt have one on me, im just a lil confused an all, should i keep it going with him? or should i end it?
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Well maybe if you keep going he will start to like you or maybe your confused because you really do like him but you just dont know it.
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Next week I turn 21. No big deal really, I was legal at 19 were I live.
A while ago me and my boyfriend agreed for a whole bunch of reasons to not focus on our birthdays too much this year, just do something nice for valintines day. Which was totally cool with me. But now my girlfriends want to take me out for my birthday.
The thing is everybody, even myself, wants this to be a girls night thing. I don't even think my boyfriend would want to come to the place they have in mind, but I'm not sure how to tell him that I want to spend my birthday with just my close group of girls. What should I do? (link)
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Maybe have a birthday dinner with him on the day before or a lunch on your birthday then tell him youu are going out with your girls that night,he should understamd
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Ok so i have known this guy all my life! well a few years ago he moved ..but we still kept in touch occasionally. and also we have always considered each other bro and sis, well he moved back this past summer and everything was ok and all but now he calls me at a minimum of 8 times a day! and every weekend he is with me. now dont get me wrong i love the boy to death but he comes with me and my frieds on our "girls night outs" and then staurday nights he comes to my house then sunday he is hear to! and i dont want to be mean and i have even tried saying things in the past liek well why dont u go do this or that...and even trying to be mean dont work because he doesnt take me serious! please HELP ME i dotn no what i am going to do. and the other problem with him he tells me who i can and cant date..he doesnt liek me are anything he is just..i dont even no how to explain it. and GUys want talk to me alot becaus ethey think im dating him or there afraid he want liek him. (link)
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Ok maybe he does like you,but just doesn't show it to you. To me it looks like he is in LOVE with you!! Maybe he just wants to be really close to you cause he is being protective like a brother
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I have this friend, who told me that she thought she might like this guy, and added him to her 'list' of guys. There were maybe 3 guys that were on her list of people she could potentially like. I knew all of them, and found out that one of the guys was in my homeroom and one of my classes. I was supportive of my friend's feelings for all the guys on her list, and kept away from them, but I found myself sort of attracted to this one guy. I started to like him, and my friend found out. I felt (and still feel) horrible, and apologized in person, over aim, over the phone and i wrote a really long letter, but she ignored me every time. She also brought a bunch of my other friends into it and they took her side, and pretty much stopped talking to me. they were my four best friends, and now they hardly even look my way. i don't know what else to do, so i've sort of just...given up. but i couldn't help it, i felt terrible, and tried really hard to make it up to her...is it so much my fault that i deserve to lose those friends?
by the way: i'm a freshman in high school, girl, 15. (link)
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Ok well if she has a 'list' then she shouldn't be mad at you. She has a few guys she likes and you only have 1. Its ok for you to like someone and she doesn't need to get mad at you for that. No being mean but that is a very selfish thing for her to do.
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Well this year has been pretty hard for me in the relationship category...
I havent totally gotten over my ex from this summer...We went out for like 7 months... And well ive had 2 well u can call them relationships after him... But they last for like a week cause its not the same... I always end up calling them "his name" and then its ends up in a big fight.. Well im a litle better now cause he was a new girlfriend and he is quote quote in love with him...
But recently this really hot guy moved in next door... I think he likes me cause everytime i go outside he will go and quidency go to his car and get something... And come to find out he is in my spanish class... Well moving on... I really really like him... I havent liked someone like this in awhile... But we have never talked... What should i do... I mean its weird how he has said hi to my grandmother (which i live with) but he is shy to come talk to me... What should i do that wouldnt make me look desperate?? (link)
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You should go to him,cause you sometimes just have to do stuff yourself. Maybe he is thinking the same thing as you and waiting for you to come to him.
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I got an offer to start babysitting but I have a probllem. Its really stupid but, Ive seen the commercials to "When A Stranger Calls" the new horror movie about the girl babysitting. Im afraid that when I babysit a) IT WILL HAPPEN.. or b) Ill be too freaked out and the kids will get scared, or I wont be able to take care of them because Im too scared. It will also be my FIRST time babysitting. What can i do to make myself feel safer?! (link)
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LOL yeah I know how you feel. Well if someone calls and says all that stuff then do *69,or ask a friend to stay and help you cause its alot easier to do something with a friend then by yourself
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THANK YOU SO MUCH IN ADVANCE FOR ANSWERING THIS AND I AM SORRY IF IT IS LONG BUT I REALLY NEED HELP WITH THIS.
So i have a really good friend and he has been talking about suicide all this week and he is really starting to scare me. I talk to him about how much i care about him etc. but still he said i dont think ill kill myself just now. but later i dont know. IM SO WORRIED ABOUT MY FRIEND! and try to have some other answer besides tell someone because i know that and i am considering it. So please any other good ideas.. ILL RATE 5'S FOR ALL SERIOUS ANSWERS
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Ok I had this some problem before. Well what I did is I like cried right in front of him and told him all the good things about him and all he has done for me. People say they don't care what you say but in the inside they really wanna know that you care for them and will do anything for them. Tell him that he doesn't need to do sucide cause he is not only hurting himself but his family and friends.I really hope I helped some cause I know how it feels to have someone close to you say that stuff it is scary.
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omg. my best friend in the world is being a slut. i mena i love the chick to death but her ex-boyfriend who used her then broke up with her to have "fun" over the break are doing any SEXUAL THING U CAN THING OF. theyve tried haveing sex 3 times but dude. the guy doesnt even like her and isnt planning on even asking her out. and shes inlove with him. hes such a man whore and i told her that she can pick up desises and stuff like that but she acts like she didnt even do anything wrong. i dont know how to tell her to stop without coming off as a controlling freak you know. I LOVE HER TO DEATH but i dont want to yell at her and make it to where she cant tell me stuff anymore. PLEASE HELP! what do i do.
ps. SHES TWELVE. (link)
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OMG! Shes 12? She doesn't need to throw her life away over this one guy,tell her the truth and if she is really your friend then she will believe you. If she doesn't then think of a way to get the guy to confess and like record it or have her there where she is not at or just have her there and trivk him into confessing. If he is with another girl sometimes have her like walk in on them I did that to my friend and it so worked. Ok so I'm guessing shes not a virgin anymore lol well tell her that risk of getting a diease,and that some of them can kill you and if you do have one it is embarrassing going to the doctor and telling them that.
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Ok some of you may think this is extremely dumb and think I am nuts; but when you have no desire, you don't want to do much. In Sept, I got my heart broken by a guy I was in love with, my first of everything, so it was a killer. But when the left, he took my everything including my desire to continue with my education. I started missing days for no reason, just staying home for no reason; now I am up to 15.5 days of absence. Meaning I can't be absent without a doctor excuse, which blows because no one goes to the doctor for a tummy ache or just a migrane(which I suffer with a lot). But not only so, I just don't like the atmosphere at school, it's a drag. This whole area is depressed, there isn't much us teens can do without getting into trouble. So legally, I can pull myself out of school and I've talked it over with my mom, she doesn't agree but can't make me stay since I am legally able to drop out. Everyone gives me the, "you're too bright, you have a lot going for you, you could be anything you wanted, you could go anywhere you wanted... why settle for a GED or even shut the doors to all those opportunities?" But I can't just tell them I have no desire anymore, they wouldn't understand. So my question is.... should I just stick this year out (I have till the end of May.. which is like 80 something days) or do what I think will give me peace of mind and drop out? Please help me because no one around me seems to be... I'll rate good, promise!!!! (link)
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Well I just think you should stick it out because you don't need to throw your life away over some guy believe me its so not worth it.80 More days isn't that bad so yeah stick it out and try your hardest its better then being a drop out and haveing to get a sucky job cause you never went to collage lol. Ok I hope this helped at leasta alittle bit.
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